Thickness

[Plats86 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Plats86]

Hi guys. I stared PE a couple of months ago, with lots of pressure at work and a holiday just gone I've let it slip a bit. I was definitely seeing results in EQ and I think in length and thickness although that might have been through EQ. I've also been using a stretchy rubber cock ring during masturbation and sex and my partner loves it, she said it's rock hard (obviously) but with it all combined it's been good progress and we both love it. I'm getting to my point now, don't worry ....

We have a fantasy of MMF threesome so we bought a dildo, one larger than me for obviously reasons. Although I'm not small. I'm 6.5" long and 5.5" girth. The thing is, when I got the dildo out the packaging it's very thick and obviously longer than me, it's 8.5" long and 6.5" girth. Except the width of this dildo is the same width as my cock!!! So basically I'm as wide but not as girthy.... I'm an inch worse off yet the same width, which means I'm not as thick from top to underside. Is that normal? To have a reasonably wide cock but not as thick one way as the other?? Is ther anyway to specifically target growth in that area? Length would be nice but I'd much rather be thick.

Thanks in advance.

[rbi99 Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close rbi99]

If you look at a lot of posted pictures here on this site, even of guys who have good girth, you will often see that their CS is not well developed. I have a lot of girth, but I am not exceptionally wide. What put my girth over the edge has been the development of my CS. First off a lot of guys don't have a very well defined one, second off most guys CS is rather soft even when erect. My CS jumps out of my shaft and is almost as hard when I am erect as my CCs are. Width + Depth = girth!!! See my signature below for a link to my UJ exercise. This exercise is the sole reason my CS is what it is.

[Plats86 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Plats86]

Wow, thank you very much!! I'll definitely check it out. I'm unsure of what a CS is though to be honest. Hopefully you're link will give me details on it. I'd love to be the full 6.5" girth that I probably could be if it was thicker all the way around. Brilliant!!

[getinbig Senior Member Member of the Month March 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close getinbig]

If you look at a lot of posted pictures here on this site, even of guys who have good girth, you will often see that their CS is not well developed. I have a lot of girth, but I am not exceptionally wide. What put my girth over the edge has been the development of my CS. First off a lot of guys don't have a very well defined one, second off most guys CS is rather soft even when erect. My CS jumps out of my shaft and is almost as hard when I am erect as my CCs are. Width + Depth = girth!!! See my signature below for a link to my UJ exercise. This exercise is the sole reason my CS is what it is.

I switched from regular jelqs to UJs (ultimate jelqs) when I read rbi99’s Post years ago. He’s spot on regarding what they can do.
I’m still in pursuit of 6 inch shaft girth, about 5.8 MSEG now, but my CS really pops out. Thanks rbi99 and your UJs!

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

If you look at a lot of posted pictures here on this site, even of guys who have good girth, you will often see that their CS is not well developed. I have a lot of girth, but I am not exceptionally wide. What put my girth over the edge has been the development of my CS. First off a lot of guys don't have a very well defined one, second off most guys CS is rather soft even when erect. My CS jumps out of my shaft and is almost as hard when I am erect as my CCs are. Width + Depth = girth!!! See my signature below for a link to my UJ exercise. This exercise is the sole reason my CS is what it is.

^^^ABSOLUTELY CORRECT, rbi! There are 3 physical attributes of an erect penis that make one male superior to another, IMO:

1) EQ, yielding a 10/10 erection! Your partner will FEEL the difference, believe me! Edging, rbi's UJ exercises, and towel raises are keys to a bigger rock-solid erection, and stamina, too!

2) A FIRM WELL DEFINED CS that bulges from your base to your frenulum when erect, gives a penis "depth", while expanded CC's give a penis "width". BOTH SUPERIOR L+W= GIRTH that will stretch your partner's facial skin as she goes down on you during a BJ!

3) A LARGE head with a super-flared coronal ridge. Your partner will DEFINITELY FEEL the stretch to accommodate your penis on nerve endings at the labia & vulva, as you penetrate her, causing her to gasp & moan when you're fully erect! As that flared corona expands & rakes her vaginal canal during thrusting, her arousal will skyrocket! She will likely begin to have spasms quickly & in a rolling fashion, leading to orgasm. <THIS is a function of ALL 3 attributes; 10/10 EQ, a bulging CS & fully engorged CC's + a large head with a flared coronal ridge = ORGASM!!!

[LeafyGreens Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close LeafyGreens]

I understand how to chase #1 and #2, but what about #3?

