Average guy...

[etuhu Banned Find all posts View Profile Close etuhu]

Hey all, just going to introduce myself and give you a short story.

I've never been confident with my size; flaccid I am about 3 inches - 4 inches (best) and not much girth. My erect size is 6x4.7-5.

I know it could be worse but some days I feel like I can't be bothered to do anything, my confidence is low and I sometimes avoid contact with females which is a horrible feeling as I consider myself to be quite good looking.

I have jelqed before so I know that it can work, I gained a little bit of length (.3) and girth by doing JP90 routine for about 6 months but due to me stopping for 2 months I lost all of that plus my flaccid gains.

My dream size would be 7x5.5 but I'm not sure if I can reach that. I've heard about guys reaching that size in one year but I'm not feeling very optimistic at the moment. I look at some guys on this site who are starting at 7+ inches and I honestly feel like I've been short changed in this area. I think I would have had such a better quality of life if I didn't constantly have this size worry in the back of my mind.

Can anyone tell me if it's possible for me to become a shower instead of a grower and if it's possible for me to increase my erect size to 7x5.5?

Thanks guys...

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Some exceed their dreams, some not quite there (yet).
My best advice is - you won't know until you begin the journey, so get started.
Do not give up easily.
Start a log, and post details regularly, that helps keep you on track.

Your worrying is your worst enemy, and you ought to counter think negative thoughts with equally opposing positive ones. Hey, let's be fair & balanced in our dick thinking !

[etuhu Banned Find all posts View Profile Close etuhu]

I do try not to worry about it but it's the biggest and worst insecurity that I (and a lot of other men) have... I feel like if I didn't have this constant worry and comparing myself to other people I would have achieved so much more in life...

Dangler: out of curiosity, what was your starting size?

I know I'm going to continue doing PE until I die now, no matter how long it takes me. There is no feeling worse than feeling like you can't satisfy your girlfriend as much as someone else could, it's just an insecurity that I would have liked to live without.

If anyone can give me any advice or help I would appreciate it...

Is my starting size bad?

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Your stating size is around high average, so better than those who are starting mid average or below average. Also seems given enough time and dedication, 1"x0.5" should be doable for most...although just how much time and how much dedication differs from person to person.

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[etuhu Banned Find all posts View Profile Close etuhu]

I forgot to mention that I am looking to get my flaccid gains back as I am self conscious of its size now (3-3.5in).

Is it possible for me to become a grower instead of a shower?

I am buying the Phallosan soon would this help me out with gains ?

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I forgot to mention that I am looking to get my flaccid gains back as I am self conscious of its size now (3-3.5in).

Is it possible for me to become a grower instead of a shower?

I am buying the Phallosan soon would this help me out with gains ?

Ya got that backwards, bro. You ARE A GROWER already. Some guys have success with retraining their cremaster muscles that surround our balls. They are involuntary muscles that react to temps, sex, fight or flight responses, etc, causing the balls to retract, and to a lesser degree, the penis as well. Wearing a leather cuff around your ball-sac 24/7 will help the cremasters to relax and retrain them, allowing your balls to hang more freely and your penis to relax more as well. Las stretches will also help expose more of the inner penis giving grower guys a more prominent hang. See my signature thread (post #5 below) "Avoiding turkey neck" for more info.

[etuhu Banned Find all posts View Profile Close etuhu]

Oh sorry, I got them the wrong way round.

I was starting to like the way my flaccid was looking after 6 Months on JP90 but I lost all of that after 2 months of not doing the routine.

My main worry iis my flaccid size right now.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Oh sorry, I got them the wrong way round.

I was starting to like the way my flaccid was looking after 6 Months on JP90 but I lost all of that after 2 months of not doing the routine.

My main worry iis my flaccid size right now.

Doing PE for 2 months then abandoning it is of no use. Cementing gains from PE takes time (at LEAST 90 days of PE "maintenance"). Wearing a properly sized steel cock ring 24/7 will help cement gains more quickly. PM me for more info on that if you're interested.