Not A Pity Party Logical Question

[GettinBig1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GettinBig1]

Hey, glad I could help, Serg. And im glad PE seems to be working well for you! Just keep chasing those positive pis!

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Can't read the thread but it's plain sexy and hence is attractive when a man tries to improve himself.

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

I apologize I misunderstood islander, but did you mean a big penis is plain sexy?
Or a man trying to improve himself in any way is?

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Serg
A man that on his own " no pushing from us females" does something to improve himself. Being his mind, body, intellect, views on life ( huge) is so damn sexy.
Even when I was younger I was attracted to the guys who imagined. Had dreams. Loved to learn. Problem solve or at least try to.
I've NEVER kept the big dicked partners. Not one. In the beginning if you have sex too soon she won't bond. Big dick or not rarely will you be kept. You know her dark side. She can't keep that lol
It happens sure you hear stories. They slept together on first date still together 10+ years... But I know of few.
Anyway I don't know your stats but the fact that you are HERE trying to ease your personal problem to me is sexy.
You are not just complaining or driving around day dreaming of your dick. You are literally doing something about your dick health = better health = better mental health. Good luck and it's all good stuff!!

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Can't edit I'll delete this one later
Meant "something about your dick health = better health " etc..

[AverageDude48 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close AverageDude48]

Serg, Good morning! So, you are not really new here. I am not really new here, either.

Here is what I am reading from your question: am I good enough?

Here is my answer: If you think that you are, then yes you are. If you think that you are not, then no you are not.

I am 48 years old. In pretty good shape. Don't have the biggest dick on the planet (thank God for that!) and have struggled - in the past - about that. Have heard "You are the smallest I have even been with" from just about all of them. And it used to bother me. A lot! Guess what? I totally projected that. Badly. I might as well have had "My dick is not the biggest you will ever see" tattooed on my forehead.

But, that changed. And it changed because I changed. I am good enough. In fact, you are lucky that I would spend five minutes of my time talking to you (now, I am not really a freaking snob....but if you want to get pissy with me then I can put you in your place in a very polite but effective way).

I lost a bunch of weight. I started working out with weights as well as running. My body responded well. So did the ladies. A lot! I was always worried about "is my dick big enough?". I was not worried about cumming too fast. Thank the good Lord that has never really been a problem. Just, am I too small?

Well, I tell ya what! Maybe, for some girls, I am not big enough. But I am not too small. This much I know. And, I am working on improving myself. Because I want to. Not because some chick - and we all know that chicks play mind games and that they always end up going for the jugular....er, for our dicks - made a comment. Because I want to have the best dick I can have. If some chick does not like it then she can go elsewhere. Funny. I have yet to be with a woman one time. Read: with a woman sexually and she never came back for seconds (at least). So, I must be doing something right!

So, here is something that I might suggest to you....and it is going to sound totally crazy. But it really helped me:

1. Go to bars
2. While sipping your favorite adult drink, watch how the guys approach the women and how the women filter the guys.

HUH? What does that have to do with this?

Confidence. That is how. A woman is going to be attracted to confidence. Sure, it helps to look really good. That never hurts. But the average dude (ring any bells? LOL!) with a healthy and balanced amount of confidence is going to get the chicks that even the best looking dudes can not touch *IF* the best looking dudes have no personality. Or confidence.

Not bragging....but about one month ago (or so) I picked up two Juniors from Wake Forest. These two hotties were very very attractive, had banging bodies, were super sexy and just needed some male attention. I gave that to them. They were the ones who suggested that we go back to their place. They were somewhat forward. They started talking about sex while we were sitting in our favorite coffee shop. They fed off of my confidence. I was not even thinking about having sex with them but they kept getting closer and closer while we spoke and maintained awesome eye contact while we were speaking. Their bodies gave off all sorts of very positive 'body language'. And they kept touching my arms and shoulders. And chest. I did not get shy or change my behavior. I was me. Anyway, that was a lot of fun. Something that happened several times. Point here: I was confident and strong. They fed off of that. I promise you that I do not look like someone you would see in any magazine ads or bill boards. I am kinda 'invisible' when it comes to looks. But I like my chances if you start talking to me.

