Do not ejaculate

[chodeboy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chodeboy]

Actually, I am/have been attempting this for a few years now.

And my aim is to be able to not ever ejaculate by accident (which is always the reason if ever happens with me now).

So I could basically just never ejaculate if I chose.

I don't know what its like when its a result of actual sex.
But when Ive ejaculated through masterbating Ive always felt tired and drained, (sometimes more than other times) after. And I agree, that atleast for me, sometimes it can feel abit like your life energy is drained a little, temporarily.
In the hornier state before when Ive build up my juice I feel full of energy and just pretty good/strong in general.
I dont like thefeeling of that state suddenly vanishing like a flicked switch.
And then I think "what was I doing that for?"

I know most people enjoy it. And many seem to think of it as the best part of sexual activity be it alone or with someone. But since I can't relate to that myself, I'm on a quest to avoid it and never have to do it accedintley, and therefore at all. Atleast for now haha.

I wonder sometimes if I would enjoy it if I built it up and then released it on purpose rather than by accident. But I dont wanna run the risk of feeling drained or even more, by trying that.

That is exactly what i think and feel thats why i am trying to avoid sexual activity for a while, masturbation or whatever. Before ejaculation i would be gyming 2 hours a day and full of energy, getting lots of work done. Happy and all. After masturbation i would be pretty dead, and like what the fuck, why did i do that if i can use the energy to do so much more.....But for me sometimes its different, if i hold it for 5 days or a week, then even i masturbate and ejaculate i wont feel tired, but if i do it with a time span of less than 3 days then sometimes i will get really tired.... its hard to catch so i am just deciding i am gonna quit

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Actually, I am/have been attempting this for a few years now.

And my aim is to be able to not ever ejaculate by accident (which is always the reason if ever happens with me now).

So I could basically just never ejaculate if I chose.

You should be worried less about some mystical life energy and more about getting laid. Trust me, you'll see what the fuss is about.

Seriously, orgasms are great. Have them by yourself. Have them with the love of your life. Have them with a girl (or boy) you just met. It's not using you up, it's not draining anything that can't be replenished - and replenished pretty quickly if you're young and healthy.

And if not even for your own sake, think of the sperms! Can you imagine anything sadder than a sperm that's all raring to go, just waiting for his big moment, but just ends up sitting around in your boring old testes for a couple of days until he's eventually broken down and reabsorbed? Poor li'l guy. Such a waste of a life.

[SeemsLegit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SeemsLegit]

The science of continence has been around about 5000 years for a reason. The semen contains the greatest concentration of minerals and condensed biological liquids in the body and it is part of one "whole" the entire brain spinal cord-nervous system and testicales you have seen models of the human anatomy that contain this entire system as one unit.

The cerebral spinal fluid is the dynamic biological liquid which the brain floats in and the spinal cord pumnps and the testicales are supposed to be filled with.
In Ayurvedic principles it is called Ojas ....and medically it is known to be growth hormone rich.

All cells in the body for any function need the hormonal growth potentials intact.

This seems to make sense, but when you jelq I've read that the point is to force blood up the shaft giving extra nutrients from that, I haven't ever heard of semen being a main focus, although it is high in protein. I'm not saying you're wrong but for the record, when I started PE I found it tough not to get hard so I would masturbate right before my PE session, during those first 2 weeks I gained the same as the other 2 weeks when I didn't masturbate in those days. It might help a bit but that little extra amount of gains probably isn't worth the stress of not being allowed to masturbate/ejaculate when you want to.

Do what makes you happy but you will still get gains regardless of ejaculation frequency...I wouldn't worry about it because that stress would make me quit PE or could affect me in other things during the day.

[TheSperminator Member of the Month Oct 12 Find all posts View Profile Close TheSperminator]

Oh FFS, science didn't exist 5,000 years ago...superstition did though, just as it does today.

Look, your body makes semen ALL THE TIME. The whole reason your body makes it is for it to end up in someone else's body. It is not "precious", you have an inexhaustible supply of it. Yes it contains nutrients and whatnot, but then so does food, right? You take materials into your body and other materials leave your body. In a healthy person there is equilibrium between the stuff going and the stuff coming out.

