I have been struggling with the decision to divorce my wife or not. We are very toxic in our relationship, but also very much in love? I question that because her behavior does not fit with my definition of love. So through some horrible crying jags (both) she has asked for a 1 month divorce reprieve. She will show me she can be a good and true wife, and then we will proceed from there.
I can't tell you how many redos we have engaged in over 30 years of marriage. Let's just say it has been a lot. This is so painful. I have spent about a week struggling with MY choice as to whether to engage in another redo, or just to cut and run. After 30 years it seems obvious that we are not going to get to healthy relationship. Butttttttt 30 years is an awful waste of time if it really would change. God help me. PEGym help me.