Ejaculating too often: consequences

[Nola-rise Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nola-rise]

The lazy and tiredness could strongly be related to simply depression, that is totally irrelevant to masturbation. Sexual drive is an energy booster in its self, so when people assume that they are energetic up an until they masturbate, might be confusing the fact that the drive to masturbate was what was giving them energy in the first place. And if you find yourself doing this multiable times a day, it is inevitable to confuse the lesser of two evils.

Guess the only way for you to determine whats real and whats not, is to lose sexual desires all together, and see if you fall back to having the same effects claimed to have had after masturbation.

[SeemsLegit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SeemsLegit]

I'd say I ejaculate 2 times per day 4 times per week (so on average more than once per day). Never had an issue from it but if I don't jerk it for 3-7 days my orgasm is exponentially better in terms of feeling and how far it shoots out. I like to jerk a lot because 1) It's fun and 2) it seems to help with turtling, but I don't think you lose a considerable amount of minerals or proteins from it.

[TheSperminator Member of the Month Oct 12 Find all posts View Profile Close TheSperminator]

Thanks for the responses guys!

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Somebodyelse you just hit the nail right on his head. (repped) It has become a sex replacer for me .. I just masturbate when I feel the need and that's it .. I didn't have a girl in like 5 years .. Just because porn is so easy to give you that rush in your head (or just masturbating in general). I'm a good-looking guy, well-fashioned, well-groomed, .. However i'm not very confident .. Like somebodyelse said, your not very dominant. Girls in real-life almost don't interest me anymore. I just don't see the benefits of working for a relationship, I see girls as attractive people who I can have sex with. That's it. Nothing more. I have a lot of male friends. I have girlfriends but I just don't have that urge to have sex with one of them or to work for a girl I find special. I hate it so bad, it makes me feel abnormal.

It's just a vicious circle. I'm not confident because I don't have that hunters mentality in me.. This leads to no sex or affection.. Wich leads to masturbation to fulfill my needs .. Wich leads to less testosterone and relaxing chemicals .. etcetera etcetera ..

I also feel that -when you masturbate a lot- women can sense this .. I think it can already be traced in your smell .. I don't think you give of a very attractive smell when you masturbate a lot, also because the life energy gets drained out of you .. I actually hate it, porn AND masturbation ..

I know masturbation is healthy if done 2-3 times a week like Steve23 said. But I always feel so lazy and lifeless when I do it .. I know, just quit with masturbation .. But then after 2 days I feel that urge again.

I'm really glad i've found this site, I can feel already my dick is becoming healthier/stronger. (the gains are a nice side-effect )

grtz

Note: this is the reason why I ask this question I really want to be afraid to bust nuts you know what I mean .. Just to restore myself .. I'm already quitting porn .. I'm gonna keep a log on that I think it will help.

Exactly what I'm going through. I've MBd so much in my life and It's done nothing but fuck me up! lol.....

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

Too much ejaculation from masterbation ties your mental connection of the sex act, with masterbation. It's not good.

It's better to have the real thing. Also, busting nuts too often will lower your erection power. But if your in pussy
and doing it, your building up your confidence in your cock as you have sex - and it adds to your erection power. So
I think busting nuts with pussy too often may be an impossibility.

But jagging off too often and not having sex CAN be a problem.

[A-J Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close A-J]

I've just decided to go celibate (also no masturbating to ejaculation) indefinitely while I commit to PE, although not necessarily for that reason.

I do think that 'life-force' energy is lost through ejaculation, which is why the French call an orgasm 'the little death', so since I've had more than my fair share of sex and masturbation the last 15 years or so I've decided to knock it on the head for a while and build up my energy stores and hopefully channel the energy into other things.

Sexual energy is often equated with kundalini, which is where tantric sex comes in. Thinking I might go on a course at some point to learn about/experience that, but in the meantime jelqing etc. will do fine. Think I actually enjoy the attention I give myself without having to/needing to ejaculate.

Well, that's my few pennies' worth on the matter, anyway

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

I've just decided to go celibate (also no masturbating to ejaculation) indefinitely while I commit to PE, although not necessarily for that reason.

