Does sending pictures of your Dick and receiving nudes from other girls the same as having sex with them and so .. Cheating ?
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If you're in a committed relationship and cannot show the other person the texts you are receiving and sending then yes that's a form of cheating.Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.
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It's not the same as having sex with them, but as a general rule of thumb, if you don't want your girlfriend or wife to find out you've been doing a thing, you should not do that thing.Starting (20 JUL 2012)
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Iv been seen sexting alot with other girls and i have a gf but i Will never actually have sex with them because i love my gf, for me sexting is just for fun and im not doing any harm to my gf .. I have a High libido and my fg is perfect sex wise but you know for me sexting with other girls as always been a normal thing.. And i think you can love you Gf-wife while doing it ,just like some couple have sex with other couple while still loving eachothersOriginally posted by Tara123 View PostIf you're in a committed relationship and cannot show the other person the texts you are receiving and sending then yes that's a form of cheating.
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Does she know you do this? Is she happy about it? Would you be happy with her sexting other men?Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.
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I had a girl break up with me for doing something similar to this, and when I did it, I justified it by saying it was just like porn. It wasn't. It was not cool. She was right to break it off. I was a dick. Don't be a dick.Starting - Goal
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You say you love her yet your willing to risk losing her for texts off random women that have no bearing on your life.Originally posted by PunkSka8erV2 View PostNo but sure know i love her
If you thought it was genuinely fine, she would know about it.Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.
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Question: Would you want her to do the same to you behind your back without you knowing? How would you honestly feel about it?How fair is thy love, my sister, my spouse! how much better is thy love than wine! and the smell of thine ointments than all spices! ~ Song of Solomon 4:10
“For things to change, you have to change.” - Jim Rohn, The Art of Exceptional Living
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Originally posted by PunkSka8erV2 View PostIv been seen sexting alot with other girls and i have a gf but i Will never actually have sex with them because i love my gf, for me sexting is just for fun and im not doing any harm to my gf .. I have a High libido and my fg is perfect sex wise but you know for me sexting with other girls as always been a normal thing.. And i think you can love you Gf-wife while doing it ,just like some couple have sex with other couple while still loving eachothers
The correlation here is that both parties agree to sexing other people. It's called an open marriage. If you want an open marriage she has to agree. If you want it limited to sexting (read that) then she has tonagree. If you need to sneak around and not get caught then you are cheating.ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!
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Is it the same as having sex with them... no.Originally posted by PunkSka8erV2 View PostDoes sending pictures of your Dick and receiving nudes from other girls the same as having sex with them and so .. Cheating ?
Is it cheating... yes.
Here's the guideline I use for cheating -- Would your significant other be hurt, angry, sad, unhappy, etc. with something sexual you're doing with another person? If so - then it's cheating.
AKA - Don't do it.
If you're not ready to exclusively be with your current partner, be respectful of them enough to let them know. They at least deserve that.
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While I think sexting is a milder form of infidelity, it's INFIDELITY, none the less! I've never sexted (is THAT a word?), preferring instead to "share" my DONG in "the flesh"
; but I wouldn't do that at the risk of screwing up a genuine relationship with a GF. Sexting to me is a form of "exhibitionism" for the sender, and a bit of "voyeurism" for the recipient (if they get a thrill out of receiving them). It seems harmless on the surface, but it can wreck a good relationship if it's done without your partner's knowledge or approval.
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I would feel really bad of que did the same ( double standard right ?.. ) i know im sur she would be very sad if she knew i was sexting but for me i never done that because i dont love her, its just a way to have fun and better than porn, we have really good sex with my gf so im not frustrated or anything, its just that sometimes i enjoy some sexting ..Originally posted by Ujjayi View PostQuestion: Would you want her to do the same to you behind your back without you knowing? How would you honestly feel about it?
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