Anyway, go to bars and watch that whole game. You will start to see patterns. You will see how guys who are confident are going to approach more women....better looking women. And, they will not get filtered so quickly. If at all! And watch the guys that do well. Watch their body language. I am telling you....there is a lot to be said for body language. Good or bad, a chick is going to tell you EXACTLY what she thinks of you in two seconds. Just like you tell a chick EXACTLY what you think of yourself in two seconds. Anyway, that is outside the scope of this forum.

What is in the scope of this forum......I do not have the biggest dick....neither the longest nor the thickest....but my dick is freaking awesome. I have given so many women totally awesome orgasms with my dick that I am not worried about the few 'size queens'. Their loss.

SIDEBAR: And, if I might suggest, you have a mouth, tongue, hands and fingers, right? I give an amazing G-Spot massage. I have made women squirt who have never squirted before. And my tongue can make any women cum in three minutes. Confidence. I know that I can do this. I do not go bragging about that to women. That is a turn off. With women, you need to let their imagination fill in the details. You dick is not going to be hard all the time. Make a woman cum with your tongue (clit) and with your fingers (G-Spot) and you just made quite a name for yourself.

Worry more about having a ROCK HARD erection that stays ROCK HARD. I am pretty sure that is of more interest to women. I mean, the dude that is 8" but not so hard....I know that every women will pick my ROCK HARD 5.5" dick over that. I get rock hard. Thank the good Lord....and PE, right? They notice that sort of thing. My female friends will tell me "...there was something wrong....he was not rock hard....do you think that I was doing something wrong?". So, get ROCK HARD for your girl and stay ROCK HARD. She is not going to care if your are 5.5 inches or 6.5 inches or 7.5 inches. She is just going to care that you were rock hard.

Does this make sense to you?

[biohazard22 Member Find all posts View Profile Close biohazard22]

Serg, Good morning! So, you are not really new here. I am not really new here, either.

Here is what I am reading from your question: am I good enough?

Here is my answer: If you think that you are, then yes you are. If you think that you are not, then no you are not.

I am 48 years old. In pretty good shape. Don't have the biggest dick on the planet (thank God for that!) and have struggled - in the past - about that. Have heard "You are the smallest I have even been with" from just about all of them. And it used to bother me. A lot! Guess what? I totally projected that. Badly. I might as well have had "My dick is not the biggest you will ever see" tattooed on my forehead.

But, that changed. And it changed because I changed. I am good enough. In fact, you are lucky that I would spend five minutes of my time talking to you (now, I am not really a freaking snob....but if you want to get pissy with me then I can put you in your place in a very polite but effective way).

I lost a bunch of weight. I started working out with weights as well as running. My body responded well. So did the ladies. A lot! I was always worried about "is my dick big enough?". I was not worried about cumming too fast. Thank the good Lord that has never really been a problem. Just, am I too small?

Well, I tell ya what! Maybe, for some girls, I am not big enough. But I am not too small. This much I know. And, I am working on improving myself. Because I want to. Not because some chick - and we all know that chicks play mind games and that they always end up going for the jugular....er, for our dicks - made a comment. Because I want to have the best dick I can have. If some chick does not like it then she can go elsewhere. Funny. I have yet to be with a woman one time. Read: with a woman sexually and she never came back for seconds (at least). So, I must be doing something right!

So, here is something that I might suggest to you....and it is going to sound totally crazy. But it really helped me:

1. Go to bars
2. While sipping your favorite adult drink, watch how the guys approach the women and how the women filter the guys.

HUH? What does that have to do with this?

Confidence. That is how. A woman is going to be attracted to confidence. Sure, it helps to look really good. That never hurts. But the average dude (ring any bells? LOL!) with a healthy and balanced amount of confidence is going to get the chicks that even the best looking dudes can not touch *IF* the best looking dudes have no personality. Or confidence.

Not bragging....but about one month ago (or so) I picked up two Juniors from Wake Forest. These two hotties were very very attractive, had banging bodies, were super sexy and just needed some male attention. I gave that to them. They were the ones who suggested that we go back to their place. They were somewhat forward. They started talking about sex while we were sitting in our favorite coffee shop. They fed off of my confidence. I was not even thinking about having sex with them but they kept getting closer and closer while we spoke and maintained awesome eye contact while we were speaking. Their bodies gave off all sorts of very positive 'body language'. And they kept touching my arms and shoulders. And chest. I did not get shy or change my behavior. I was me. Anyway, that was a lot of fun. Something that happened several times. Point here: I was confident and strong. They fed off of that. I promise you that I do not look like someone you would see in any magazine ads or bill boards. I am kinda 'invisible' when it comes to looks. But I like my chances if you start talking to me.

