Prostate orgasm

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

So it sounds like this is awesome, but I never managed it. Any tips? I'm a straight guy by the way, and I'd love to teach a girlfriend (if I had to) how to do it on me as well - assuming I want them to of course.

I tried on myself with my fingers and didn't have any luck, I felt like the only arousing part of it was in my head, i.e. the anticipation. Getting an aneros was suggested (might do this today) but I got a few questions for those of you familiar with doing it, either on yourself or tips to give a suitably adventurous girlfriend.

How long does it take?

Will I be able to keep discreetly quiet in a shared house if I manage it?

Do I need a device? Or is there a comfortable and effective way of doing this to yourself?

Let discussion commence

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

Definitely get an Aneros, it's the most reputable prostate massager by a long shot. I've never had good results doing it to myself manually, and don't even really try anymore.

All your questions are probably answered in the Aneros wiki:

It probably all seems daunting at first and it's unusual to get results right off the bat (i.e. it takes a lot of effort), but I can promise you it is so worth it once you finally make it.

Once you've crossed into Super O territory, you'll basically lose control over your body and thrash about wildly and probably let out a bunch of primal sounds, so unfortunately it's something that is tough to do in a shared house.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Once you've crossed into Super O territory, you'll basically lose control over your body and thrash about wildly and probably let out a bunch of primal sounds, so unfortunately it's something that is tough to do in a shared house.

Lol.. Noted

[Thick_Unit Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Thick_Unit]

Do I need a device? Or is there a comfortable and effective way of doing this to yourself?

Let discussion commence

If you fingers are long enough it can be done with your hand.
Prostate orgasm is only slightly better then a regular orgasm . Maybe due to the fact that I am Uncircumcised .

But since most of the US is circumcised maybe why the Prostate orgasm is being reported as intense.

Be careful and use lube ,also take a shit first also!

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

Sorry, but I have to respectfully disagree with Thick_Unit. Just look at the Aneros forum if you don't believe me. There are guys from tons of different countries who swear by the Super O and I'm sure many are uncircumcised. Just check out this thread for some firsthand accounts:

I would be shocked if you could find one person on that forum who has had a super O (keep in mind many Aneros users have not had a successful super O, they are elusive and once you have the "real" thing it's life changing), that says an ejaculatory orgasm is even remotely in the same ballpark.

Keep in mind that most guys still think a "prostate orgasm" is when you ejaculate while having your prostate being stimulated by a finger, toy, or whatever. That is not the case at all. A prostate super orgasm has nothing to do with the penis or ejaculation, in fact a lot of guys experience them while being completely flaccid. They are also very hard to achieve and even some guys on the Aneros forum who have been working towards them for months have not yet achieved one.

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[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Feel free to PM me Rando. I just bought one anyway... If you don't try you'll never know, right?

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

Good luck man, just remember to be patient. It's a lot easier to go into each session with a mindset of "I'm just gonna enjoy whatever happens with no expectations" than to try and "force" something good to happen.

I wish there was a prostate orgasm group here, but I think there are too many hangups about prostate play still for it to take off.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

First try with a new MGX. Well that was interesting. I'm not sure how well seated I got the thing, and frankly I was more distracted by getting a sore anus from it than anything else. More lube next time I guess.

I kept it up in there for waybe 20 mins. Soft contractions fairly rhythmically for the first ten mins, trying to find my way. After that, laying on my back, I started thrusting up, and from side to side a little, just to see how things felt, by which time it had become quite pleasant. A couple of times it actually got close to what felt like a wave orgasm, but as per usual, pretty elusive.

Can't say I'm massively impressed myself so far, but the testimonials are enough persuasion to keep at it, especially since some people take months to achieve this "super-O" and I reckon the arousal awareness work we've been doing here must be something of a head start.

They say with practice this sort of prostate exercise is not only good for your health, but also your sexual stamina in general as well as bringing "super-Os" into easier reach in the future. It's a hard sell, hope it works

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

Good luck spanky, when I first got my toy I didn't know as much about prostate orgasms as I do now, and I thought it was a complete waste of money. I hadn't "awakened" my prostate at all so to speak, so if it's any consolation, you've already got a big head start on me. I stuck with and I'd say by my 5th or 6th session I was having some pretty intense feelings and I knew if I kept with it, very good things would come. My first Super O probably didn't occur for about 3 months, but after awhile even the sessions involving mini Os or dry Os become super intense and are so much better than normal masturbation.

Sounds like you have a decent head start at arousal awareness, but have you ever done meditation or anything like that? I have a bit of a background in Zen and meditate about 20 minutes most days and Zen concepts like completely quieting the mind from all thoughts, focusing entirely on sensations going through the body, and having zero expectations and staying in the present all immensely help the prostate experience. Maybe working on a couple mental things apart from your prostate sessions might be beneficial too.

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I lube my middle finger, insert into asshole and massage the prostate whilst jerkin' off.....feels GREAT!

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

... but have you ever done meditation or anything like that? I have a bit of a background in Zen and meditate about 20 minutes most days and Zen concepts like completely quieting the mind from all thoughts, focusing entirely on sensations going through the body, and having zero expectations and staying in the present all immensely help the prostate experience. Maybe working on a couple mental things apart from your prostate sessions might be beneficial too.

Interesting. In the few days I've been looking into this I've seen a lot of discussion of eastern and tantric practices (loosely) being key to achieving super Os. Now I'm not a spiritual sort at all BUT I do understand mental focus, submission, clarity and self awareness. I decided to start a martial art (I choose jujitsu) as soon as I can with a similar view, that is you can call the mental focus and channeling "chi" if you like, but to me it's still just about openness and focus. I did try regular meditation when I was a lot younger, but never stuck at it. Who knows what's around the corner!


It's going to be an interesting journey

Also I note that submission, which sounds key to achieving the super O, is something a lot of (all?) women need to do to achieve orgasm during intercourse. Related maybe?

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

Like you said, Zen or other Eastern practices don't have to be about spirituality at all. I don't really care about that aspect of Zen, just the other benefits like focus, clarity, self awareness, just basically being able to live in the now without all the other BS going through my head.

Being able to achieve a super O as a male and achieving an orgasm as a female are most certainly related. In fact, I've been much more proficient at giving females orgasms ever since I've been able to achieve super O's myself. Just knowing exactly what it takes in terms of relaxation and focus helps me understand so much better how to get females to do the same. I understand know that helping a girl relax and making her feel safe so that she can 100% let go are so important, whereas before I thought giving orgasms was all technical. You can be the best in the world at giving oral and it might not matter if the girl doesn't trust you or can't let go.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

You can be the best in the world at giving oral and it might not matter if the girl doesn't trust you or can't let go.

Amen to that. Seduction in a nutshell

[Boomstk Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boomstk]

I too bought an Aneros. I have heard it takes quite a bit of time to have a "super O". By that I mean a lot of sessions. Every time I tried I felt like I was 70% there to an orgasm but never was able to. I tried over and over but never had a feeling of accomplishment. The only way it would feel good is as if I moved the tip towards my belly button more. One day I was in an experimenting mood and thought well... maybe I should try something slightly larger. So I grabbed one of the smaller toys of my girlfriends. In about 5 minutes I had one of the most mind blowing orgasms I have ever experienced. The funny thing is, I wasn't even erect. I am a firm believer in P-spot orgasms now.