Hello there!

[Destined48X6 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Destined48X6]

Hey everyone! I'm new to the forum. I've been browsing through many popular forums (PEGYM included) for many years. Motivated, I've decided to join today and share a bit of my story.

I would assume my story is very similar to most here(mine might be a bit darker than some). I was always insecure about my size since I was about 14. not only that due to my below average girth size (5.5-6X4.5-4.75 then) I had difficulty achieving any sensation during intercourse (my partners and I). Most common positions like missionary and girl on top did not provide any pleasure for myself and whoever I had(attempted) to have sex with. I've been made fun of by my ex, I've heard the infamous "is that it?" from one chick", Ive had one ask me "why is it so small?". I've been shot down by women because of my size (being overweight added fuel to the fire but thats a different story). That psychologically debilitated me to the point where I became terrified of approaching women as I've gotten older.
My friends always bragged about their size. Everywhere I went I've always heard women talk about "how lesser of a man you are". It has haunted me my whole life. I became more and more introverted and less social just to avoid interaction with women that would eventually lead to more rejection. In turn this fueled my addiction to porn.

I know on the flip side, some will say "its all in my head", "size doesn't matter", "every woman is different", "its how you use it", "there's guys in worst situations than me". Sometimes I feel dumb for letting this control my life but this is my life experience and my psychological warfare I've been dealing with for years.

Over the years I've bought $5k+ worth of gadgets but never had the privacy to commit to a routine. Now I'm 29 and have decided to gain control of my psyche and put in the effort consistent with a routine along with getting in shape.

[Aang Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Aang]

Hi and Welcome!

Thank you for joining us here, a good thing would be
to START HERE! you'll find a lot of helpful information there.

All the best on reaching your goal. Glad you joined us!

[lilbigman Senior Member Member of the Month June 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close lilbigman]

Idk why you have had such bad experiences with sex. Can't feel anything? C'mon man, no your not big, but you are not small either, you are perfectly normal. If you have a small dick and can't feel anything then so does more than half of the U.S. population. You are pretty much spot on average size. Nothing to be ashamed about and no reason why you and your partners can not have pleasurable sex. You said that you are overweight. Well that will definitely make it look a little smaller, but its still a good usable size. Your fat pad squishes and allows you to use the inch or whatever is hidden. Don't let what one cruel woman said stop you from loving yourself and enjoying your life. Repeat after me, "There is nothing wrong with my penis size". "I am perfectly normal". Great! Now that that is settled, forget all the devices you bought and click on the Start Here tab and start reading. Pick a beginner routine, (I liked the JP90) and start working on changing things. Remember to be patient and consistent and in time (a long time) you will have the size you want. Also work on shedding a little of that weight and that will reduce the size of your fat pad making your penis "look" bigger. Good luck buddy, and don't be afraid to ask for help if you don't understand something. That's what we are all here for.

[tomasssss Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tomasssss]

I don't know where are those women who say things like "how lesser of a man you are". Did a women actually say that to you? Anyway, the vast majority of women will never say something like that. And as said before, your penis is normal, perfectly on the average range.

Also, if you are still addicted to porn, you should definetly try to quit.

Good luck

[Straw Bat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Straw Bat]

Forget PE, if you're medically sound hit the gym and get muscular as heck. Believe me, becoming strong will change you much more than penis enhancement ever can.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Thoughtful Intro, I liked it ! Thanks for joining us, and

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Welcome aboard!

I'm sorry to hear about your bad experiences, but just remember that the majority of women out there would be very satisfied with your size. The good news is that if you are unhappy about your size you can change it, you have come to the right place.


A good place to start is to do some reading in the START HERE! link that can be found at the top of the page. If you haven't already start off with one of the beginner routines. The JP90 is a great routine to start off with for most beginners. Start off slow, focus on safety and gradually work your way up to the full routine.

Safety First!

Fast Penis Enlargement - There Isn't such A Thing


There is a lot to learn, so use your time during the JP90 to further educate yourself. There is a wealth of information here, do plenty of reading and don't hesitate to ask questions.


The key to being successful is to be dedicated, consistent and patient. PE does work, but it won't happen overnight. The rewards for putting in the time and effort are well worth it in the end.


Good luck and always PE safely.

[Destined48X6 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Destined48X6]

RE: Ang thank you

RE lilbigman: I know theres like 4 Billion women on this planet but maybe my string of luck was all my encounters were with women having larger vaginas lol.

RE tomassss: that particular statement was not addressed to me, but I've overheard conversations between women along those lines ie a man with a small penis is unattractive, etc. I've curbed my porn watching drastically. I'm at the point where I can go for weeks without watching.

