The Official Hard Flaccid Recovery Thread

[yeargh Member Find all posts View Profile Close yeargh]

Dude it is also completely normal that you couldn't get your dick hard if it was supposed to be your first time. My first time was a tragedy also. I couldn't get my dick up, due to anxiety. Second time, I got my dick hard without any problem. Those first time problems happen to many guys, they can probably tell you themselves.

So, you are overstressing over everything + first time sex. You should really calm down, I'm sure it will help.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

But if it was mental why would there be physical pain?

people who lose limbs can still feel pain in the area that no longer exists .. how is that possible .. its a pain memory and in their head.. the mind can create pain sensations .. and if the nervous system isn't working properly signals miss fire

[Newbert_zero Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newbert_zero]

I know for a fact though that something is physically wrong.

It's normal to have a dick that won't go up because of anxiety but to have a dick that's tense and stiff Isnt normal.

Do you think losing my v card might heal this whole thing? And break this curse?

[Newbert_zero Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newbert_zero]

people who lose limbs can still feel pain in the area that no longer exists .. how is that possible .. its a pain memory and in their head.. the mind can create pain sensations .. and if the nervous system isn't working properly signals miss fire

Interesting theory. So you think my mind might be simulating false pain that was created in my imagination from trauma? Like I said I noticed when I'm high I have this unconscious fear of my dick being torn from to much pulling. It sounds really weird but it might be possible.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

some men would probably disagree having a stiff dick is very normal ..hehe

the body works in mysterious ways .. yes it could get all tense and stiff just from anxiety.
we do believe you that you hurt your penis as some stage .. but now i personally am questioning if the issue is more mental then the injury itself..

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Interesting theory. So you think my mind might be simulating false pain that was created in my imagination from trauma? Like I said I noticed when I'm high I have this unconscious fear of my dick being torn from to much pulling. It sounds really weird but it might be possible.

seriously google those key words i posted before.. the thing you are describing when you are high is penis panic
the viewing the penis as getting smaller or retracting is also penis panic... if you read they say often men who have this or develop this will go on to injure there penis in attempts to fix the problem because the have certain underlying mental miss wiring.

the nervous system and brain can give false pain signals ..it can be a miss coding wires getting crossed.. a trained response that needs to be untrained.

[Newbert_zero Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newbert_zero]

Erections just feel uncomfortably huge. Everything just feels like it's on the verge of exploding down there. My skin looks discolored and the stretch marks on my skin are really dark. It looks so damn red that I'm afraid something popped and is leaking. Do you think trying to hold an orgasm in can overcharge the central nervous system? I'm starting to think multiple orgasms arnt natural and trying to contain that much energy is bad and is causing the Pc muscles to spasm from strain.

To sum it all up I got what I wished for. A bigger stronger dick but I also got a bunch of problems along with it. I'm starting to think pe is bad but at the same time it was probably my fault for going to fast.

It's so hard to tell how we injured ourselves unless we get erect and thourouly examine ourselves.

[Newbert_zero Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newbert_zero]

I think I might be going through a kundalini awakening. This is really crazy. I did lots of meditation and yoga and I think I'm starting to wake up.

Biology of Kundalini - Healthy Hormonal Foundation

This might explain the physical changes I've been going through and how I'm making it worse.

Do thoughts create reality or does reality create thoughts?

[Newbert_zero Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newbert_zero]

Weird this all sounds so familiar to me. we all very possibaly could be going through a kundalini awakening.

Read all you can about these symptoms and tell me you can't relate they even mention Epsom baths with magnesium.

[Newbert_zero Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newbert_zero]

I've actually been trying to awaken my kundalini for a while now. I've been noticing weird changes my senses are enhanced and my sense of time is dialated I'm getting huge bursts of energy. I find myself thinking something and then someone will say what was going through my head almost like I'm picking up signals that most people can't. I'm either going crazy or I'm evolving.

Biology of Kundalini - Physiology of Kundalini

[fatalbazuka Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fatalbazuka]

I'm either going crazy or I'm evolving.

Yeah you got the first bit right and the second bit justifies it.

you can get erections, now stop complaining and live your life !!!!!!!

[Newbert_zero Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newbert_zero]

Yeah you got the first bit right and the second bit justifies it.

you can get erections, now stop complaining and live your life !!!!!!!

Ya but they are painful and are always followed by a hardened scared retracted penis. My balls arnt hanging either so something is obviously wrong. Alot of the people hear are able to obtain erections. doesnt mean we don't suffer from hard flaccid to.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Newbert just try to put everything aside for the next 48 hours and go enjoy Christmas!

[jackson28 Member Find all posts View Profile Close jackson28]

all you guys need to calm down in this thread. I have had it for 20 months. Thats nearly TWO YEARS.

[LostInTorture Banned Find all posts View Profile Close LostInTorture]

Newbert, let's look at the worst case scenario here.

Worst case scenario: you have to live with a hard flaccid penis that works 100% in every other way, you can get erect, you can enjoy sex and you can urinate.
The _ONLY_ thing you are worrying about is how your flaccid looks like, which NOONE WILL EVER SEE EITHER WAY.

Realistic scenario(if you stop scaring yourself): this problem will resolve it self in a months time and you will enjoy your health more than ever and hopefully learn a lesson in the process, that your mind can hold you back without you knowing it.

Neither of those are very bad...