...been with bigger.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

I'm just going to throw this out there for discussion.

I keep reading on others' threads these experiences where women say they have been with bigger sized men.
I do not really understand this situation. It has never happened to me. Granted, I have not been with all that many women, only in the range of 10. A good three of them were fairly promiscuous, but I was never told that they had been with larger. I was only told I was large. I would not consider myself to be any sort of great lover, at least not when I was with these different women. But they were always complimentary. One woman was dissatisfied with my preE, but complimentary on my size and my other, ahem, talents.

Ok, I did start out with a decent size, but I've seen posts by all sorts of guys (with all sorts of sizes) where this 'put down' has come up.

I'd like to know how this type of comment comes up. Are you asking? Are the women just looking you over and offering evaluation?

If any of the ladies on site read this, do you have any insight? What would make you tell a guy you've had larger? Is it even something that you would bring up?

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

You sir are the guy the ladies tell other men about.

[Theaceus07 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Theaceus07]

I asked my wife a long time ago to find out she had bigger. I was only 6.5" BPEL back then - and I am sure she forgot my asking now. The slow growth now has her making comments about my 7.75" BPEL like "BIG" - which I love to hear!

I never obsessed about her others but I do believe I can be the biggest with a little more length and girth!

[Trax2Brax Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Trax2Brax]

I'd never personally ask cause I personally think it would make me look insecure, and the response I'll get is probably not the one I would have preferred. But I've had all kinds of comments without me asking across the board from "huge/big" "OK size/way bigger then a hotdog" to more negative responses like "it's kinda thin." Though those negative responses were when the girl was angry at me and probably just wanted to give me a "low blow" insult. Most people can't judge penis size accurately anyway at all though so it really shouldn't be the death blow to the self-esteem that most guys make it out to be.

[RedWilly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedWilly]

I'm just going to throw this out there for discussion.

I keep reading on others' threads these experiences where women say they have been with bigger sized men.
I do not really understand this situation. It has never happened to me. Granted, I have not been with all that many women, only in the range of 10. A good three of them were fairly promiscuous, but I was never told that they had been with larger. I was only told I was large. I would not consider myself to be any sort of great lover, at least not when I was with these different women. But they were always complimentary. One woman was dissatisfied with my preE, but complimentary on my size and my other, ahem, talents.

Ok, I did start out with a decent size, but I've seen posts by all sorts of guys (with all sorts of sizes) where this 'put down' has come up.

I'd like to know how this type of comment comes up. Are you asking? Are the women just looking you over and offering evaluation?

If any of the ladies on site read this, do you have any insight? What would make you tell a guy you've had larger? Is it even something that you would bring up?

I'm over 7 inches long but some women I've been with I'm still friends with and they tell me (whenever the topic of penis size comes up) that I'm not big. Almost every woman I've asked has said they've had bigger. They literally say "Josh, you don't have a big penis." if it comes up amongst friends. LOL

It's because of girth. I'm only about 5.125. If I had 5.5 inch girth they'd be saying something much different. Also, most of them haven't had the whole thing in them. When they're on top they rarely go down all the way; the G spot isn't that far up and if they did go all the way dick would slide right past it. And if I'm on top they prefer a little less than all of it, for the most part aside from a few women.


Bottom line, when a girl says you're big she's mostly talking about girth.

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I often had girls especially in HS & college (once I "enrolled" in SEX 101), examine me before penetration or while performing 69 oral, then voice concerns that I was too large for them... I think that's a reasonable reservation I would have too, if I was female and some guy was trying to convince me to allow him to push something larger than I've ever experienced into my body.

I resolved that concern usually by explaining I was a "shower", so my penis didn't "grow" as much as some guys did when fully erect, and then suggesting they ride me cowgirl first, so they could monitor both the speed & amount of Dick they were taking during sex. I generally was successful in convincing them to try & everything went fine, so long as I did my "homework" & had her nice & "juicy" from foreplay, before penetration.

Most experienced females (after college) have had no qualms about "taking me", so with only a few exceptions, my Dong size rarely is questioned before sex. If I don't get some "positive feedback" during or after sex however, then that's on "ME"! LOL!

[GymRatGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GymRatGuy]

It's because of girth. I'm only about 5.125. If I had 5.5 inch girth they'd be saying something much different. Also, most of them haven't had the whole thing in them. When they're on top they rarely go down all the way; the G spot isn't that far up and if they did go all the way dick would slide right past it. And if I'm on top they prefer a little less than all of it, for the most part aside from a few women.


Bottom line, when a girl says you're big she's mostly talking about girth.

That's crazy.. .I started off 5.1ish inches in girth and had girls rave about how I was packing. One even drew me a diagram about her exes thickness compared to mine. Before I got into PE and saw averages I couldn't believe it. Back then I was almost 6in but after PE im past 7in in length and alil over 5.5in girth wise. I'm not the biggest but I've been a few girls biggest.

Tbh I probably just lucked out and got all women who had been with smaller.

