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Did Tinkerbells name used to be TittyTittyBangBang?
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Confirmation bias, anyone? Superfluous generalizations too. You make it sound like you are absolutely correct and anyone who chooses to live their life differently is wrong.Originally posted by phil88 View Post
I wasn't going to comment because this thread is from long ago. But, I could not help but point out some things. Very few PUAs tell others to be assholes. You are clearly not interested in learning anything or investigating objectively. You are yet another person who makes up their mind before they see the information. Then, while you are "investigating," and I use that word loosely, you see what you expected to see (confirmation bias) and ignore the rest. I have read and watched several PUA suggestions/teachings. You choose not to use them, that is fine. But, just because some people needed some technique to get a conversation started doesn't mean they are assholes. Again, you came to that conclusion because of your confirmation bias. People really need to learn to research objectively.
As for the comment from different member about women finding it upsetting if they were to discover that the man they are with used some technique, I ask why is that upsetting? Would you rather the guy not make a move at all because he was paralyzed with fear? If it weren't for the techniques to build his confidence he would have never met the woman in the first place. For the most part, PUA is to help people deal with fear and anxiety. Certainly doesn't teach guys to be assholes. But, you must degrade others ideas in order to feel better about your own. So, continue with your lambasting of ideas you know relatively little about.
I once had approach anxiety. The only women I dated in that period of my life were women I met through a friend or they knew me because of sports. Basically, I needed something external to bring me in contact with women. Fast forward to today and my confidence couldn't be higher. I approach women at will. I reduce the chances of finding the woman of my dreams if I limit my options to friends of friends. That is silly. Why am I an asshole because I flirt with the woman waiting for the bus? Or while I am in the coffee shop I see an attractive woman that I wish to talk to? Explain how that makes me an asshole, because logically there is no connection. Only in your confirmation bias there is a connection and that clearly isn't based on logic.Comment
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Yes sir,Originally posted by TheSnitch View Post
Cusp had all the mods and admins gang up on me and they forced me to change my name to Tinkerbell...TittyTittyBangBang made me laugh.. but they felt Tinkerbell suited me better.Comment
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Man I'm on my phone, at work. i have no idea what I am saying in that post. It looks like it was written by a different person, which could mean multpiple things. I can't tell you if I'm being mocking or serious lol high or royally fuct, I would have to find a few other posts from the same time and see where my head was at during that time. It sounds like I'm mocking the book because it said she would move on once she accomplished her goal of making me who I was and then moving on. I can understand that. Sounds like the old saying "beware of men with manners"
I would reccomend reading more of my posts lol.
Also I can't help but point out the uh "confirmation bias" you have shown concerning my personality
Not to mention why you felt the need to uh what's the word I'm looking for here? Damnit lol your being aa hypocrite but I can't think of the word. Anyways you can't tell me who I am after calling me down for making the same type of assumptions.
What would be the word for assesing someones personality in order to make themselves feel like more of a real boy
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See there we go. This post explains my position on the subject much betterOriginally posted by phil88 View Post
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I think she may also mean , and I know it sound trite and cliched , being not just "yourself" but the "confident yourself". I have heard it from so many girls including my present flame that there is nothing as attractive as seeing a guy confident in his own skin. The guy that does not give a flying crap about what others think of him and vice versa.Originally posted by Samurai View Post
In a conversation early this year at home with my gf and a two of her friends, the topic of pick up artists at bars and clubs was discussed. The girls duly recounted the corniest pickup lines they received and a collective cringe fell upon them all. I got in and offered my two cents as being the only male there. The qst I put to them was , is that not what girls expect when they go out to clubs and bars etc?. The answer was an emphatic NO. They were all in agreement that the ones that usually make the approach are the player types. As one of the girls said " if only the nice guys would take the initiative more, thats what most girls really want" . And the last bit to this conversation was most interesting and what I remember most: there was a feeling that alot of sincere nice guys are intimidated by the player types and feel afraid to express themselves. They think thats what women expect and appreciate in clubs and bars. In effect they are too scared to be themselves. When all is said and done, the guy the girls most wanted to be with was the one who could stand on his own two feet, not be intimidated by his surroundings and not take himself or others too seriously..
Common sense I think but maybe we all just make meeting girls harder than it should be at times. It gets easier the easier you make it for yourself...Comment
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soooo ... I'm gonna make the girl hug me.Future owner of a glorious cock.
I'll call it, the thunder dragon.Comment
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Listen, you dont have to act like Forest Gump or anything. The whole idea is to be a confident, relaxed and a decisive you. The nuances of self deprecating humor work wonders with girls regardless of what kind of personality you really have. On the other hand, coming off too earnest in your approach can set off alarm bells. The last thing you want to seem like is desperate as it leads to nowhere fast. Typically, you have only that one chance to impress . Treat is like taking a shot in basketball: loosen up, dont overthink it, just you and the basket, block everything else out and shoot. You might get it in or maybe not. If you do sink that one in , you feel like what Wilt Chamberlain felt like, and if you dont, well there is always next time. Your so called game or more likely natural instincts are coming together in the best possible way to get you the prize. If you want to, consider other aspects to seduction used by others, but only if they can be blended seemlessly into your own style. A little bit of effort is fine, but making the whole thing appear full of effort has been proven over and over to be not a recipe for success.Last edited by dejaview; 09-23-2011, 05:40 PM.Comment
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5 Hank Moody Seduction Tips
By: Layla Sinclair
Break Studios Contributing Writer
"If you’re single and want to attract women, these 5 Hank Moody seduction tips will increase your chances of scoring with the ladies. Even if you’re not a fan of the Showtime TV series, “Californication,” every man can take some advice from legendary womanizer and fictional novelist, Hank Moody, played by David Duchovny.
