New, Need Help Please

[bballer3652 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bballer3652]

Hello everyone i am new here. I am 20 years old and have been in a relationship for a little over three years. To make a very long story short i was my girlfriends first sexual partner and i loved that fact it made me feel close to her, last year in September she went out with some friends after we got into an argument and she got very drunk (she had never been drunk before) and she got high off marijuana there was some guy at the party who was 22 and she ended up having sex with him and he left bruises on her and hickies and the next day when i picked her up she was very sore at her vagina. My heart was broken and it was the most painful thing i have ever been through i wanted to know all the details for some reason because i was hurt and i asked if he has a big dick and she told me that it was shorter than mine but alot thicker. This hurt me deeply. To get to the point i am now very insecure about this and think about it everyday and it hurts me alot it has me feeling so worthless and i used to be very confident and outgoing. I am pretty good looking from what i have been told and i workout religiously and take care of myself but nothing helps me feel better because of my penis size. I am about 6.5" length and 4.5" girth. Im happy with length but i want more girth bad. Please someone help direct me on what exercises or pumps i can use to help me. Thank you.

[bballer3652 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bballer3652]

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I need more girth. Please direct me on how to achieve this thank you so much.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

If you're new to PE, then it's best to condition yourself before moving to specific targeted and more advanced exercises, to avoid injury. JP90 will condition you for that, plus it is jelq intensive, so you're getting girth work as well as length with the stretches.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...r-routine.html

[INeedThis Member Find all posts View Profile Close INeedThis]

Ok ok ok. First off. Leave this girl. If her reaction to an argument is go off, get drunk/high, and cheat, then you are better off without her.

Second. You need to warm up into these exercises. A good one to start with is the JP90 routine. It's for beginners and slowly works your unit to become comfortable with the type of trauma your putting on it. After you complete the 90 days (which helps girth and length) then you can look through other forums for more specific exercises to meet your needs.

Third.
Be PATIENT!
I know you're wanting results to prove yourself to this female but that mentality will get you hurt. This is a lifestyle change not a quick fix. It takes time and dedication. Take this time to better yourself for your own sake, not to please this she-devil. (I know you probably love this girl, but love doesn't solve anger by hurting the other person.)

Fourth
READ/LEARN EVERYTHING YOU CAN

BEFORE STARTING!!!

It's better to take your time and prepare with knowledge than jump straight in and learn later because you hurt yourself and your searching through forums to fix what you did, when you could've just read first, did it correctly the first time, and been on your merry way.

Fifth
Enjoy

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Hey ballet!

Welcome to the Gym.

To get started on the road to a thicker dick, I recommend you read through this first: https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html,. Lots of good information on what the Gym is all about.

Many guys find that the JP90 routine helped with girth. IIn the meantime, read through the Pumping Forum under Devices. Thanks to pumping, I gained about one inch in girth. However, as mentioned above, patience and dedication is the only way to go.

[bballer3652 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bballer3652]

Thank you all so much for your help and advice i truly appreciate it!

[this-moment Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close this-moment]

Yo dude if i was you i would start looking for a replacement girl. If this is how she response after you guys get in a fight then thats horrible. I feel for you dude that shit sounds so painful. Shes trying to justify her actions by saying she was "drunk" but she still cheated on you and ripped your heart out. I definitely do recommend doing pe because its freakin awesome and it works but no matter how much you gain this isnt going to fix this. Id stay with this girl while your looking for a replacement girl so you can still get some ass

[drfrankencock Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close drfrankencock]

this-moment's advice: "Id stay with this girl while your looking for a replacement girl so you can still get some ass" is really fucked up, but we live in a really fucked up world, so I say +1.

Definitely start getting into a beginner routine like JP90. You'll get some great benefits out of it. But there's no chance it's going to help your girl trouble. If this is what happens the first time she gets drunk, you can expect it to happen repeatedly. Being drunk doesn't excuse this behavior.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Next time y'all have an argument you go out and get some ass, and make sure that ass scratches your back and leaves hickeys on your cawk.

[GettinBig1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GettinBig1]

As the other members said, if for some reason you are still dating her, please break up with her. Well, either that, or take thismoments advice! I wouldn't blame you for that. But nobody should treat their partner like she treated you. Anyway, but pe is a good time though. Like the others said, jp90 is a good place to start, so check that out.

[BelloMuakMuakMuak Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BelloMuakMuakMuak]

Not my place to chime in, especially with the lack of relationship experience, but looking for a replacement while your with her, knowing your going to leave her, is only going to hurt her, your 'replacement' and possibly even you. (though personally I wouldn't give a flying fuck about her feelings after that incident) but just leave and give her the cold shoulder and channel the hurt thru something else. Then continue on...looking for a replacement won't help either...3 years..take a rest, and PE!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Umm you went and picked her up after this?

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Welcome aboard!

A good place to start is to do some reading in the START HERE! link that can be found at the top of the page. The JP90 is a great routine to start off with for most beginners. Start off slow and gradually increase over time.

There is a lot to learn, so use your time during the JP90 to further educate yourself. There is a wealth of information here, do plenty of reading and don't hesitate to ask questions.

The key to being successful is to be dedicated, consistent and patient. PE does work, but it won't happen overnight. The rewards for putting in the time and effort are well worth it in the end.

Good luck and always PE safely.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

PE for yourself. If you choose to stay with her forgive and forget. We all fuck up some how some time. This can be a deal breaker for your relationship or it can be a learning experience. Either way it has nothing to do with your penis, which is wonderful. Nor should it have anything to do with your decision to do PE. Improve the health and size of your penis for yourself. Choose to stay, or go from this relationship for you also. Reciprocating with negative behavior will only lead to more negative behavior. An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind. Good luck with your choice. You are awesome.