4.5 inch girth? Should I forget about women?

[hopeoneday Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopeoneday]

I am 21 year old virgin guy who has 6.5 inches bone pressed which to my understanding is average. but I have 4.5 inches girth. I feel doomed and destoryed.


I did the newbie excercise for 3 months. I felt great and had amazing erections but I can’t do them constantly because I have tight schedule. I gained probably 0.1 inch length but nothing in girth


Looks like that at the moment I have to just accept that I ll have 4.5 girth penis. Again my question.. Does anyone on earth have a similar girth and was able to please women or should I forget about women at the moment? please if anyone has or ever had similar girth can you tell me what was your experience?

[Jeffxx Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jeffxx]

Overthinking it. You'll be able to get the job done but need to come to terms that you won't be viewed as "HUGE". Jump on a Girth specific routine and apply consistent work. You shouldn't feel doomed man. There's a dude out there right now with a 5x4inch plowing girls.

[TooMuchTime Member Find all posts View Profile Close TooMuchTime]

I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that your massive insecurity is bleeding into all your interactions with women, and this has INFINITELY MORE to do with your lack of sex than does the size of your penis. Hit the gym, take martial arts (preferably MMA), or join the military. OK, not really on the military thing, but those are the 3 most common behaviors I find amongst the most confident individuals i know. Do something to super charge your confidence and you'll never find yourself asking questions like this again.

[hopeoneday Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopeoneday]

I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that your massive insecurity is bleeding into all your interactions with women, and this has INFINITELY MORE to do with your lack of sex than does the size of your penis. Hit the gym, take martial arts (preferably MMA), or join the military. OK, not really on the military thing, but those are the 3 most common behaviors I find amongst the most confident individuals i know. Do something to super charge your confidence and you'll never find yourself asking questions like this again.

thanks for the advice
I mean supposedly I am secure about it .. can it physically satisfy women?

[hopeoneday Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hopeoneday]

Overthinking it. You'll be able to get the job done but need to come to terms that you won't be viewed as "HUGE". Jump on a Girth specific routine and apply consistent work. You shouldn't feel doomed man. There's a dude out there right now with a 5x4inch plowing girls.

I know I won't be huge. All I want is to be called satisfactory. thanks for the advice

[C0NFID3N714L Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close C0NFID3N714L]

i had the same thoughts as you bro, until recently i stopped giving a shit and went & got some pussy.. turns out even thou i wasnt her biggest she claims im one of her best, she finishes all the time (squirts too) & shes had a couple partners so she would know what small looks like, im 6x4 btw. so my advice would be to learn how to use it & youll be fine. combine that with some godly head and she wont ever want to leave you lol.

[tank0909 Senior Member Member of the Month Jan. 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close tank0909]

I was basically the same size as above and had quite a few partners. When my wife asked how many women I've slept with, her response was "Eew". The point of this post is to show you there are more people than you think who do just fine with that size. Fix the head upstairs and they'll enjoy the one downstairs.

[freshMAKER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close freshMAKER]

I know I won't be huge. All I want is to be called satisfactory. thanks for the advice

Man if you want to get thicker , you could go run with BM . you could gain 1 inch in 12 months if you are newbie to PE and commited . ADD some jelqing and gains can come a lot quicker . Its like you are hitting the gym but dont eat properly . IF you combine these two you can get pretty solid results , but you have to be consistent . Its a marathon not a sprint . Whats your lenght NBP?

[Nightforce Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nightforce]

I did the newbie excercise for 3 months. I felt great and had amazing erections but I can’t do them constantly because I have tight schedule. I gained probably 0.1 inch length but nothing in girth

If it's one thing I've learned doing PE, it's not fast, it's not even moderate, it's a SLOW process for most people. Sure there are the lucky ones that gain quickly, but most are slow and steady....before you know it, you're seeing gains and you're hooked.

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Your girth is statistically within the average range even if at the lower end of that. Your length above average.
Watch female amateur(!) masturbation videos. 90% use small sized dildos or even toothbrushes. They get off easily cause they know their pussy's and which spots to hit. Learn that and there is no reason to not satisfy a woman. How? Learning by doing :P
Even today after gaining a lot I mostly go the pussy licking and fingering route with a woman first with a lot of times orgasms.

If you want to gain girth you'll have to invest a lot of time and consistency. Pumps can give some temporary girth.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

I kept my wife perfectly satisfied for over 40 years with a 5.5 X 4.4”erection. Concern over My size kept me a virgin until I was 26. Boy was that a waste of a perfectly good dick. Thanks to several years of pumping she now experiencing a 5.5” girth, but has yet to mention the change in size.

[freshMAKER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close freshMAKER]

why did it take you so long to only gain 0.9 inch in that period of time ?

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

1 inch is a lot. Most never get there.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

It was actually 1.1”. The first 1/2 inch took about 18 months. The second 1/2 inch took longer.

[BBC Action Senior Member Member of the Month August 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close BBC Action]

I am 21 year old virgin guy who has 6.5 inches bone pressed which to my understanding is average. but I have 4.5 inches girth. I feel doomed and destoryed.


I did the newbie excercise for 3 months. I felt great and had amazing erections but I can’t do them constantly because I have tight schedule. I gained probably 0.1 inch length but nothing in girth


Looks like that at the moment I have to just accept that I ll have 4.5 girth penis. Again my question.. Does anyone on earth have a similar girth and was able to please women or should I forget about women at the moment? please if anyone has or ever had similar girth can you tell me what was your experience?

You feel hopeless because of your girth, but make the topic on a penis enlargement site. Whether or not you are trying to get people to feel guilty and tell you everything is alright, if you aren't happy with your size you can always do exercises to get it larger. This is a penis enlargement site, if I didn't mention that already. There are ways to grow, you just have to find what works for you. If you don't do penis enlargement exercises, you will still be at the same size and you will eventually have sex anyways. If you do the exercises, you could potentially be larger, and you will eventually have sex anyways. Your penis shouldn't stop you from living your life.