thinking of leaving the site....negativity.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

We're sorry to hear that

PEGym has as many members as some cities now. When that many people get together there's bound to be some degree of conflict. Still, any outright disrespect shouldn't be put up with. If you notice anything against the rules of this site occurring please feel free to report the post.

as far as aggressive discussions, you're going to have that here- we're mostly a passionate bunch and it isn't always easy to contain what we feel in type. If someone isn't breaking rules but is pressing your buttons, ignore them.

Also keep in mind how you respond to those you feel are attempting to provoke you. Poke them back, and you can't help but expect things to escalate.

[KMWylie Senior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close KMWylie]

As stated. .....many of you may know my posts and ive caught a ton of negativity. That much i dont mind. As it stands now...i only focus on regular PE and length training.
I post real and personal gains and experiences. I try and inform and learn.
But here lately i cannot help but notice a fairly big uptick in negativity and disrespect.
No one HAS to be here and share.
If any here have enjoyed my posts or gained any knowledge, entertainment, or enthusiasm or even hope.....then id remain. But otherwise it seems i may take a really long hiatus.

That is very sad.

I think it's important for everyone to be respectful to one another.

One of the best things about PEGym is the support people can get - anonymously - since male enhancement efforts aren't usually something guys want to share with their family and friends. However, that anonymity can also lead to people being ruder than they normally would be if they were talking to someone face-to-face.

Of course, some of the problem lies in the limitations of written communication. We don't have tone or facial expressions or even body language, to help with the nuances of what's being communicated. This can often lead to misunderstandings.

WBspider, as an example, thought his post would get laughs, but with the black and white of textual communication, somehow his intention was lost. This wasn't necessarily anyone's fault -- again, just a challenge that's always present when using the written word to communicate.

So, please, try not to take it too hard. It's likely that some "negative" responses weren't actually meant as harsh as they came across in text, for this same reason.

We value each and every member's opinion and experience. Each story shared adds to the richness of the community and helps the thousands of men who read and lurk every day. So, I hope you decide to stay.

[gms585 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close gms585]

Man this is going to come across really negative. I know I've only been active on this board a short time, but in my online experience guys who say they are leaving rarely do until the community at large gives them so much guff they leave. Again I am not trying to be offensive but outlandish claims that experienced members find unlikely bordering on unheard of and threats of leaving are normally trade marks of very young board members who want to seem impressive of important or people who need allot of attention.

Now that said first post of yours I personally noticed there was talk of injecting KY into yourself, which I thought was insane and unlikely. As it turns out its not as unheard of as one would think. Even a porn guy or two can be found online to have done it.... so vindicated.

As for 8.5 girth well that's like claiming 12'' length. its so rare people will want actual concrete proof before they believe. No one is going to buy that your Clydesdale birthed a unicorn without some serious proof.

As for sexual experiences and leaving if people don't believe you screw them that's on them not you.

[csr40 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close csr40]

Amen. Done

[csr40 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close csr40]

Zman.....you're entitled to your opinion. Albeit wrong. And fact is......you began your disrespectful rant long ago. You were provoking and you know you were. Plain and simple.
And you prove so by continuing to make a judgment that not only isnt true but have no way of knowing. By calling someone a liar you are being extremely disrespectful and rude. And this is exactly what moderators should watch for. In my opinion.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

So put him on your ignore list and you'll never see what he posts again. Isn't that easier than fighting? Come to think of it I wonder how many ignore lists I'm on.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

I tried leaving, yet this place always tugs on my sleeve.

If you do decide to bounce, we wish you the best

If you do decide to stay, we wish you the best

There's bullshit everywhere... do you decide to go nowhere because you're afraid of stepping in it?.. or do you decide to go everywhere and just casually walk around it?

Man that shat stinks.

[Zman007 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zman007]

Zman.....you're entitled to your opinion. Albeit wrong. And fact is......you began your disrespectful rant long ago. You were provoking and you know you were. Plain and simple.
And you prove so by continuing to make a judgment that not only isnt true but have no way of knowing. By calling someone a liar you are being extremely disrespectful and rude. And this is exactly what moderators should watch for. In my opinion.

I am entitled to my opinion. I'm fairly certain I'm not wrong. Long ago??? Pretty sure my first direct interaction with you was less than 24hrs ago when I asked if you had more pictures because your posted one didn't look to pass muster. You supplied one, and it supports my initial reaction to call "bullshit" on your claims of 8.5" girth. I am passing judgement, that is my right, as to having no way of knowing, that isn't true, you've supplied evidence and based on that evidence I've made an informed opinion. A simple picture with a fabric tape would silence me. I am not being extremely disrespectful, extremely disrespectful would be removing my filter and launching broadsides of personal attacks. To date I've not done that and I've tried to limit my comments to the tone of your posts and the quality of the "evidence" of your size claims and the danger of the methods you use.

My opinion is that your presence and embellished claims are detrimental to the gym. It is my opinion that when lurkers or newbies come here and see claims of 3+" girth gains from a guy to says he was injecting KY into his penis and achieved a girth of 8.5" without evidence, that is not good for the PEGym as a whole and I shudder to think of the problems it could create if people follow your example and have negative outcomes.

You started this attention seeking thread, I tried to elaborate on the reasons you've gotten negativity from me which I listed, your general tone and demeanor, your embellished claims, and your dangerous practice of injecting KY into your penis. I went into detail as to why I doubt your claims and your evidence. Now, your retaliatory negative rep and name calling didn't help make me more positive to you.

Feel free to add me to the ignore list, but I'll make it simpler. I'm done on this subject. I have no need to continue to attack you. As to your claims, I've made my opinion known and unless you supply more information my opinion is set. Had you not started this thread I would not have commented further. If you really have a problem with that, feel free to report this post, that is what the mechanism is there for.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

No need to reply in a post to Zman, csr. I'm calling an end to this "skirmish"! Stay on topic, and drop the verbal war between the 2 of you. I'll leave the thread open for further comment from other members, but I'll close it immediately if either of you engage each other further. No need to allow this to deteriorate into bomb-throwing.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Okay so when did you two get married? You kind of sound like you are.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Thread opened for further comment and members are advised to abide by forum rules of proper etiquette.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

[popol5169 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close popol5169]

Whoa some seriously enjoyable banter was removed !

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Whoa some seriously enjoyable banter was removed !

Your banter needs to remain in context of others who do not know the dynamic between the two of you. Also, posting that crap in an already contested thread will never pass the test. Believe me, the enjoyment was between the two of you and nobody else.