I do think that 'life-force' energy is lost through ejaculation, which is why the French call an orgasm 'the little death', so since I've had more than my fair share of sex and masturbation the last 15 years or so I've decided to knock it on the head for a while and build up my energy stores and hopefully channel the energy into other things.

Sexual energy is often equated with kundalini, which is where tantric sex comes in. Thinking I might go on a course at some point to learn about/experience that, but in the meantime jelqing etc. will do fine. Think I actually enjoy the attention I give myself without having to/needing to ejaculate.

Well, that's my few pennies' worth on the matter, anyway

Did you guys catch my "confidence in the sex act" nugget, from actually being in vagina and having sex? Actual sexual intercourse builds up that part of your self image, your mind and strengthens it, makes it larger, increases the sexual energy, the confidence in the act...

Masterbation and not having a partner you share intimacy with I would think would shrink your self image with respect to the sex act... Unless you have an insanely powerful mind.

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Did you guys catch my "confidence in the sex act" nugget, from actually being in vagina and having sex? Actual sexual intercourse builds up that part of your self image, your mind and strengthens it, makes it larger, increases the sexual energy, the confidence in the act...

Masterbation and not having a partner you share intimacy with I would think would shrink your self image with respect to the sex act... Unless you have an insanely powerful mind.

I would love to be deep in some wet vag, but with my eq problems and lack of confidence from that and the fact that there aren't man women here and the ones I do get hit on by are not my type, keeps me from doing so, lol.

[bautista19 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bautista19]

Now that I try to avoid PONR while mb the idea of devoting 30 minutes to jerking off is kind of exhausting. This has led to me ejaculating less frequently, and I have noticed much difference.

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

I would love to be deep in some wet vag, but with my eq problems and lack of confidence from that and the fact that there aren't man women here and the ones I do get hit on by are not my type, keeps me from doing so, lol.

Fuck someone who's NOT YOUR TYPE just to get some pussy. I think many of us need to simplify things to this basis, and once you get something that you don't necessarily want - it's easier to get one that you do want.

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Fuck someone who's NOT YOUR TYPE just to get some pussy. I think many of us need to simplify things to this basis, and once you get something that you don't necessarily want - it's easier to get one that you do want.

this I have been told a few time. I guess I could take a few ugs, just to get myself back in order. I'm very picky and never been a pussy is pussy kinda guy. My problem is, I try and compare every woman to my ex wife. Blonde, blue eyes, nice smile, big tits and a nice ass!

also, when your dick is only getting about 5 erect when 7 is normal, fucks up my confidence and I'm like "aint no girl gonna be happy with that" I know it BS though... UGH! can you say F'd in the head! lol

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

this I have been told a few time. I guess I could take a few ugs, just to get myself back in order. I'm very picky and never been a pussy is pussy kinda guy. My problem is, I try and compare every woman to my ex wife. Blonde, blue eyes, nice smile, big tits and a nice ass!

I'm having the same problem. Thing about it, is I've been through droughts before and it always seems that once I start getting pussy, my options increase. Others want to give me some. If I'm starving it's usually not working out.

It's why I came up with the saying "the best way to get some pussy is to go out there and get some pussy"...

Your self image needs to be of you fucking, not starving.

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

I'm having the same problem. Thing about it, is I've been through droughts before and it always seems that once I start getting pussy, my options increase. Others want to give me some. If I'm starving it's usually not working out.

It's why I came up with the saying "the best way to get some pussy is to go out there and get some pussy"...

Your self image needs to be of you fucking, not starving.

my goal for today is PUSSY! lol and not to worry about my eq, just try and get some lol. I'm also thinking of moving. Just got to get money saved up.

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

my goal for today is PUSSY! lol and not to worry about my eq, just try and get some lol. I'm also thinking of moving. Just got to get money saved up.

It's a great goal. Need to get on that "one track mind". What's funny is when your pussy is in abundance so is much of the rest of your life.

Just go get some of the pussy you can already get. It's remarkable the before and after result of just getting some pussy makes.

[longrodten Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close longrodten]

my goal for today is PUSSY! lol and not to worry about my eq, just try and get some lol. I'm also thinking of moving. Just got to get money saved up.

It will be a sound goal to get that cock wrapped in some pussy or a ladies mouth. Later you can get a great girlfriend, if that's the path you choose. First you need to grease your wheels and "take care of yourself"....