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Hi guys,
Kinda embarrassed to even talk about this. I haven't been in a relationship with a girl for a very long time. So I met this girl that I really like, the last couple weeks we've been kissing and cuddling.
The one weekend we got together I was almost naked, she was naked, and my dick just didn't get hard. At all. I gave her oral sex, which she enjoyed. But my dick was soft. Maybe it's just a one time thing, I thought. We joked about it and she was understanding, but deep down I was embarrassed as all hell.
So I have no problems having an erection by myself. However since I haven't been in a relationship in about 10 years (yes, really 10 years), I've been masturbating to porn. I haven't put myself out there, concentrating on my job and just living the single life which I've enjoyed.
I'm 34 years old. So anyway, she came to my place on Friday, and we were getting ready to do the nasty. Dick was slightly hard, perhaps 70%, and we were having intercourse. After a few minutes, I could tell my dick was getting slightly soft.
So after 3-4 minutes of thrusting, I kinda stopped and just laid beside her, feeling her up. Again, feeling really frustrated. I don't know if this issue is related to masturbating to porn for several years.
Now enter Cialis. I went to a medical practicener who said I should waste my time on Cialis, and said I'm just really anxious, hence the poor performance. So he wrote a presciption for 10mg x 2. I took one 10mg pill and after a few hours my dick was a pipe. Rock hard.
Went to my girls place, and ... nothing happened. Her kids were there, so we kinda just snuggled and kissed. No sex. Fast forward 2 days later, dick somewhat hard when aroused but not nearly as hard when taking the 10mg dose of Cialis.
I have no doubt that taking Cialis will give me much needed confidence. My only concern is that my dick is so rock hard that it actually hurts a little to bend it away from me. I can move it far more if I just have my normal non-Cialis erection. I don't know if anyone else has had a similar experience, if it's normal, won't pose problems etc.
Now I've also heard of edging. I've never done any edging up until yesterday. I've been told, by reading the posts here that it can help promote blood flow to the penis to keep and maintain healthy erections for longer. So I'm definitely going to keep on doing this, in the hopes that it helps my situation.
I'm going to see this girl next week on Wednesday. I think I'm going to take a 10mg dose of Cialis just to boost my confidence. But I'm not happy about doing it. I'm 34, I should be in my prime. But admittedly I am an anxious person, not just in the bedroom.
I'm hoping by doing the edging and staying off porn that my results improve. My issue isn't physical, at least I suspect it isn't as I can get an erection. My girl doesn't like giving oral, so I have to get and maintain my erections elsewhere.
Do you guys have similar experiences? What did you do to improve matters?
Kinda embarrassed to even talk about this. I haven't been in a relationship with a girl for a very long time. So I met this girl that I really like, the last couple weeks we've been kissing and cuddling.
The one weekend we got together I was almost naked, she was naked, and my dick just didn't get hard. At all. I gave her oral sex, which she enjoyed. But my dick was soft. Maybe it's just a one time thing, I thought. We joked about it and she was understanding, but deep down I was embarrassed as all hell.
So I have no problems having an erection by myself. However since I haven't been in a relationship in about 10 years (yes, really 10 years), I've been masturbating to porn. I haven't put myself out there, concentrating on my job and just living the single life which I've enjoyed.
I'm 34 years old. So anyway, she came to my place on Friday, and we were getting ready to do the nasty. Dick was slightly hard, perhaps 70%, and we were having intercourse. After a few minutes, I could tell my dick was getting slightly soft.
So after 3-4 minutes of thrusting, I kinda stopped and just laid beside her, feeling her up. Again, feeling really frustrated. I don't know if this issue is related to masturbating to porn for several years.
Now enter Cialis. I went to a medical practicener who said I should waste my time on Cialis, and said I'm just really anxious, hence the poor performance. So he wrote a presciption for 10mg x 2. I took one 10mg pill and after a few hours my dick was a pipe. Rock hard.
Went to my girls place, and ... nothing happened. Her kids were there, so we kinda just snuggled and kissed. No sex. Fast forward 2 days later, dick somewhat hard when aroused but not nearly as hard when taking the 10mg dose of Cialis.
I have no doubt that taking Cialis will give me much needed confidence. My only concern is that my dick is so rock hard that it actually hurts a little to bend it away from me. I can move it far more if I just have my normal non-Cialis erection. I don't know if anyone else has had a similar experience, if it's normal, won't pose problems etc.
Now I've also heard of edging. I've never done any edging up until yesterday. I've been told, by reading the posts here that it can help promote blood flow to the penis to keep and maintain healthy erections for longer. So I'm definitely going to keep on doing this, in the hopes that it helps my situation.
I'm going to see this girl next week on Wednesday. I think I'm going to take a 10mg dose of Cialis just to boost my confidence. But I'm not happy about doing it. I'm 34, I should be in my prime. But admittedly I am an anxious person, not just in the bedroom.
I'm hoping by doing the edging and staying off porn that my results improve. My issue isn't physical, at least I suspect it isn't as I can get an erection. My girl doesn't like giving oral, so I have to get and maintain my erections elsewhere.
Do you guys have similar experiences? What did you do to improve matters?
Admin of the Month Mar 2015
DROP PORN, & you'll regain your confidence, plus not develop an unhealthy dependency on expensive pills you don't need. A WIN-WIN! GOOD Luck doing your "research" er ah, REBOOT! You'll be FINE!
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