How common is bisexuality?

[Norwaydude Senior Member Member of the Month Oct. 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Norwaydude]

I won't 😂

Tho I have seen some photographs in a gift shop in Amsterdam which would make your hair curl back in 2005.

I can't unseen those pictures!! I only went in to buy wooden clogs.

Lesson learned! NEVER buy wooden clogs! NEVER!!

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I think you might be right. I have always been a very sexual oriented person. And trying sex with a dude. Was for me just an experiment and has turned out to be a Nice option to have in my sexlife. I believe you are right when you say that this might also be something that is easier for me in the time we are living in. If i had a much more conservative background or lived in the 50's. I would guess i would surpressed these urges. (That would'nt be to difficult btw since its just a fun thing to do and not a romantic longing)

Labels are not very useful, i second that!

i also agree that there is nobodys business what people are doing behind closed doors.

But i think its important that people should not have to feel shame about fun and Nice sexual urges or wants. ( AS long AS its between consensual adults) Thats Why i think its a cool thing that we can discuss this stuff here!
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There was a time when i wondered if i was gay because of this. But i have no romantic pull towards the same sex. Rather a strong pull towards women. So i guess i'm dodging that "label" and then there is only the BI label left. 

Labels are meaningless words used by insecure or jealous individuals to divide and/or shame others into compliance with THEIR points of view or way of life. It's a CONTROL mechanism intended to pigeon-hole individuals or groups of people into believing they are "different" or "don't belong" in the mainstream of society. NOTHING could be further from the truth! Being true to yourself without harming others is where you'll find genuine happiness & satisfaction in life, regardless of what others may think or say.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

I won't 😂

Tho I have seen some photographs in a gift shop in Amsterdam which would make your hair curl back in 2005.

I can't unseen those pictures!! I only went in to buy wooden clogs.

If it made my hair curl in 2005.... what would it do today?

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

If it made my hair curl in 2005.... what would it do today?

Grow back??!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Is there anything wrong with being bi?

[Injoker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Injoker]

I know what you mean Tara. I had a "bi" phase. I dunno, I was curious, I had fun. But it wasn't on the same level. I wasn't disgusted. But when I'm with women it's a spiritual experience almost. With dudes it was just like "well this can make me cum but I really have no further interest". I really just stick to women now, I have no interest in having sex with people I am not romantically interested in.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I know what you mean Tara. I had a "bi" phase. I dunno, I was curious, I had fun. But it wasn't on the same level. I wasn't disgusted. But when I'm with women it's a spiritual experience almost. With dudes it was just like "well this can make me cum but I really have no further interest". I really just stick to women now, I have no interest in having sex with people I am not romantically interested in.

Thank you for your perspective and candor on the topic, injoker. You wisely experimented, acting on your desires, and discovered what was ultimately "right" for you in a relationship. Everyone's sexuality is personal. It's nothing to be ashamed of nor proud of particularly, IMO. I think same-sex curiosity and experimentation is actually much more common than the vast majority of people realize. What makes having a same-sex relationship "taboo" is society's indictment of those who practice sex outside "the norm", and labeling them differently. There's NOTHING fair about that!

It's no one else's business what goes on in the bedrooms of others. We are making slow progress in building better understanding of human sexuality today; but it still has a long and difficult road ahead in changing the majority viewpoint toward same-sex relationships in the main-stream workplace and in society. Thankfully laws have been enacted against discrimination against "minority's"; however, same-sex relationships (while protected), are oftentimes given a lesser priority in defense of those laws, IMO. Discrimination exists and always will (unfortunately), but in a perfect world, sexuality wouldn't even be considered a part of "discrimination" law. Sex is a human entitlement between consenting adults and should need no defense under law.

Those who support labels and insist on differentiating between humans with different sexual orientations from others are truly "the problem". As humans have evolved, so have our sexual mores; some positively, but unfortunately, mostly negatively, as those in "power" seek to dictate and control every aspect of human life & society, including sex. There's NOTHING about THAT that's normal or just, IMO.
(RANT OVER)

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

There's only one way to find out if your bi.

Give us a kiss!

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[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I know what you mean Tara. I had a "bi" phase. I dunno, I was curious, I had fun. But it wasn't on the same level. I wasn't disgusted. But when I'm with women it's a spiritual experience almost. With dudes it was just like "well this can make me cum but I really have no further interest". I really just stick to women now, I have no interest in having sex with people I am not romantically interested in.

You describe it much better than I did. I too have no interest in having a relationship with a woman, it's just doesn't feel the same to me as with a man.

But I'm not ashamed of my experiences with the two other women. I was really close to both of them beforehand. There was connection in that moment which made it right.

I believe sexuality is more fluid than a lot people want to accept or admit to.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Is there anything wrong with being bi?

Nope. You just get a lot more action!

[benschmidt Senior Member Member of the Month July 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close benschmidt]

Is there anything wrong with being bi?

Of course not. As far as I'm concerned, as long as it's between consenting adults, it's not my business nor anyone else's what goes on in their bedroom.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

I'm totally bye sexual at this point. My sexuality went bye bye and when I do sneak up on some sex it is by myself.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I'm totally bye sexual at this point. My sexuality went bye bye and when I do sneak up on some sex it is by myself.

Ha,Ha, oh stop it. Laughed my arse off.

[dhusky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dhusky]

Pretty common, i've had several "straight" guys who've wanted to hook up with me when they were drunk