Who has it harder ? Women or Men ?

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

Ok guys and gals you might think I'm crazy but I really think guys have it harder in life. Now I understand women have to go through the pain of labor, menstrual cycles, etc. But look at it this way people generally say that it's not fair for women because men look for big boobs, ass, fit and pretty women. And men are shallow because they won't give fat girls a look. But guess what ??? WOMEN CAN CHANGE THAT ! That's the big difference between men and women.

Yes a woman can get a boob job or ass job, a fat girl can lose weight. But guess what ? Men get ridiculed if they have a small penis or if they're short. A man truly has to work hard for months to gain even an inch for their penis. A short guy can't change himself to make himself taller. Honestly I hate the sympathy for women. (Sorry women)

But that's how I feel. I see women always saying why can't I get a good guy ? Well Im not saying all women do this but the majority will blow off the good guy for the asshole or blow off the short guy for the tall guy. I see women saying don't judge me for this and that but then rejects a guy because he's fat,short, small penis, etc. That's why I think men have it harder than women in this world.

To end this long rant Im just saying women please practice what you preach !

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

You mean in dating? Or life in general nowadays? Also, what country?

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Life is hard for men and women so how can we ever get the correct answer. It is not harder for either just as it is not easier and since we have way more men we will have a lopsided and argument filled thread so be forwarned if this one gets stupid it will vanish quickly.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

Look at it this way, a lady gets to meet a guy's penis only when they are about to have sex, and most ladies don't care about size, some do care about height or any other trait, but then, its a compatibility thing, find someone else.

You see totally unfit guys wearing unfit and unfashionable clothes everywhere, without taking care of anything, not even grooming, and they are not being blamed or judged.


On the other hand, so much more is expected from ladies, they are faced with ever-growing demand for an unrealistic look inspired by Photoshop and the media, as well as cosmetic companies and fashion houses and so on so forth, they get a lot more ridicule if they don't meet those ridiculous beauty and fashion "standards", their whole being is subject to the scrutiny of everyone who is ready to judge.

As for sizes and so, well, here males have it way easier, you can naturally and safely increase your penises size and for free, while ladies have to undergo risky and expensive procedures to get that "perfect look", and by risky, I mean life threatening, as in cancer.

No one has it easy, but I don't think ladies have it easier than males, in fact, I do believe that its the other way around.

[CaptAbe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CaptAbe]

There someone for everyone buddy. I know men who love thicker women, I know men who love petite women, tall women, short women..etc.. Just as I know of women who love those different types of men...People are attracted to who they are attracted to, just that simple.

....I dunno, as for who has it harder, pfft that's easy, men do, have you seen and erect penis! find a woman with something harder.... bones do not count ha!

[bored Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bored]

You already know it's men

[PoliceBaton Member Find all posts View Profile Close PoliceBaton]

As far as women vs men in the dating/sex world.. I would have to say it is a little harder for the women. They have so many pressures and things that push on them constantly. For instance you rarely ever see an ugly fat girl with a good looking valuable guy, but it is definitely common for you to see a beautiful woman with a not so good looking guy. We can get value from not only our looks but our personality, I feel like females only can rely on their looks, in American culture that is.

[mcpecker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mcpecker]

Easier for women to get laid, harder during child birth.

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Easier for women to get laid, harder during child birth.

So, would you'd say women tend to be more selective?

[arkham Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arkham]

So, would you'd say women tend to be more selective?

Woman usually has the last word.

[PanBird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PanBird]

You mean PE-ing is harder than getting a boob job and loose weight? You mean women can't be extremely tall and extremely short? You mean they feel better about themselves? A woman never judges a penis. At least very very seldom. Guys, on the other hand, judges themselves and think their penis is worth nothing.

Cmon dude- I can't find it harder or less hard on any side.

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Woman usually has the last word.

Considering men usually approach women mostly, and they approach women they're attracted to, that's a fair point.

Also, to the OP, I feel women tend to get defended more. While mean comments are made for both sexes (either about a woman's body, or a guy's penis) men tend to get defended less, on public forums. Also, there is a lot of love for women of many body types expressed more freely, than love for different male body types.

I think on some level men make it harder for other men. (Women do too, but they're more subtle). I remember when a chick posted a picture of her with her FWBs on GoneWild (reddit) a guy made a disparaging remark about his penis size. While he was dealt with quickly, the damage was probably done. I remember other cases where when the guy couldn't keep 'it' up, due to anxiety/depression, some guys 'advised' to break up with him because it would get worse and she'd get dragged down. Competitive spirit is fierce and vocal, even if the chick is 100s of miles away.

Then there's also the small penis jokes. For some reason these seem to be fair game. And both men and women tend to use them.

PS: I'm not going into the troubles women face. A woman's perspective on this would be better.

[BigRooster Senior Member Member of the Month Apr 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigRooster]

Easier for women to get laid, harder during child birth.

Pretty much impossible during child birth. Wouldn't you agree? Getting laid is what got her there in the first place.

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

Yes dating and life in general. And in USA, USA, USA.

[Virom Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Virom]

Life is easier for: Very attractive men, 10/10 alpha males > very attractive women > average women > average men > men below average > women below average. In total, it's easier for women because their average scores better than men.