Anyway, go to bars and watch that whole game. You will start to see patterns. You will see how guys who are confident are going to approach more women....better looking women. And, they will not get filtered so quickly. If at all! And watch the guys that do well. Watch their body language. I am telling you....there is a lot to be said for body language. Good or bad, a chick is going to tell you EXACTLY what she thinks of you in two seconds. Just like you tell a chick EXACTLY what you think of yourself in two seconds. Anyway, that is outside the scope of this forum.

What is in the scope of this forum......I do not have the biggest dick....neither the longest nor the thickest....but my dick is freaking awesome. I have given so many women totally awesome orgasms with my dick that I am not worried about the few 'size queens'. Their loss.

SIDEBAR: And, if I might suggest, you have a mouth, tongue, hands and fingers, right? I give an amazing G-Spot massage. I have made women squirt who have never squirted before. And my tongue can make any women cum in three minutes. Confidence. I know that I can do this. I do not go bragging about that to women. That is a turn off. With women, you need to let their imagination fill in the details. You dick is not going to be hard all the time. Make a woman cum with your tongue (clit) and with your fingers (G-Spot) and you just made quite a name for yourself.

Worry more about having a ROCK HARD erection that stays ROCK HARD. I am pretty sure that is of more interest to women. I mean, the dude that is 8" but not so hard....I know that everyone women will pick my over that. I get rock hard. Thank the good Lord....and PE, right? They notice that sort of thing. My female friend will tell me "...there was something wrong....he was not rock hard....do you think that I was doing something wrong?". So, get ROCK HARD for your girl and stay ROCK HARD. She is not going to care if your are 5.5 inches or 6.5 inches or 7.5 inches.

Does this make sense to you?

This guy nailed it. You're born if the tool you got, work with it. You may be able to grow up to 1" with EQ improvement. Get hard and stay hard. It makes all the difference. As with other organs in the body made of smooth muscle, it is actually detrimental to stretch. This is no different for penile smooth muscle. Be happy with what you've got and learn to make it the best it can be.

[AverageDude48 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close AverageDude48]

Thanks, BioHazzard22!

My experience is my experience. I do think that I know women pretty well. Still have a lot to learn....but like where I am.

PE is going to help me. If I can gain an inch in length that would be awesome. If I don't, no worries. I would love to gain an inch in girth, too. If I don't then I don't. Not gonna stop breathing, right? What is really important, though, is EQ and overall penis health. Just like my body...which I can improve it with weight training, cardio and proper diet....my dick can bet healthier. :-) That is a very comforting thought.

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

That makes alot of sense averagedude, ive been peing im 5.5" as well with stupid great EQ, but i wont settle for what i have, i will PE until im bigger altogether.
Wishful10x8 went from 5" to close to 8".
The same will happen for me

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Even if it takes years, i will do it, cuz i wont be able to accept where im at right now until its more
Im very determined

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

And thanks islander, its very alleviating to hear a woman reassure you

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Yw Serg
Ty for the edit longer xo

[PE Evolution Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PE Evolution]

Everything girl has their own preferences and philosophies on penis size. but bigger penises can hit spots smaller penises cant. Yes some do have fantasies but sadly we can't control this. Don't date a immature size queen cuz in this world a lot of girls have unrealistic expectations

[PE Evolution Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PE Evolution]

If ur at least five inches ur capable of making a girl orgasm.
Deeper penetration tho can hit the a-spot and cervix. Which triggers girls to squirt. If ur worried about ur size penis enlargement is the way too go it works I've gained a half inch in length and quarter inch in girth. Results may very. I was already blessed with a bigger than average cock. But anyone can get secure from porn since everyone in the industry lies

[PE Evolution Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PE Evolution]

Most girls are ignorant and can't even take large penises. Most women can only take 4-7 inches when aroused some women can take more. Vaginas only go so far but even p ussy size varies like penis size does