To put it another way: you need water to live, right? And urine is 99% water or whatever. So every time you go for a piss, you lose precious, life-giving water! But do you worry about "conserving" urine? Of course not, you drink water every day. Same principle. There is nothing in semen which your body desperately needs to function, otherwise it would not have secreted it into a fluid which is designed to be expelled from the body.

As for semen being the same stuff as cerebrospinal fluid...sorry, but who told you that, seriously? That is some 24-carat bullshit right there.

Amen!

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

The OP here has 4 posts. He comes onto a penis site just to share his wisdom about anti masturbation? I'm calling troll.
All of his posts are giving advice not to ejaculate.

I was thinking the SAME exact thing....

[paperchasin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close paperchasin]

I try to get the important things I need to do out the way and then let it go. Although i don't always do this in practice.

[sacredrealm Member Find all posts View Profile Close sacredrealm]

You should be worried less about some mystical life energy and more about getting laid. Trust me, you'll see what the fuss is about.

Seriously, orgasms are great. Have them by yourself. Have them with the love of your life. Have them with a girl (or boy) you just met. It's not using you up, it's not draining anything that can't be replenished - and replenished pretty quickly if you're young and healthy.

And if not even for your own sake, think of the sperms! Can you imagine anything sadder than a sperm that's all raring to go, just waiting for his big moment, but just ends up sitting around in your boring old testes for a couple of days until he's eventually broken down and reabsorbed? Poor li'l guy. Such a waste of a life.

Ive spent alot of time "worrying" if thats the right word, about needing to get laid. And it just hasn't happened yet. So I feel its best just to let it be, focus on my interest and not be desperate. (although I still really want to of course).

But good to know I'll know I'll see what the fuss is about as Ive spent so long thinking/wishing about it.

But I just can't get myself to that alone now. Because of the after effect. It might be different with someone. But alone now its like a second or two of feeling that is replaced by the opposite feeling. So I'd rather enjoy the whole process more not a few seconds followed by the "end" for a while hah.

And you could say the opposit of that too. I.E releasing them into nothing rather than where they want to end up. As I see it the ejaculating bit is for creating the baby really and so to be shouldnt necesserily be needed for the process of sex. But thats just me.

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

It's fine to masturbate & ejaculate - just not to excess IMO.

If you think about it, if you are jerking off multiple times per day, you are probably not going to be ejaculating inside a partner on the same day. It's simple opportunity cost.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

As I see it the ejaculating bit is for creating the baby really and so to be shouldnt necesserily be needed for the process of sex. But thats just me.

Coming inside a woman is generally necessary for making a baby, yes. But it feels good too! Again, you'll see what the fuss is about soon enough.

[sacredrealm Member Find all posts View Profile Close sacredrealm]

Coming inside a woman is generally necessary for making a baby, yes. But it feels good too! Again, you'll see what the fuss is about soon enough.

Unless I withould the ejaculation then too hah. which I will if it feels the right thing at that moment.

But nah hopefuly yeah (with or with cumming).

[pterodactyl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pterodactyl]

Doesn't the body release unused sperm through wet dreams anyway? Isn't that the body's way of protecting the prostate? Can't control that.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Unless I withould the ejaculation then too hah. which I will if it feels the right thing at that moment.

But nah hopefuly yeah (with or with cumming).

Trust me mate, when your time comes, not ejaculating will seem about as appealing as snacking on some salad when there's a whole roast beef dinner right in front of you and you haven't eaten in a week.

[arkham Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arkham]

Doesn't the body release unused sperm through wet dreams anyway? Isn't that the body's way of protecting the prostate? Can't control that.

Not always. I'm in the minority. After being cut I couldn't masturbate for 3 weeks. No wet dreams. Everything went out together with the pee.

[sacredrealm Member Find all posts View Profile Close sacredrealm]

Trust me mate, when your time comes, not ejaculating will seem about as appealing as snacking on some salad when there's a whole roast beef dinner right in front of you and you haven't eaten in a week.

HAHA thats funny becase I eat salad pretty regularly, but never beef.
I eat chicken sometimes though however!

But yeah, that may be so. I'll see. I still might not give in, knowing what comes after it.
Id like to see how long I can last without doing so.

[second lensman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close second lensman]

Do ejaculate. It's good for what ails you..