This is important to me, because my wife loves the coronal ridge on her dildo. And i really want that.... i'm tired of hearing about it

[Plats86 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Plats86]

Thanks guys. Looks like I need a bit of 1 and 2. I think my head is well defined. Just need that EQ to be the best it can be, nothing is perfect so strive to be better. The CS is clearly where I'm lacking and I didn't even think about it before. I'll have to try the UJ from now on along with my bathmate. I've added a couple of pictures to my profile so you can see the width, so hopefully that will continue to improve too. Not sure how to add the link to my pictures but hopefully you can see it. I always thought I was quite "thick" as it was wide, but didn't notice the underside thickness! Determined to add this girth now!!

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I understand how to chase #1 and #2, but what about #3?

This is important to me, because my wife loves the coronal ridge on her dildo. And i really want that.... i'm tired of hearing about it

I've always had a well-defined coronal ridge (I'm circumcised, so cut guys naturally have a more defined ridge); however, I recently discovered that using my Stealth Innerwear sleeves then adding a horseshoe style head ring over top of the Innerwear just behind the silicone ring that's built into it, causes my head to engorge with blood even more, expanding my glans & flaring my coronal ridge even more than the Innerwear alone.

The horseshoe head ring I have is cheap (bought mine on ebay for $2 a couple of years ago), and can easily be expanded as your girth cements, making it perfect for wearing over the Innerwear sleeves. My flared corona & larger glans / head is evident when I'm flaccid now (something I didn't really expect), and even more-so when I'm erect! Proof that my glans ring experiment is working to enhance both my head & coronal ridge!

..."Time under tension" fellas; it's the "Mantra" of PE & cementing those gains!

[everydaynormalguy Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close everydaynormalguy]

Cocks are not cylindrical shape like dildos most of the times.Your cock is perfectly normal

[theGOAT Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close theGOAT]

If you look at a lot of posted pictures here on this site, even of guys who have good girth, you will often see that their CS is not well developed. I have a lot of girth, but I am not exceptionally wide. What put my girth over the edge has been the development of my CS. First off a lot of guys don't have a very well defined one, second off most guys CS is rather soft even when erect. My CS jumps out of my shaft and is almost as hard when I am erect as my CCs are. Width + Depth = girth!!! See my signature below for a link to my UJ exercise. This exercise is the sole reason my CS is what it is.

As soon as I read about him not having depth, I thought about you and your UJ and BAM, your next post was yours Although you dont post often these days it seems you are still viewing the forum, which is very good, because we need a great inventor of exercises like you

[Girthworm Jim Member Find all posts View Profile Close Girthworm Jim]

Jock, it sounds like the horseshoe head ring is working well for you. Have you tried the standard ring or enclosed ball styles?

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Jock, it sounds like the horseshoe head ring is working well for you. Have you tried the standard ring or enclosed ball styles?

No, but I'm familiar with the style you're taking about, Jim. I used a horseshoe style head ring because I needed to separate and expand the ring in order to make it wider to fit over the Stealth Innerwear & the silicone ring. I'm pretty "girthy" already, and with my coronal flare and some blood kegeled into my glans I needed it quite a bit larger.

[Portcitynt Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Portcitynt]

^^^ABSOLUTELY CORRECT, rbi! There are 3 physical attributes of an erect penis that make one male superior to another, IMO:

1) EQ, yielding a 10/10 erection! Your partner will FEEL the difference, believe me! Edging, rbi's UJ exercises, and towel raises are keys to a bigger rock-solid erection, and stamina, too!

2) A FIRM WELL DEFINED CS that bulges from your base to your frenulum when erect, gives a penis "depth", while expanded CC's give a penis "width". BOTH SUPERIOR L+W= GIRTH that will stretch your partner's facial skin as she goes down on you during a BJ!

3) A LARGE head with a super-flared coronal ridge. Your partner will DEFINITELY FEEL the stretch to accommodate your penis on nerve endings at the labia & vulva, as you penetrate her, causing her to gasp & moan when you're fully erect! As that flared corona expands & rakes her vaginal canal during thrusting, her arousal will skyrocket! She will likely begin to have spasms quickly & in a rolling fashion, leading to orgasm. <THIS is a function of ALL 3 attributes; 10/10 EQ, a bulging CS & fully engorged CC's + a large head with a flared coronal ridge = ORGASM!!!

How did you describe my dick? You've never seen me naked! Lol.
All three of my chambers are very close to the same size, with a large firm head and ridge.