But OP:
Usually when telling sexual exploit stories it comes up. Me and my past ex's have been very vocal leads to a better sex life, so we swap stories & I get to hear about monster dicks, tiny dicks, etc. But I'm not an insecure guy so

[peckerachu Banned Find all posts View Profile Close peckerachu]

I'm over 7 inches long but some women I've been with I'm still friends with and they tell me (whenever the topic of penis size comes up) that I'm not big. Almost every woman I've asked has said they've had bigger. They literally say "Josh, you don't have a big penis." if it comes up amongst friends. LOL

It's because of girth. I'm only about 5.125. If I had 5.5 inch girth they'd be saying something much different. Also, most of them haven't had the whole thing in them. When they're on top they rarely go down all the way; the G spot isn't that far up and if they did go all the way dick would slide right past it. And if I'm on top they prefer a little less than all of it, for the most part aside from a few women.


Bottom line, when a girl says you're big she's mostly talking about girth.

Your penis must look really long though, which is a huge bonus. Mine looks short which is probably because the difference between NBPEL and MSEG is less than one inch like 0.8 inches, that is since I typically am not 100% erect but girth is still 100% but not length fully erect difference is still only 1 inch though.

[peckerachu Banned Find all posts View Profile Close peckerachu]

That's crazy.. .I started off 5.1ish inches in girth and had girls rave about how I was packing. One even drew me a diagram about her exes thickness compared to mine. Before I got into PE and saw averages I couldn't believe it. Back then I was almost 6in but after PE im past 7in in length and alil over 5.5in girth wise. I'm not the biggest but I've been a few girls biggest.

Tbh I probably just lucked out and got all women who had been with smaller.

But OP:
Usually when telling sexual exploit stories it comes up. Me and my past ex's have been very vocal leads to a better sex life, so we swap stories & I get to hear about monster dicks, tiny dicks, etc. But I'm not an insecure guy so

Idk I'm 5.9 MSEG and never felt like I filled something out particularly well, also never once had a girl say I was big The thing that concerns me the most though is the damn turtling I'm constantly 100% turtled up into a 4.13 incher when not erect I really hope using a ball stretcher to get my damn cremaster muscles to stop cramping might fix this. Isn't it quite incredible to have a 3+ inch difference between EL and FL My Flaccid is seriously the same if i take an icebath or sit in a hot sauna...

[RedWilly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedWilly]

That's crazy.. .I started off 5.1ish inches in girth and had girls rave about how I was packing. One even drew me a diagram about her exes thickness compared to mine. Before I got into PE and saw averages I couldn't believe it. Back then I was almost 6in but after PE im past 7in in length and alil over 5.5in girth wise. I'm not the biggest but I've been a few girls biggest.

Tbh I probably just lucked out and got all women who had been with smaller.

But OP:
Usually when telling sexual exploit stories it comes up. Me and my past ex's have been very vocal leads to a better sex life, so we swap stories & I get to hear about monster dicks, tiny dicks, etc. But I'm not an insecure guy so

Well don't get me wrong; I've had girls tell me you're big. A couple even say huge. But normally that's not the case.

If you want a girl to tell you you're big, go for girth. Sounds like 5.5 is the perfect girth frankly.

[RedWilly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedWilly]

Your penis must look really long though, which is a huge bonus. Mine looks short which is probably because the difference between NBPEL and MSEG is less than one inch like 0.8 inches, that is since I typically am not 100% erect but girth is still 100% but not length fully erect difference is still only 1 inch though.

It looks long next to a girls face, takes up the majority of her head LOL so it does look huge next to a face.

But in my hand it feels so fucking small and thin. LOL

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I couldn't imagine discussing size or sex details to a current partner about a past partner.

I find it gross. And if they tried with me about thier ex's I would question if I wanted to be with someone who would freely give such intimate information away.

[akga80 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close akga80]

I'll be honest I don't think women have a clue, I have not received many comments on my size, the few I got we're not complimentary.

[akga80 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close akga80]

I will say this, I've seen the last 4 four of my wife's partners, and I'm in the top two, maybe top, and I never got a response from her, and I know without a shadow of a doubt that I'm at least 1 in bigger than three of her last 4 partners. So I'm with you idk where these comments come from, or how they're initiated, it's puzzling really to think of it as common conversation.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

I couldn't imagine discussing size or sex details to a current partner about a past partner.

I find it gross. And if they tried with me about thier ex's I would question if I wanted to be with someone who would freely give such intimate information away.

This is kinda of my thinking.

As I said, I've been with a few women who had been around. One was quite open about talking about her past exploits, what she liked, what worked best, and so on.

But it wasn't so much bragging or gossiping as it was sharing. It was the early nineties, so being open and honest in the age of AIDS was the new normal. However, there was never any negative comparisons. The only time size came up was due to difficulty with a couple of positions. That is when I learned that I did not need to get the whole thing in to enjoy.

The other two were more demure about their conquests, but at the same time there was an honesty that was required in the age of AIDS, etc. None ever talked about other lovers' size.

For myself, I couldn't imagine telling a woman that she was much looser (or whatever the equivalent might be) than other women.