Desperate

[Betterself Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Betterself]

Hi I'm 38 years old and I'm skeptical about all this. Today I measured my penis and is 4.75-5" and I couldn't believe. I realize people here say they gained 1" or more but I still not convinced. I started today with the exercises and my question is:
Does the age make harder for obtaining results?
I also struggled with PE for about 10 years now, I'm married and I know my wife is not happy about it, I went to doctors they gave antidepressants but still no change.
Please I'm crying out for help, any help.
I'm on a quest to loose weight too, I'm over weight in about 30 pounds but that's another matter.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and I'm looking forward to any reply.
God bless

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Some are skeptical starting out -

We get this type of post with some regularity.

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https://www.pegym.com/forums/introdu...al-newbie.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/introdu...ical-noob.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...-beginner.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/success...-3-months.html
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https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...skeptical.html

for your research.

Click here to start!

Please review the Rules, and most importantly the items in the Safety section. Critically important information is in there, so you don't hurt yourself/go in the wrong direction.

Then on to the Beginners Section, and select a Routine.

JP's 90 Day Beginner Routine is one used by many.

you may try reading through the pe forum here:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Welcome to the gym.

First thing is to make sure you are measuring correctly, (Measuring) The measurements you see posted here are BPEL. I think most of us were a little skeptical when starting out I was myself. I have been a member here for 3 years and now a moderator. I can assure you that if it didn't work I wouldn't be wasting my time here. Age has no effect on the gains that can be made. We have members here that range from 18 to over 70 years old that have had great success. Now as far as your PE goes, you can find a lot of information and help in the Premature Ejaculation Forum

Go to the START HERE! link at the top of the page and do plenty of reading. In there you will find all of the information you will need to get started of safely and effectively. And as always, don't hesitate to ask questions if there is anything you don't understand.

[Betterself Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Betterself]

Thank you dangler for your help, I'm reading a lot and I'll try my best to encourage myself. There's a lot going on inside my head but I'm going to fight and win this. Have you had any progress doing this?

[Betterself Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Betterself]

Hi cavalier, yes I measuring right (unfortunately). I mean no disrespect for the people here but like I said I'm desperate. I read some posts that people can see significantly results in a month or so. How's the journey for you so far?

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Hi cavalier, yes I measuring right (unfortunately). I mean no disrespect for the people here but like I said I'm desperate. I read some posts that people can see significantly results in a month or so. How's the journey for you so far?

I found this site while searching the web for help with my ED problems. It's said here that these exercises are great for penile health and improving EQ. I thought I would give it a try to help improve my EQ, but I had doubts that it would enlarge my penis. My EQ improved and to my surprise I was getting bigger. I don't post what my gains are on the forum, but I will tell that they are very significant.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Hey Betterself, don't sweat the age issue. We have members from 18-85+, and PE helps guys of ALL ages improve their penile health, confidence, libido, cure pre-E,et. al. and most gain size with persistent regular PE. Welcome aboard!

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

I'm married and I know my wife is not happy about it, I went to doctors they gave antidepressants but still no change.

You went to the doctor's complaining about...? What? Not your penis size, I'm sure.
And your doctor just automatically prescribes pills?
Fun fact: A lot of medications have negative effects on men's sexual health.

You said you wanted to make significant gains in "a month or so." That's probably going to come back to bite you. If I could give you any recommendations, it would be to go into this without expectations. Don't set a specific date by when you should have made gains by - making gains is almost entirely out of your control.
Remember: PE is not for everyone. Too many people hurt themselves, or have negative effects as a result of it. Not me. Maybe I'm lucky?

If you're going to make any goal, it'd be "By this date, I will have committed to XYZ routine." You can't force your body to do things - you can only influence it, coax it into the direction you want it to go. Think of PE as a sort of yoga or exercise for your penis.
You don't go to yoga and say "Okay I'll be enlightened with full joint mobility in a couple of months. Let's go!" That's gonna be painful. Instead, learn to enjoy the process. Make it part of your lifestyle. You said you wanted to lose weight, well incorporate this into your total-body makeover. Persistence with anything is massive.

And also remember that lot of people have made gains. Check out the success forum. Gains come in a variety of ways, from lasting longer, to having harder erections, to girth, to length, to increased libido. You might have gains in one or two areas in the short term, while the rest take a little longer.

But there's no way to find out unless you do it. So read the START HERE part of the boards, learn as much as you can, take it slow, and fill your head with positivity.

[Betterself Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Betterself]

Toadstool, I went to the doctor about premature ejaculation. We tried medications for about a year but the side effects were really bad and no improvement on pe. I meant to say is that I read about people getting great results in about a month and I'm curious to see if this will happen to me as well. I started the exercises today and I'm getting confident that I'll see some result. There's just this side of me whispering "is too late" if you know what I mean...

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Toadstool, I went to the doctor about premature ejaculation. We tried medications for about a year but the side effects were really bad and no improvement on pe. I meant to say is that I read about people getting great results in about a month and I'm curious to see if this will happen to me as well. I started the exercises today and I'm getting confident that I'll see some result. There's just this side of me whispering "is too late" if you know what I mean...

Yea I think I know what you mean. It's never too late for PE. Actually, just the opposite, that the guys who experience quick gains are usually older guys who had poor blood flow. Their member looks bigger, but that's actually just the result of a healthier circulation.

It's not impossible to get gains in a month. It just doesn't happen all that often.

[EsteemIssues Member Find all posts View Profile Close EsteemIssues]

Hey Brother, get off those anti-depressants. Those things can mess you up. Try this out for a quick band-aid. Put a little lidocaine on the head and sensitive area, just being the head. This is commonly sold as burn cream. Let it sit for about 10 minutes and wash it off and it will last about an hour, so don't apply it too far ahead of time. If I get the timing just right, I can porno pound for 10 minutes. My wife likes one style, fast & hard, so I'm always looking for ways to get an extra couple minutes.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Yes some members get fast results when doing rk , hindi squat etc.
We usually say pre e as onsite pe refers to penis enlargement training.

[Betterself Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Betterself]

I'll definitely try that, but I'm really looking to have a great night with my wife. Have you start any of these exercises?

[Betterself Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Betterself]

Pegasus thanks for the advice on the names, I'm not used to these yet.
Can you tell me where to post questions about kegels and rk? I'm not sure I'm exercising the right muscles.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

The above advice is excellent- please take it to heart!