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Hello! I workout either 2 on 1 off during the weekdays, or mon-wed-fridays. "Easy routine", hoping that less is more. Basic stretches with kegels 30sek all sides, 100 wet jelqs and 50 v-jelqs, and finish off with 10min edging. Just qurious, when will be the best time to masturbate with orgasm and ejaculation? After the edging sessions or on the off-days? Or whenever i feel like it?
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Finish an edging session with orgasm each 3 or 5 days. Try to make this edging session long, like 20min or more.
It's not recommended that you ejaculate too often, but abstaining from it for too long can cause problems too. -
Never.You never slow down, you never grow old!Comment
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Only during a Blue MoonOriginally posted by Jay1983 View Post
Masturbating has but one purpose, to ejaculate. Edging on the other hand is stamina training with a purpose in mind. You reward your training when you feel you have earned it. Its a mindset.Comment
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ZZman, maybe you'll be able clear this up for me, although I should already know? lmao
What exactly classifies stamina?You never slow down, you never grow old!Comment
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Stamina training is to prolong your involvement during sexual relations. In other words - last longer.Originally posted by Jay1983 View Post
stam·i·na
ˈstamənə/
noun
noun: stamina
the ability to sustain prolonged physical or mental effort.
"their secret is stamina rather than speed"
synonyms: endurance, staying power, tirelessness, fortitude, strength, energy, toughness, determination, tenacity, perseverance, grit "I felt my stamina weakening"
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Is there something wrong with me? I really don't like to masturbate. I used when I was a kid, but Ive outgrown it. Only do it when desperate (i.e. no release in 10 days or more). I need a partner to enjoy cumming and I guess this pushes me to get out and be more social. (I have 4 or 5 casual/occasional sex partners, and usually can find new ones fairly easily.) I'm 54, athletic, in good health, and think my libido is fairly high. Would appreciate any thoughts.
(btw, when I do masturbate ---- very rarely --- I use a fleshlight. Dont like the feel of my own hand very much, maybe it's too rough.)Comment
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You seems to be from a generation that couldn't couldn't count with porn as much as the 20s and teens today.Originally posted by NYCgymguy View Post
I'd say that there's something wrong with today's guys, not you. My sexual life would be much better now if I didn't met porn in my early teenage years and got addicted to it.Comment
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So based upon the above mentioned, if one does not suffer from premature ejaculation, then one should not practice edging, because if one practices edging for anything other, it will be counterproductive.Originally posted by TheZZMan View PostYou never slow down, you never grow old!Comment
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huh, my dick just frowned?? i don't suffer from pre e, but i practice edging to hopefully someday be just like you in bed. well, almost. but so i can get full control. that tantric experience. i've never been able to last as long as i wanted. i want to experience that.Originally posted by Jay1983 View Post
if i cut out edging i would get lonely, those "accidental shootings" are something to look forward to. practice, practice, practicegoal--Contentment
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No, there is conditioning training that benefits you as well. For those who can't last a minute the purpose is stamina and a learning process to get past the PONR and control it. I have no problems with stamina yet edge on a regular basis. Keeping your unit engorged with blood is positive. Kind of like "clamping light" if you ask me. I do very little actual PE exercising but am still gaining girth. I contribute that to edging, riding that edge and maintaining a 10 EQ as long as possible.Originally posted by Jay1983 View PostComment
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You don't suffer from pre-e, but you can't last as long as you want? Explain bro..Originally posted by proactive View PostYou never slow down, you never grow old!Comment
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hmm interesting theory. I like porn OK, but am not at all addicted to it. It often looks a little lame to me. But I do like reading some good erotica now and then. The mind IS the main sex organ after all.Originally posted by iceclimber View Post
Anyway, yeah for sure I came of age before the internet was omnipresent. And I'm pretty glad I did. I like people so much more than pixels.Comment
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I disagree. I edge frequently but save my ejaculations for sex. Edging allows me to "ride the plane of orgasm" without ejaculating, maximizing my glans & penis expansion without losing control. That increased blood-flow sustained in my penis for long periods encourages growth, increases libido, and keeps my Dong (& my partnerOriginally posted by Jay1983 View Post
) healthier & HAPPY!
With the correct mindset, edging is also VERY satisfying without ejaculation, for non-Pre-E guys, IMO.
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maybe i don't have a complete understanding of what pre e is. but to me pre e is just not being able to handle a short amount of sex. ie: 30 seconds, 5 minutes. after that you seem to hit the normal sex range 15-20 minutes. then there is the long sex 30+ miutes. i've experienced most of these times. never the 30 seconds. but a quickie at times was pretty fast. i just didn't have a stopwatch.Originally posted by Jay1983 View Postgoal--Contentment
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