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Doing good, how bout you? 
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Good, glad to hear it! Doing pretty well myself, thanks!
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Me tooOriginally posted by The Passionate Wife View PostI have to say, I rather enjoyed that quiz.
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Okay...this next quiz sounds rather interesting too. Ready?
Everyone has a fear that they struggle with! Find out exactly what that is with this test! WARNING: This test brings up some really serious or uncomfortable scenarios to determine how you'd react in emotionally stressful situations.
WHAT IS YOUR GREATEST INTERNAL STRUGGLE?
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Originally posted by The Passionate Wife View PostHiya Wishful, Swimdaddy-O, Nekked Nerd and Qandisa...thanks for joining us!
I can't miss a party!
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Good to hear Nerd...besides it wouldn't be the same without your nekked butt running around here!Originally posted by Nerd-Since-92 View Post I can't miss a party!
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What? I thought you all joined me. Either way great to see and be seenOriginally posted by The Passionate Wife View PostHiya Wishful, Swimdaddy-O, Nekked Nerd and Qandisa...thanks for joining us!
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Fear of Failure
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-m9sgkKsACo
Your greatest internal struggle is between your goals to succeed or progress and your fear of failure! Really, fear of failure could also be a fear of success (or of losing or not deserving the success one has earned)!
CHAKRA POINT: Solar and pelvic
COLOR: Yellow
FEARS: Failure; being invisible or overlooked; losing identity
BAD HABITS: Need to be in control; perfectionism; poor decision making; judgmental or critical of others
MANTRA: "Failure is the stepping stone to success."
With failure as your primary struggle, it's likely that nothing makes you feel worse than putting your efforts into something and having it not pay off like you expected. There are two ways in which people can respond in this struggle: introverted and extroverted. Both types crave frequent feedback from others to keep motivated and find that criticism and having their hard work or opinions go unnoticed are the hardest pills to swallow.
The difference is that introverts will often take negative or lack of feedback and use it as an excuse to give up on trying! Whereas extroverts will respond by becoming stubborn and defensive of their work when confronted with its flaws.
Don't depend on what others think of your projects/ work/ contributions to define your success and don't compare yourself to others! Success and popularity are not the same thing! Success is how YOU feel about the work you've done and, if you've gotten something positive out of it, then that's what's important! All you can do is humbly accept criticism and keep striving to be the best YOU possible!Last edited by TPW; 01-07-2015, 09:09 PM.Comment
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Your greatest internal struggle is between your goals to succeed or progress and your fear of failure! Really, fear of failure could also be a fear of success (or of losing or not deserving the success one has earned)!
CHAKRA POINT: Solar and pelvic
COLOR: Yellow
FEARS: Failure; being invisible or overlooked; losing identity
BAD HABITS: Need to be in control; perfectionism; poor decision making; judgmental or critical of others
MANTRA: "Failure is the stepping stone to success."
With failure as your primary struggle, it's likely that nothing makes you feel worse than putting your efforts into something and having it not pay off like you expected. There are two ways in which people can respond in this struggle: introverted and extroverted. Both types crave frequent feedback from others to keep motivated and find that criticism and having their hard work or opinions go unnoticed are the hardest pills to swallow.
The difference is that introverts will often take negative or lack of feedback and use it as an excuse to give up on trying! Whereas extroverts will respond by becoming stubborn and defensive of their work when confronted with its flaws.
Don't depend on what others think of your projects/ work/ contributions to define your success and don't compare yourself to others! Success and popularity are not the same thing! Success is how YOU feel about the work you've done and, if you've gotten something positive out of it, then that's what's important! All you can do is humbly accept criticism and keep striving to be the best YOU possible!Last edited by swimdad25; 01-07-2015, 09:00 PM.Conquest’s Third Law: “The simplest way to explain the behavior of any bureaucratic organization is to assume that it is controlled by a cabal of its enemies.”Comment
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Fear of Rejection
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Your greatest internal struggle is between your desire to connect with others and the fear of rejection!
CHAKRA POINT: Heart
COLOR: Green
FEARS: Rejection; being unloved or disliked; being left out; loneliness
BAD HABITS: Anti-social tendencies; dysfunctional relationships; insecurity; withholds emotions; loves conditionally
MANTRA: "Those who care don't matter, and those who matter don't care."
With rejection being your primary struggle, you probably frequently worrying whether or not you made the right impression on others. There are two ways people struggling with this can react. Introverts who struggle with this often become more isolated and spend very little time socializing.
On the other hand, extroverts with this insecurity sometimes put on a mask by coming across as over-confident: "just try to reject me! I don't care what you think" (when they really mean the opposite). Both introverts and extroverts might sometimes come across as abrasive to others, because you're either too withdrawn or too blunt about things.
Extroverts might also find themselves caught up in drama involving either themselves or those they know. This is because they have a hard time letting go of toxic individuals that add pain and conflict into their life. Learning to enjoy our own company and be alone by ourselves is a skill worth having! Be selective about the quality of the people you'll allow into your life!
All in all, relax and just be yourself! Rejection isn't the end of the world (even if it is uncomfortable). Those who truly love you don't care if you make mistakes, accidentally say the wrong thing, or have some flaws! Those who truly matter are there when you need them the most. Learn to love yourself enough to let people go and forgive them of the pain or conflict they bring. Consider taking up meditation and ensure you have plenty of alone time for self-reflection.Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than beforeComment
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If it helps much I'm wearing ONLY glasses.Originally posted by The Passionate Wife View PostGood to hear Nerd...besides it wouldn't be the same without your nekked butt running around here!
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Shoot I lost it on that one.
I got FEAR OF FAILURE, and then I did again
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I got the same workin!Originally posted by workin_4_it View Post
I really hate rejections or being hate by others.GOAL DIGGER !Comment
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A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_itComment
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Don't sweat it wishful, have some some pizza!Originally posted by wishful10x8 View PostShoot I lost it on that one.
I got FEAR OF FAILURE, and then I did again
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Hahaha Nerd...dare I ask where exactly those glasses are being worn?Originally posted by Nerd-Since-92 View PostIf it helps much I'm wearing ONLY glasses. 
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