I am 45 years old and began suffering from ED about 4 - 4.5 years ago. My T level was fine the last time it was checked when the ED first surfaced. I couldn't get it up or keep it up to penetrate my wife. Work stress was high and marital problems existed. She was making me wear condoms and it pissed me off. I thought my issues were mental impotence and I have used self hypnosis, I tried Ageless Male, Horny Goat Weed, I've lost 50 pounds through diet and exercise and got my blood pressure down to normal. Nothing helped in the bedroom except Cialis, which I cannot afford to take regularly. This has ruined my life and it consumes my mind all day, every day.
I notice normal, daily morning erections. I can get an erection with a little lube and masturbation. About six months to a year ago, when I've had opportunities for sex, I did not have an erection without stimulation and then it always went away before penetration. My wife would not give me oral for foreplay. She expected me to have an erection without foreplay, like when I was in my 20's and 30's. The marital relationship sucked and I blamed my issues and mental impotence on our poor marital relationship.
I have never suffered from premature ejaculation, but now as soon as I coerce an erection I feel like I am going to orgasm and I need to stop and take it slow.
My wife has gone to a divorce attorney, I am under a lot of stress, I am not sleeping and am losing weight. Maybe this caused LOW T test results. I also have suffered from sleep apnea.
My doctor told me my T level is 190 and that the lowest level on the charts is 241. When I asked, he said 241 is low for a 70 year old man. He suggested Testosterone Replacment Therapy to fix all of my problems. He told me there was no natural way to increase my T level and HRT is the only way. I do not want to live a sexless life, but I don't want to grow man boobs, have my testicles atrophy and get an enlarged prostate or cancer from artificial Testosterone drug treatments.
I am glad to finally know what the issue is but I need to get my T level up to normal naturally. Is this even possible? I am 45 years old and need to find the root cause of my Low T before I agree to a life on artificial hormones.
I am beside myself right now. I am grateful for any suggestions or similar stories from anyone who has resolved this issue.
Thank you and Best Regards,
I notice normal, daily morning erections. I can get an erection with a little lube and masturbation. About six months to a year ago, when I've had opportunities for sex, I did not have an erection without stimulation and then it always went away before penetration. My wife would not give me oral for foreplay. She expected me to have an erection without foreplay, like when I was in my 20's and 30's. The marital relationship sucked and I blamed my issues and mental impotence on our poor marital relationship.
I have never suffered from premature ejaculation, but now as soon as I coerce an erection I feel like I am going to orgasm and I need to stop and take it slow.
My wife has gone to a divorce attorney, I am under a lot of stress, I am not sleeping and am losing weight. Maybe this caused LOW T test results. I also have suffered from sleep apnea.
My doctor told me my T level is 190 and that the lowest level on the charts is 241. When I asked, he said 241 is low for a 70 year old man. He suggested Testosterone Replacment Therapy to fix all of my problems. He told me there was no natural way to increase my T level and HRT is the only way. I do not want to live a sexless life, but I don't want to grow man boobs, have my testicles atrophy and get an enlarged prostate or cancer from artificial Testosterone drug treatments.
I am glad to finally know what the issue is but I need to get my T level up to normal naturally. Is this even possible? I am 45 years old and need to find the root cause of my Low T before I agree to a life on artificial hormones.
I am beside myself right now. I am grateful for any suggestions or similar stories from anyone who has resolved this issue.
Thank you and Best Regards,

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