Who has it harder ? Women or Men ?

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

If that's how the girls around my age think. Then that's how my mentality will be too. You guys say women aren't shallow, yes older women but the younger ones are. And that's why this thread was made because women my age are truly shallow and don't know what they want. It's easier for a woman to get a boyfriend than a man to get a girlfriend.

What? I think you have it harder, on yourself. You don't know exactly what you want. But then again, not many people know what they want, no matter how old they are. Besides, just because they don't want what you want, it simply doesn't mean that they don't know what they want... but what's this it's easier for a woman to get a boyfriend, instead of vise versa? Well I wonder why.... yet it doesn't need to be that way. It can indeed be equal. Are you following?? Are you filling in the blanks? Shall we play a simple game of ab-libs?

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

You know those type of women who say shit like killing yourself over crap like this? Yeah, stay away from that type.
If they give you crap directly, call them out on their shit. Parrot back what they told you, and they'd become uncomfortable realizing what they said.

[PanBird Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PanBird]

PanBird you're entitled to your own opinion but yes PE-ing is 10x harder than a boob job. Yes women are short and tall but both short and tall women go after tall man which leaves the short guy. And yes women judges a penis, especially girls my age (only 19). And yes the truth is guys look at there penis as if their penis is nothing which mine is (4.5 girth)

I once heard a couple of women say if a guy is short or has a small penis then why is he living. That's pretty harsh.

Just about the PE-ing: Here on the forum, I can say 1 year of PEing, and most have grown 1''. A boob job means about 10 000 dollars, I think? You're about the same age as me, 10 grant is pretty much in our age, isn't it? From where at first would 19 yo girls get money to that? Second of all, it means that they're going on a surgery, which is hard for you. You're able to make your dick bigger with surgery, it costs about the same, but you don't. And 4.5'' girth is not nothing. Stop looking at porn and other guys big penis's on the internet. That's about average, about the same size as me, and my gf consider me as big.

And if they judges your penis size when you're having sex, you need to work on your technique. If they judges is on some other basis, you need to find real girls. Just to make it clear. And yes, I can see how a boob job is easy made, but that's unnatural and doesn't feel right. I think there are women with boob job wishing they never did. It's a huge improvement when you think they're real, but when you come under the clothes, they're not as attractive as natural ones.

[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

QUOTE=PanBird;836090]Just about the PE-ing: Here on the forum, I can say 1 year of PEing, and most have grown 1''. A boob job means about 10 000 dollars, I think? You're about the same age as me, 10 grant is pretty much in our age, isn't it? From where at first would 19 yo girls get money to that? Second of all, it means that they're going on a surgery, which is hard for you. You're able to make your dick bigger with surgery, it costs about the same, but you don't. And 4.5'' girth is not nothing. Stop looking at porn and other guys big penis's on the internet. That's about average, about the same size as me, and my gf consider me as big.

And if they judges your penis size when you're having sex, you need to work on your technique. If they judges is on some other basis, you need to find real girls. Just to make it clear. And yes, I can see how a boob job is easy made, but that's unnatural and doesn't feel right. I think there are women with boob job wishing they never did. It's a huge improvement when you think they're real, but when you come under the clothes, they're not as attractive as natural ones.[/QUOTE]

That's easy for you to say. You have experience , and I don't, None at all ! What if I run into someone that's experienced and im not. How would I look ?

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

I feel like it's more difficult for women.

When you look on a news channel, you see a graying larger man, his co anchor has her hair colored and is skinny.

On movies and TV, you mostly see older women with their hair colored, botox to remove their natural lines, and looking fit.


I used to work in the electronics department in a store and dealt with it almost daily. I would ask a guy if I could help him, he would say no and keep walking. A few minutes later a co worker would walk up to me with the same customer and ask me the question because he didn't know the answer. Not only would I answer the question, I would go beyond and explain the differences and whatever. They would always hurry out of the department after they purchased whatever they came in for. At first, it pissed me off, but then I found it funny.

As women, we are always having to prove ourselves (school, working "a man's job", being a CEO of a company). It's always, "who did she have to blow/have sex with to get that position".

Hell, there is a song that I'm sure most of you know. It's called It's a Man's World by James Brown.

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/james...mansworld.html

Not to mention, as women, we are expected to work, take care of the kids, clean the house, cook, do laundry and then have alone time with our men while he is sitting down watching the TV, on the computer or playing video games because he is tired from working all day.

I can give so many more examples, but my fingers would fall off!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

From what I hear some girls love a guy with no experience. This way they can train they their way. It does sound like fun.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

From what I hear some girls love a guy with no experience. This way they can train they their way. It does sound like fun.

And that would be why I'm still a virgin....... get it? lol

[JonPop Retired Sr. Administrator PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close JonPop]

O.K. since this is the most important question ever asked on this forum or the world for that matter, and if we never get to find out "Who has it harder, Women or Men", we shall all shrivel up and die.
I want answers. I need to know. My life will be incomplete until I find out. This question is way to important not to stay on topic...We MUST know.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

And that would be why I'm still a virgin....... get it? lol

No you're a virgin cause you're ugly; a really cool guy and lots of fun but ugly!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

No you're a virgin cause you're ugly; a really cool guy and lots of fun but ugly!

No wonder I have it harder than women! I'm so ugly that I'm intimidating, they just won't approach me, for my virginity. And to think, women have it harder than men. HA! No wait, I must have that backwards. No wait, maybe I don't! Man, this is too confusing.

[MrPriapus Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MrPriapus]

Generalities are stupid. Some people have it harder, some people have it easier. Welcome to life.

@OP: You honestly don't sound like you have enough experience to even have this conversation. And of course women are shallow at that age for the exact same reason - no experience. They're about as shallow as someone trying to compare qualities of life based on gender. Seriously, how is this even possible.

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

That's easy for you to say. You have experience , and I don't, None at all ! What if I run into someone that's experienced and im not. How would I look ?

I think you just need to get out there and stop living in your own head. While your thinking too much you are basically talking yourself out of meeting girls and finding the experience you after.

They are just as human as you are, try just talking to them with no expectation, you might find you have more in common with them than you originally thought.

No one can live your life for you, no amount of me drinking is going to quench your thirst.

If you think you can't - you can't, if you think you can - you can!

Stay positive!

[Rasputine Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rasputine]

Ok guys and gals you might think I'm crazy but I really think guys have it harder in life. Now I understand women have to go through the pain of labor, menstrual cycles, etc. But look at it this way people generally say that it's not fair for women because men look for big boobs, ass, fit and pretty women. And men are shallow because they won't give fat girls a look. But guess what ??? WOMEN CAN CHANGE THAT ! That's the big difference between men and women.

Yes a woman can get a boob job or ass job, a fat girl can lose weight. But guess what ? Men get ridiculed if they have a small penis or if they're short. A man truly has to work hard for months to gain even an inch for their penis. A short guy can't change himself to make himself taller. Honestly I hate the sympathy for women. (Sorry women)

But that's how I feel. I see women always saying why can't I get a good guy ? Well Im not saying all women do this but the majority will blow off the good guy for the asshole or blow off the short guy for the tall guy. I see women saying don't judge me for this and that but then rejects a guy because he's fat,short, small penis, etc. That's why I think men have it harder than women in this world.

To end this long rant Im just saying women please practice what you preach !

So far you have met just girls,not women.So I think it would be hard and unfair to say anything about
women at this point

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

The funny thing is he'll grow up in a few years, dating lots of women, and all this will be forgotten. Such is youth!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Honestly, I wish I had his problem. Damn I miss those days! Oh be patient would you? I haven't forgotten that I'm still a virgin.