RE Straw Bat: Being overweight was my first issue growing up before I hit puberty and discovered my second problem lol. I see both equally detrimental to my self perception. But you're right, I have to hit the gym!

RE Dangler: thanks!

RE Cavalier: Thanks. I've got a routine going on right now with my DP 4000 that I'll post in the progress section that has been giving me some insane results!

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Good luck with your routine man.

[Frog Senior Member Member of the Month March 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close Frog]

Welcome on board.

Just a thought and I could be way off base, but if you watch porn and masturbate with a death grip on your unit, that could be why you don't feel anything. I don't care how many exercises I do with my vagina, I will never match the death grip of a mans hand.

Just my two cents...

Good luck and stay positive!

[Destined48X6 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Destined48X6]

lol never heard that term "death grip" before but you maybe semi correct, now that I'm reevaluating myself based on your statement. I guess I have been DG'in all these years which could lend to the fact. I've always noticed that when I MB I usually make myself cum in 2 min but every time I (attempted) intercourse or received oral play, it would take me a while to ejaculate.
The only thing is I have had women tell me "I don't feel it". So its not just me. with the combination of my girth and a condom, all I've ever felt is fluid but no "grip" or "friction". Up until this point, I'd have to have sex without a condom to get something out of it.

[Sequoia Tree Senior Member Member of the Month July 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Sequoia Tree]

Forget PE, if you're medically sound hit the gym and get muscular as heck. Believe me, becoming strong will change you much more than penis enhancement ever can.

I agree and would like to add to that. Exercising your body consistently makes you feel good, and you (and others) will notice results, even with your pants on. As an added benefit, most women love a fit guy. Especially if you're visibly fit, but you don't dress with the intent to show off your muscles. They seem to drool over that. You don't have to look like the freakin' hulk either, in fact I think a lot of women are turned off by the whole huge steroidal bodybuilder look. A natural body is best. Plus I've heard that roids shrink your package. I'll stick with my lean physique and my not-so-lean wiener, thanks.

If you'd like, you could buy some light dumbbells and start working out at home. That way, you can get a feel for some of the exercises you'll be doing and not feel like an idiot at the gym. I do all my abdominal work in my bedroom, because there's plenty of floor space, and the carpet is nice and squishy so my back doesn't hurt.

The hardest part of working out is getting your butt from your home to the gym. If you're worried about being judged at the gym, I'd say that's a normal feeling. People say I look really buff, and I still don't like working out in public! Just keep in mind that most people don't care what you're doing in the gym as long as you aren't invading peoples' space. They aren't there to judge you. They're there to get their workouts done as quickly and effectively as possible and then get out of there and go about the rest of their day.

If you want to get really chiseled, you've got to do some cardio. *audible groans from the audience* I know, I know, but it's a damn good way to trim some fat. I started working consistently on my abs in middle school, got started with dumbbell exercises a little later, swam my first 3 years of high school, and did some heavy lifting during my sophomore year. But I didn't have a legitimate fully defined GQ cover six-pack, until the summer before my senior year, when I decided to go out for cross country running. The summer cardio did what the rest of my exercise couldn't, and carved off the little bit of fat that was hiding my abs. Also running supposedly slows down aging. Just some food for thought. I'm 24, but can pass for 18 in the appearance department. I look like freakin' Justin Bieber would if his balls produced 20x more testosterone, lol.

I hate treadmills. I don't understand how anyone couldn't. They're a waste. We might as well take all the treadmills on the planet, and reconstruct them into 2 nuclear bombs, then drop those bombs on Iran and North Korea, and then we can all hold hands and sing Kumbaya around a big-ass campfire.

Make running an adventure. Go outside and run to a destination. Well, actually start slow first if you aren't used to running. Stretch beforehand, it's really important. Start with brisk walking and then graduate to an easy paced 1-mile run, and gradually build up your distance to 3, and maybe even 5 miles. Running produces endorphins that make you feel good, also being out in the sun elevates your mood. Just make sure you wear sunscreen.

[Frog Senior Member Member of the Month March 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close Frog]

^ Don't hold back...say what you mean!

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

If we're dropping nuclear bombs on anyone, shouldn't it be Justin Beiber?

[Sequoia Tree Senior Member Member of the Month July 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Sequoia Tree]

If we're dropping nuclear bombs on anyone, shouldn't it be Justin Beiber?

Yes. We should send him to NK or Iran, and then drop the bomb over it.
And send Kanye West with him. Mr. "I am the greatest person that ever lived!"

^ Don't hold back...say what you mean!

Sometimes I'm not even sure what I mean anymore.