Hello!

[SemiErectionsSUCK Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SemiErectionsSUCK]

I'm about a month into the JP90....
I will say that my EQ has improved quite a bit. I no longer have an issue with getting a rock hard erection... My main issue is maybe mental now. During sex I don't get as hard as I do when I'm masturbating. What should I be thinking about during sex? What can I do to clear my mind? Any tips on maintaining my rock hard erections as I stand up?

Thank you guys.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Try enjoying it instead of making it a contest.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Pour yourself into your partner and use all 5 of your senses when you have sex. Don't limit yourself, explore each other fully and with your tongues, fingers, sex toys, positions, and without any time constraints. Even BDSM can provide extra excitement if you're both willing to experiment. Make sex a FUN and EROTIC adventure, instead of a manual routine!

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Do you watch porn?

[SemiErectionsSUCK Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SemiErectionsSUCK]

Do you watch porn?

Yes.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

That is likely one of the problems here. Your excitement level mechanism is out of alignment. Our brains become trained to the porn and it creates an unrealistic expectations of sex. Try stopping the porn. It rebooted me and made sex better again. If you can train your brain to get its dopamine rush from being with a partner again everything will be wonderful.

[zezeze Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close zezeze]

Our brains become trained to the porn and it creates an unrealistic expectations of sex.

In what sense does porn create unrealistic expectations of sex?

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

The same way Fast and Furious teachs drivers education.

[zezeze Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close zezeze]

The same way Fast and Furious teachs drivers education.

I think rather than telling everyone that porn is their problem, as it tends to be the trend on this board, it would be more appropriate to let them decide that themselves. Anything excessive can be a problem, but if used within reason it shouldn't be a problem but a pleasure. You can of course limit your life to no porn, alcohol, sweets or bingo if you go in excess with everything, but then that is your actual problem rather blaming food for being fat.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

There really is nothing o value in porn. Where as food has great merit. Life with no porn would not be a problem for anyone. I also don't tell everyone not to watch porn, just the ones who seem to have trouble with it. Like me, I am also that guy who likes food too much. Exess is the problem, but limiting something with no true value seems like an OK trade off to me.
I appreciate the fact some can use it and apparently not have an issue.