Cross posted with fetlife. I'm interested if the response will be different.
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Hello. As a guy who has only relatively recently discovered he can get himself off with a vibrator alone, I have discovered certain ways of doing it better. I'm interested if such small things carry over and would put me into the "OMG you know how to do that!" place. And if you had any other tips.
So, rather than just plonking it down, I have to move around a bit. Find a sweet spot, then don't stay on that spot for too long, as the sweet spot tends to move.
Don't just leave it there, rock it gently.
Start gently, then later. sometimes push it on/in hard so it hits deeper. But change.
Once I'm/you're well under way, then find a sweet spot, then stay there for a bit, pushing in about half...
...Then release.
Doing that, it's very much a release, I get a rush, flooding out from the point I was on. For a second. Then push the vibe on again. Then release... boom. Then push it on again. Repeatedly.
I can do that maybe five times in the same spot, then do something different. Leave it gently on, roll it around a little, or find another sweet spot.
Also, I've found that like I say, the sweet spot moves, more so after a short while when I'm getting somewhere, and moving around, I'll hit a spot that was never a spot before, that'll feel different and amazing. Obviously it's easy for me to stop and go "yeah, stay there"... as I'm sure you would in your own way too.
Anyway, just what I've found getting myself off. Does any of that work the same for you guys? Or would you just prefer to be tied up and have a magic wand forced on you until you explode? haha
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Hello. As a guy who has only relatively recently discovered he can get himself off with a vibrator alone, I have discovered certain ways of doing it better. I'm interested if such small things carry over and would put me into the "OMG you know how to do that!" place. And if you had any other tips.
So, rather than just plonking it down, I have to move around a bit. Find a sweet spot, then don't stay on that spot for too long, as the sweet spot tends to move.
Don't just leave it there, rock it gently.
Start gently, then later. sometimes push it on/in hard so it hits deeper. But change.
Once I'm/you're well under way, then find a sweet spot, then stay there for a bit, pushing in about half...
...Then release.
Doing that, it's very much a release, I get a rush, flooding out from the point I was on. For a second. Then push the vibe on again. Then release... boom. Then push it on again. Repeatedly.
I can do that maybe five times in the same spot, then do something different. Leave it gently on, roll it around a little, or find another sweet spot.
Also, I've found that like I say, the sweet spot moves, more so after a short while when I'm getting somewhere, and moving around, I'll hit a spot that was never a spot before, that'll feel different and amazing. Obviously it's easy for me to stop and go "yeah, stay there"... as I'm sure you would in your own way too.
Anyway, just what I've found getting myself off. Does any of that work the same for you guys? Or would you just prefer to be tied up and have a magic wand forced on you until you explode? haha

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