28 years old - Why do I Struggle Do Get an Erection During Sex?

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I think I'm gonna have to tell her that I took the Cialis that one night/morning that I banged her brains out.

She just keeps bringing it up over and over. "Baby I just want you to give it to me like you did that one time. That was so amazing. I don't understand why you can't do that all the time. I keep replaying that day in my head to try to figure out what we did different. Please try to do that again. I get turned on just thinking about that day. You didn't even seem bothered then, and now it is just a struggle. I just want you babe"

I feel really bad at this point. I'm gonna have to tell her. And now I'm afraid that I'm never gonna live up to that ever again without the help of drugs. And now she is gonna think that I can't have great sex with her unless I take a pill.

Smh, where do I go from here?

And again a guy with head issues but no physical problem headed for addiction.
Deal with the anxiety which is the real problem.

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And again a guy with head issues but no physical problem headed for addiction.
Deal with the anxiety which is the real problem.

It's 100 times easier said then done

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I think I'm gonna have to tell her that I took the Cialis that one night/morning that I banged her brains out.

She just keeps bringing it up over and over. "Baby I just want you to give it to me like you did that one time. That was so amazing. I don't understand why you can't do that all the time. I keep replaying that day in my head to try to figure out what we did different. Please try to do that again. I get turned on just thinking about that day. You didn't even seem bothered then, and now it is just a struggle. I just want you babe"

I feel really bad at this point. I'm gonna have to tell her. And now I'm afraid that I'm never gonna live up to that ever again without the help of drugs. And now she is gonna think that I can't have great sex with her unless I take a pill.

Smh, where do I go from here?

Honesty is critical in any relationship.

I don't care if it's a sexual dysfunction, or any other issue in your relationship. But, especially with ED you need to be honest, for this very reason.

Now, you're worried. You're feeling guilty. You're feeling anxious. Three erection killers!

Pos - have you seen a physician to rule out a physical problem? (You may have already mentioned this - sorry, if you have.) ED can be a symptom of a more serious problem.

[PositiveVibes27 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PositiveVibes27]

Honesty is critical in any relationship.

I don't care if it's a sexual dysfunction, or any other issue in your relationship. But, especially with ED you need to be honest, for this very reason.

Now, you're worried. You're feeling guilty. You're feeling anxious. Three erection killers!

Pos - have you seen a physician to rule out a physical problem? (You may have already mentioned this - sorry, if you have.) ED can be a symptom of a more serious problem.

I haven't seen a doctor, and I probably should just to rule things out. But I am 90 percent positive it's all mental.

I have no issue getting erections when I'm masturbating, and I get boners when I make out with her sometimes. It's just the thought of possible bad sex that kills them.