8 Dating/Sex Questions Women Really Want to Know from Men

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Hey Fellas,

Are you up for answering some sex/dating questions about men that a great many women have been asking me lately? If so, please know that there is no need to answer all of them, just the ones that pertain to you. Ready? OK, here goes…

DATING:

1. What 3 attributes are most important to you when looking for a potential love interest?

2. What can she do to let you know she is romantically interested in you? Is there anything she should never do?

3. What are your expectations of a romantic partner?

4. How much does it matter if she is not a virgin?

SEX:

1. What do men really think about during sex?

2. What should women really stop worrying about during sex?

3. What is the one thing men wish women did in bed that they never do?

4. What is the sexiest thing a woman can do during sexual play?

I really hate when I have to be serious but I'll do it for the sake of science;

1) Just be a nice, fun , relaxed person who really isn't looking for anything other than to get to know another person.
2) She doesn't have to do anything except if I call her back answer the phone. If she answers she must have some interest.
3) Expectations? Don't have any. Just be who you are and if I like it that's fine.
4) What's a virgin? They still around? ( well you didn't expect me to be serious through the whole thing now did you?)

Sex
1) men think about sex and nothing more
2) they shouldn't worry;; just have fun. Hey am I so she can too.
3) What should they do that they never do? Sorry but I haven't run in to one like that. Give me time I guess.
4) Sexiest thing they can do? Fall asleep right afterwards. You know they had fun and then I could watch tv!

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Thanks so very much for taking the time to get serious and respond to my questions Cusp. And I'll even give you an A!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Thanks so very much for taking the time to get serious and respond to my questions Cusp. And I'll even give you an A!

Thank you. I thought I'd rate right up there in the pervert department.

[Joint-Expansion Senior Member Member of the Month August 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Joint-Expansion]

DATING:

1. What 3 attributes are most important to you when looking for a potential love interest?

Easy going demeanor, sense of HUMOR, at least SOME common interests.

2. What can she do to let you know she is romantically interested in you? Is there anything she should never do?

Make eye contact, smile, laugh at my stupid sense of humor. Tell me she wants to see me again.

Not do? Treat me as if I am super unimportant. Like LAST on her list of priorities.

3. What are your expectations of a romantic partner?

Not really expectations, but at least be easy to talk to, and smiles, or laughs easily. Doesn't take life, or herself too seriously. A hint that she's passionate and attracted to me certainly catches and holds my attention.

4. How much does it matter if she is not a virgin?

I PREFER that...The more experience, the better for me personally. I get to benefit from that experience. haha

SEX:

1. What do men really think about during sex?

For me, it's primarily about if I am making it as enjoyable for my partner as it is for me...How good her body feels with mine.

2. What should women really stop worrying about during sex?

Their IMAGE! You are ALL so beautiful in your own ways, and nearly every woman I have been with is so self-conscious when they take their clothes off. They think they have to look like a swimsuit, or fitness model. Truth be told, CURVES are what make a woman look so breathtaking! At least for me it is that way.

3. What is the one thing men wish women did in bed that they never do?

I wouldn't say NEVER do, but perhaps ENJOY giving oral as much I do. SOME do, but most I have been with really don't care about that type of give and take, as much as I do.

4. What is the sexiest thing a woman can do during sexual play?

POSE for me, in erotic positions. Show it ALL off to me. MAKE my heart beat fast, before I have even touched your body. Show me your sexual nature, and that you WANT me to look, and desire you even deeper. That is truly awe-inspiring to me.

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Okay let's see:

Dating:
1) a) Laugh at my Jokes (and me at hers), b) Intelligent and driven c) We should be attracted to each other+ Chemistry

2) I don't understand. Is she initiating, or have we gone on a date or two before this? Or are we just friends?

3) I tend to overthink stuff, and am kind of an introvert. So someone who's spontaneous and outgoing. Appreciative of me and should be able to take a compliment. Into physical intimacy (kissing and cuddling, aside from sex). Understanding and open about her problems as well (rather than letting them brew). Accommodate my kinks or atleast try them out.

4) Preferred if she's not.

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Dating:

1. Be natural. Be a nice person. Be good humoured

2. Be honest with me, hearing the words "I like you" from someone you like is heart-warming (makes me feel on top of the world). Don't play games with my emotions (big turn off for me, I find it immature). Don't talk about ex's

3. Be a lady and let me be a gentleman. Don't swear. Don't smoke. Be nice to me. Take an interest in physical fitness and looking after herself

4. I don't expect any woman to be a virgin that I'm with, but I'm not interested in her Ex's, I'm just interested in her


Sex:

1. Not thinking anything (well maybe about pleasing her), Mostly just feeling her lips, legs, arms, belly, vagina and her skin against mine, no place on earth I'd rather be than between the woman I care about legs with her arms pulling me close to her. Like her smell too, intoxicating!

2. Don't worry about anything, just relax and let yourself enjoy the moment. certainly don't worry about how she looks, I'm all about the sense of touch when I have her naked (so touch me lots!)

3. Make more of an effort to kiss me! (I find it a turn on and I feel more of a connection to the person I'm with), also go on top(I can get lazy sometimes, lazy sex can be good!)

4. Rap her legs around me during missionary position (my favourite), touch me lots with her hands and kiss me a lot when I'm about to cum

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

These are really excellent answers Gentlemen...thanks so much for responding. Keep them coming!