Wife says no more

[Sdbilli68 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sdbilli68]

Not much on posting and been a member here for a little while and can't info I need.
I have been doing pe for several years and hanging for a year with almost all gains coming in the last 9 months and the wife has been supportive until this morning. After sex we were drinking coffee and she tells me the penis workouts need to stop as I am now close to unbearable pain. We had an agreement when I started that when she said enough I should quit and I have zero problem with stopping. I would like to keep gains I have worked hard for and I'm asking for the best way to cement gains.

Current 7 1/4 inch and 6 1/4

Starting 10/2015 at 5 1/2 and 5

[Nightforce Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nightforce]

... me the penis workouts need to stop as I am now close to unbearable pain. We had an agreement when I started that when she said enough I should quit and I have zero problem with stopping. I would like to keep gains I have worked hard for and I'm asking for the best way to cement gains.

Current 7 1/4 inch and 6 1/4

Starting 10/2015 at 5 1/2 and 5

Sounds to me a little shrinkage is in order if you're close to "unbearable pain" for her.

Congrats on the gains though, I'd probably stop PE and see if you start to shrink and fall back to a maintenance routine vs. a gains routine. I'm a total newb so some of the more experienced members here will undoubtedly chime in with much better advice.

-Nightforce

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

You have a nice sized cock, but it's NOT HUGE, and most women when properly aroused, can handle guys your size with no pain. PROPER AROUSAL and TTENTING her vagina by performing extended foreplay before penetration might be all she needs! Is your wife VERY petite? If anything, it's probably more your girth than length that's causing her pain, IMO.

You could try dropping ALL girth related PE, then concentrate your efforts on length only (stretches). That would also tend to stretch & lengthen your penis, perhaps causing a slight reduction in your girth, too.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Your kidding, right Jock? She said stop so 68, stop.

This is all brought a question to my mind. How many women have cheated on a guy with to big a cock? Hum?

[Stealthpeman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Stealthpeman]

Your kidding, right Jock? She said stop so 68, stop.

This is all brought a question to my mind. How many women have cheated on a guy with to big a cock? Hum?

Such a loaded question, she would have to be shallow to do that. Regardless of your penis size you should still be making an effort to do what you can to please her in bed.

Sdbill, do you feel like you are hitting her cervix a lot? Do you feel like you bottom out in her?

Just so manual work and no hanging to cement. A cockring as well should do wonders.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

LOL. Just googled my thought about a woman complaining about to big a cock. Never mind.

[Sdbilli68 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sdbilli68]

Wife is petite. 5 ft. 120 and I don't have a problem with quitting. Just would like to keep what I gained as I have read some people lose.

[Sdbilli68 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sdbilli68]

Yes Stealthpeman. I do feel like I'm hitting her cervix lately. She said she likes the girth, just no more length. We have a great sex life and foreplay is not an issue. Thanks for the replies and I'll try manual work for a few weeks and report back any losses.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Yes I had this issue when i hit 8.25 by 6.25". It seems the length was fine because i know how to use it but there was no way around the girth issue .
Interestingly the girth they said whoa at was the same .
Issues consistently come up when guys girth exceeds 6".

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Yes Stealthpeman. I do feel like I'm hitting her cervix lately. She said she likes the girth, just no more length. We have a great sex life and foreplay is not an issue. Thanks for the replies and I'll try manual work for a few weeks and report back any losses.

Issues with length can usually be got around by skill specifically angles .

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Issues with length can usually be got around by skill specifically angles .

True, but for my own pleasure, it’s nice not to worry about it. Hers too btw. I can go balls deep , stroke her cervix, she loves it. OMG.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

True, but for my own pleasure, it’s nice not to worry about it. Hers too btw. I can go balls deep , stroke her cervix, she loves it. OMG.

Some women like their cervix hit many do not .
The op's does not . This can be avoided by skill.

[Injoker Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Injoker]

How many women have cheated on a guy with to big a cock? Hum?

I'm sure it's happened. Most likely because of being emotionally isolated more than physically.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

Not much on posting and been a member here for a little while and can't info I need.
I have been doing pe for several years and hanging for a year with almost all gains coming in the last 9 months and the wife has been supportive until this morning. After sex we were drinking coffee and she tells me the penis workouts need to stop as I am now close to unbearable pain. We had an agreement when I started that when she said enough I should quit and I have zero problem with stopping. I would like to keep gains I have worked hard for and I'm asking for the best way to cement gains.

Current 7 1/4 inch and 6 1/4

Starting 10/2015 at 5 1/2 and 5

In terms of stopping, there is some details provided here on the 'gym:
If you click the PEGym logo at the top left you will get to the main site. On the right is a search function.
You can type in "cementing" and search.
The first article will be about the importance of cementing:
https://www.pegym.com/articles/impor...ementing-gains

It explains...
"Perform penis exercises for a long enough period of time, and your body will consider that new, improved size as its “natural” state."

and

"Don’t stop your current penis exercise routine completely. Instead, slowly reduce it, until you’ve back down to a very light maintenance routine a couple of times per week. Keep an eye out on your numbers though. If you see you’re losing any of the length or girth you’ve gained, bump up your routine again."

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Personally, if I were you I'd try to find out why it is "too much" or why "it hurts". Could be length or girth related, meaning maybe you could still gain in one dimension if you wanted. 7.25" long isn't super long, but 6.25" girth is pretty huge.

EDIT: Just saw your clarification above. Surprised it's the length she has issues with, but in your case maybe keep up with the girl and just cut back on anything length-related.