Yes, it makes me really tired and lazy for up to an hour, but that doesn't mean I don't ejaculate. I just make sure I don't do it right before I plan to exercise or something.
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Yeah it happens like that for me too.Originally posted by chodeboy View PostThat is exactly what i think and feel thats why i am trying to avoid sexual activity for a while, masturbation or whatever. Before ejaculation i would be gyming 2 hours a day and full of energy, getting lots of work done. Happy and all. After masturbation i would be pretty dead, and like what the fuck, why did i do that if i can use the energy to do so much more.....But for me sometimes its different, if i hold it for 5 days or a week, then even i masturbate and ejaculate i wont feel tired, but if i do it with a time span of less than 3 days then sometimes i will get really tired.... its hard to catch so i am just deciding i am gonna quit
When it happens accidently,espcecially if it wasnt that long since I last accidently did it, its like in slow motion, like a tree falling down. NOOOOOOOOOOO. When I do my best to stop it but it finds a way haha.
Again I wouldnt rule out building it up and at some point letting it out on purpose and seeing what thats like. But at the minute I want to work on not ejaculating at all. But probabaly still masterbate sometimes, to help build the strength and experience "expanded" orgasm instead.
But myself personaly I probabaly wouldn't avoid real sexual activity if I got the chance to. Thats what I want haha. Id just like to be able to apply this to it.Last edited by sacredrealm; 10-10-2012, 10:19 AM.
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Many years ago I was just for fun keeping from masturbating for days, or for over a week. Perhaps two. The first few days I felt more and more horny. I never had problems getting rock hard erections in a matter of seconds, but I loved that extra feeling of being really horny beyond just having an erect penis. I experimented staying absent for longer times. But close to (or past) a week I would notice that I would mostly feel less sex drive than before starting the absence. It was like the body (penis) adjusted to the situation and sort of dried out. It was like it went into some kind of semi-hibernating mode. The horniness was still there, but it took on another character; a feeling of being more sensuous and erotic 24 hours a day. It wasn't that it didn't get errect during the semi-hibernation. It was more like it became a slight separation between the mind and the penis. Sort of hard to explain. Once I would touch my penis and masturbate, it would instantly be fully 'awake' again and it would be just the same as before the absence period. I experimented with on/off masturbating periods infrequently for a few years. It is also worth mentioning that I was never the person to have nightly ejaculations first place, and it didn't even happen when staying absent.
I've also noticed that nowadays it's become trendy to embrace the old 'science' from the Ancient East. I remember reading about how the life power (chi, ki, qi, orgone, prana) was depending on how much (or rather how little) one was ejaculating. The spiritual idea was that for each time you ejaculated, you were closer to death. Each ejaculation was called "the small death" as the notion was that you would lose some of your life power for each ejaculation. A person was born with a certain portion of life power, and one could individually choose how to spend that portion. Also one could build up the same life energy by doing other exercises, but ejaculation was by some perceived as draining the life power more than one would be able to fill it up with other exercises. If you would ejaculate often, you would die young, and if you kept away from ejaculating, you could live far past a hundred years of age with great vitality. It was because of this notion that those living in ancient East developed the dry orgasm technique, to be able to take part of the fun of having sex and yet life a very long life.
I personally don't buy into that old 'science' at all. Just because their culture and their 'science' has been cultivated for thousands of years, it doesn't mean that it is perfected, or correct. Their science is often connected to religion, which has created some strange premises.
I had a conversation with an urologist some years ago. And he was concerned about individuals who didn't ejaculate frequently, as by not ejaculating frequently an inflamation in the prostate could occur, and prostatitis could further lead to prostate cancer. He promoted that all men should ejaculate frequently as to maintain prostate health.Last edited by ino; 11-24-2012, 01:20 AM.
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You could just, you know, ejaculate on purpose a bit more often. If you're ejaculating anyway, you might as well do it while awake so you can enjoy it and not have to wash bedsheets afterwards.Originally posted by whitewash1234 View Posti hate nocturnal emissions. Hate that wet sticky feeling in my thighs, boxers, bed, and bedsheets. Such a pain to clean >.>
Maybe I should wear a condom to sleep.
Exactly. The fact the some people call it 'science' at all is ridiculous, I mean it's nothing but superstition. Also the idea that just because an idea is very old it must be true is very strange. You could call it the fallacy of ancient authority, I guess. People used to believe the earth was a flat disc at the centre of the universe and that all sorts of diseases could be cured by putting leaches on your body. If you think about it, the older a belief is, the more likely it is to be wrong.Originally posted by ino View PostI personally don't buy into that old 'science' at all. Just because their culture and their 'science' has been cultivated for thousands of years, it doesn't mean that it is perfected, or correct. Their science is often connected to religion, which has created some strange premises.Last edited by Ivor; 11-24-2012, 11:16 AM.
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I never really believed the benefits until I just recently went only 2 days of edging without ejaculating. I did have a DO on day 1, then on day 2 I got to the gym and had the most energy I had in years at the gym. I usually hate during cardio, but I just went away with it having fun. Then, later on day 2 I had sex with the wife and had raging EQ the entire time, and blew the biggest orgasm I can remember with rope after rope. After I came I felt paralyzed and couldn't move for like 10 minutes.
I can't even imagine how insane longer periods of time of edging and no ejaculating feel. I am looking forward to finding out.
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Nearly as funny as the guys who let themselves get needlessly frustrated in the belief that it's going to turn them into Superman because of some ancient Chinese mumbo-jumbo about 'energy'...Originally posted by NeedSevenBySix View PostLol ill just sit here and laugh at the people who beat off all day and defend it. its so funny.
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