Find your artistic side. Hank Moody is constantly getting girls because of his carefree, artistic lifestyle. Women love the fact that he is a talented novelist who often writes about sex and love. Even if you’re not a bona fide artist, tell your next date about your artistic hobbies or interests if you’re trying to seduce her and need a seduction tip. Women tend to lust after men who are writers, musicians and filmmakers like Hank Moody.
Get a sidekick. Hank Moody always brings his friend Charlie with him to many of his adventures with women. He often does not need to boast about his novels or fame (which can seem vain) because Charlie can tell women for him. This is a smart seduction tip that men can learn from since Hank can gain a wingman and better chances at scoring with the women.
Have a sense of humor. Hank Moody often wins women over (or at least gets them to bed) by joking around in a playful manner. Most of his jokes have sexual undertones that immediately reveal his interest in the woman. Hank walks a thin line with his humor; he can quickly turn a conversation onto the topic of sex and lust, but he never gets too raunchy or chauvinistic with his jokes. Instead, his playful sexual banter works like a charm and is a seduction tip that most men should follow.
Work out, but keep drinking. Although he drinks like a fish, Hank Moody has to be hitting the gym hard to get his often-flaunted abs, which are usually the tipping point for getting women into bed. Waking up in boxers with a cigarette and beer first thing in the morning is hard to pull off, but Hank does it well. Another part of Hank’s seduction success comes from his complete disregard of societal norms and expectations. Women love his bad boy, carefree attitude, making this an important Hank Moody seduction tip. However, you can’t pull off the look with a beer belly and flabby arms, so make sure to work out.
Tell her that she’s hot. Hank Moody has enough confidence to be blunt about what he thinks about women. He tells Karen that he’s in love with her and never lies about his feelings for her. Hank also literally swept the uptight Felicia off her feet in season three. Hank never plays coy with women, but always remains direct with the lovers he wants."
fictional show or not these are better tips then you will ever find in any book about manipulation. basically be true to yourself. keep friends that appreciate you for who you are, and let women know you want them, they want to be wanted. the one in bold can be left out as it only appeals to a certain type and borders more on manipulation and maintaining image.Comment
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Spot on Phil. Funny, carefree, a little mystery, a lil bit of bad boy and a cheeky smile will work better than a library full of female manipulation guides anytime . ..also very important to rem when choosing your wingman, he should be one you can trust .Comment
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Explain how I am a hypocrite please. Enlighten me. I am fully aware there are some bad PUAs out there. There are bad teachers, personal trainers, salespersons, you name it there are people performing the activity and they are bad at it. There are a lot of people who are not fit for the job. I said you have a confirmation bias because you read the material and confirmed your bias. So, you called me a hypocrite, or some other term that you could not think of at the time, and you say "You can't tell me who I am after calling me down for making the same type of assumptions." 1) I certainly can tell you how I perceive you based on your statement and 2) what type of "assumptions" have I made?Originally posted by phil88 View PostMan I'm on my phone, at work. i have no idea what I am saying in that post. It looks like it was written by a different person, which could mean multpiple things. I can't tell you if I'm being mocking or serious lol high or royally fuct, I would have to find a few other posts from the same time and see where my head was at during that time. It sounds like I'm mocking the book because it said she would move on once she accomplished her goal of making me who I was and then moving on. I can understand that. Sounds like the old saying "beware of men with manners"
I would reccomend reading more of my posts lol.
Also I can't help but point out the uh "confirmation bias" you have shown concerning my personality
Not to mention why you felt the need to uh what's the word I'm looking for here? Damnit lol your being aa hypocrite but I can't think of the word. Anyways you can't tell me who I am after calling me down for making the same type of assumptions.
What would be the word for assesing someones personality in order to make themselves feel like more of a real boy
I made zero assumptions. I can provide evidence for all of my claims about you. Also, I never said anything about the entirety of your psyche. You are generalizing again...superfluously. You have a confirmation bias you clearly provided evidence for my claim.
I am not interested in getting into an argument with you about what I said or didn't say. Then you will call me a hypocrite for some reason or another (without evidence = add hominem).
I am no longer interested in this thread. You are free to respond, obviously, but I won't be coming back to it. I try to spend my time helping people and I can't imagine that this is going to lead to progress. It has a chance, but I will let someone else spend there time on it.
Good luck and have a good day.Comment
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I don't play an instrument but I want to get back on my drawing.Future owner of a glorious cock.
I'll call it, the thunder dragon.Comment
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I never said you were wrong about me, I just said look at yourself. You were barely worth a response in the first place, so I won't repeat myself, your easily intelligent enough to answer your own questions using nothing but the information provided in this thread
And don't worry I'm a hypocrite to
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instruments help as does an artistic bent .....but nothig beats a bottle of Brut aftershave and a gold medallion to go along with it .....now thats music to any chicks ears..Comment
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How is that music? What gold medallion?Future owner of a glorious cock.
I'll call it, the thunder dragon.Comment
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