WonderMonkey here .... hello!

[WonderMonkey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WonderMonkey]

Good afternoon! I'm a 49, soon to be 50, year old male. I've always had a bit of lack of sensitivity in my little fella and as I got older, lost control of my health (career, kids, coaching) it turned into ED. I'm no longer at my heaviest (was 330 lbs) and just about 20 lbs away from what I consider a healthy and sustainable bodyfat %. My life isn't very stressful, or I deal with it well, really no difference.

One of the issues I have is when I do get erect, which I can do each time, is sustaining the erection. My wife is VERY slippery and I just don't feel enough sensation to keep my little fellas attention. I'm not the largest person, being just under 6", nor the widest (whatever I am). I know if I was more sensitive (crying, sharing, watching more romantic comedies .... no, just kidding) then things would improve, or maybe if I had more girth that would cause more friction.

I'm here to see what can be done about my situation. I did order a Aneros Syn based on a thread I was reading to see if that helps (over time) and plan on looking at the "Five G" post again. I'm skeptical on being able to add size (length, girth) but I'm going to jump into that forum and read a bunch and see what I see.

So ... hello! I hope to learn and possibly share, whatever I can do to contribute.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Welcome WonderMonkey. Thanks for sharing and contributing already. This is a great place to start.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html

As it is the START HERE BUTTON. Give it a read, pick a routine and grow your sensitivity. (I love you, man). Enjoy.

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Welcome WonderMonkey!

Start gently and work your way up and keep an eye on those PI's.

Happy tugging!

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

WELCOME! Glad you joined us! READ ALL those threads in the START HERE tab, top left grey bar, to learn ALL about the Gym, posting rules, jargon commonly used here, routines for conditioning your penis to enhance growth potential, PLUS effective ways to PE SAFELY!

Your participation here is fully encouraged on ALL the forums, so join in! Everyone here learns & shares! It's what makes this place the BEST Men's health forum on the I'net! Be a part of it, and pass on your wisdom to younger males who NEED older guy's knowledge in an open and non-judgemental format, to improve their confidence and skills while developing more fulfilling sexual practices and relationships that will improve their penis health for their lifetime!

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Welcome to the forum!

If I may ask- do you ejaculate outside of sexual activity? Masturbating with a tighter-than-needed grip is often the culprit for causing a lack of sensitivity in PIV sex.

[WonderMonkey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WonderMonkey]

Welcome WonderMonkey. Thanks for sharing and contributing already. This is a great place to start.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html

As it is the START HERE BUTTON. Give it a read, pick a routine and grow your sensitivity. (I love you, man). Enjoy.

That button is one I've been clicking on and reading. I do appreciate you making sure though, as I'm sure some have just thought that the things up there were advertisements or not relevant. Just so happens I paid attention to it.

[WonderMonkey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WonderMonkey]

Welcome WonderMonkey!

Start gently and work your way up and keep an eye on those PI's.

Happy tugging!

Thanks, will do!

[WonderMonkey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WonderMonkey]

WELCOME! Glad you joined us! READ ALL those threads in the START HERE tab, top left grey bar, to learn ALL about the Gym, posting rules, jargon commonly used here, routines for conditioning your penis to enhance growth potential, PLUS effective ways to PE SAFELY!

Your participation here is fully encouraged on ALL the forums, so join in! Everyone here learns & shares! It's what makes this place the BEST Men's health forum on the I'net! Be a part of it, and pass on your wisdom to younger males who NEED older guy's knowledge in an open and non-judgemental format, to improve their confidence and skills while developing more fulfilling sexual practices and relationships that will improve their penis health for their lifetime!

Thanks, and I appreciate the encouragement!

[WonderMonkey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WonderMonkey]

Welcome to the forum!

If I may ask- do you ejaculate outside of sexual activity? Masturbating with a tighter-than-needed grip is often the culprit for causing a lack of sensitivity in PIV sex.

I do ejaculate outside of sexual activity, but I keep that to a minimum to (hopefully) not have that be a contributing cause. I have actually gone quite a long time to see if masturbation is part of this and though I will say things did slightly improve, it wasn't enough of a deal to point to is as anything significant. As far as a tighter than needed grip, I don't THINK so, but I'll certainly pay attention to that!

Thanks for the reply, I'll take any information I can get!

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

I do ejaculate outside of sexual activity, but I keep that to a minimum to (hopefully) not have that be a contributing cause. I have actually gone quite a long time to see if masturbation is part of this and though I will say things did slightly improve, it wasn't enough of a deal to point to is as anything significant. As far as a tighter than needed grip, I don't THINK so, but I'll certainly pay attention to that!

Thanks for the reply, I'll take any information I can get!

Glad to help!

If you're sexually active for less than 60 minutes a week, then participating in edging-type activities (like the Stop and Starts) is the exception to the rule when it comes to ejaculation.