Do hot chicks think average is small?

[tinywhenflaccid Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tinywhenflaccid]

I thought she meant it wasn't tiny, but still small. Maybe you're right.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Its funny because women often comment about how guys are obsessed with size, yet they are the likely cause in most cases...I think for the most part they don't know there head from there a**...I mean its doubtful that they have ever actually measured any guys they were with...they eyeball it and decide its big or not but the big test is when you stick it in them...

If a guy was say 7 inches ans told the chick he was 8.5 would they know the difference? no...they would run and tell there friends that they just road a 8.5 inch c*ck...I think the real problem is hypergamy...Women are designed to look for the most high value men they can have.. This generation is far more permiscuos than earlier generations...with them riding the c*ck carousel the way they are, they are bound to see some large ones...I think once they do everything becomes a comparison at that point....Statistically speaking, the OP size is actually above average...by a decent bit too...this just speaks to women never being satisfied...Some of the posters here have it pegged...If you let it impact you then your beat from jump street...If you give her toe curling orgasms she ain't to concerned about your size...I just think the bigger guys really develop alpha confidence when they have these women worshipping their junk...When you know your big, nothing is a better confidence booster...If your girl did lets say 25 guys, some would be small...most would be in the middle threshold and some would be large...they just remember the big guy because he alpha widowed her...If you carry yourself like your big she will likely not be concerned about your junk...If you let it bother you she will no doubt off you in time...I think they know they can throw their weight around with this subject so unless your really big they can get away with this..

Leaving aside the alpha /pua bunk I think there is a case for men making women pay a price for this behaviour.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Op if ths has only happened a couple of times and some may be poorly worded compliments then you are left with 1 or 2 haters . Haters got to hate .

[tinywhenflaccid Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tinywhenflaccid]

I have only been with 10 women in my life. Was on a roll in the very beginning, then got into an LTR, which I am still in. 30% of the women I have been with have said I was small. I was always kind of confused by it myself. Like, why not just say nothing? Women can be cruel. Cruel I say. I personally would never say anything as hurtful to a woman I was with. Just thought that maybe I should try to make some gains and see if I can get a better reaction from the gf, or, if we break up, another woman.

[Alwaysbbetter Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Alwaysbbetter]

Get the gains for yourself, not for someone else...Im thinking there is some type of impression or vibe your giving off for so many girls to feel the need to comment...Did you ever ask any of them or did they all jusr volunteer the comments? I find that weird because most women I've been with have said nothing or been very vague...

I can tell you one thing...Your going to need to get out of your own head...if you devalue yourself it will doom relationships and impact the bedroom...Focus on the quality you put out there...even small guys can make a female cum if they know what they are doing...I remember reading study that had women pick molds of their ideal size...I believe the most common choice was 6.4 inches long with 4.8 girth...Im pretty sure those were the exact measurements...So basically, you are within the range, although your giving a bone pressed length...Your probably right around these numbers in any case...If one of these females is making you insecure or making petty comments you shouldn't put up with it...In my opinion, it shows something about them that isn't desirable..This is something highly permiscuos women say..the type of women whose only value is there sexuality...Bottomline, these type of women will likely cheat on you as if they fully respected you they wouldn't be clowning your manhood...especially since your not small by most standards..

[tinywhenflaccid Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tinywhenflaccid]

I wish I posted here years ago. I've never addressed these issues before. Never talked to anyone about them.

Regarding the way women reacted to me, I think maybe it's because I can be pretty arrogant, or, I was when I was younger. Maybe you're right and they were trying to insult me or something. I just took the comments at face value, and never questioned the motivations behind them.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I have only been with 10 women in my life. Was on a roll in the very beginning, then got into an LTR, which I am still in. 30% of the women I have been with have said I was small. I was always kind of confused by it myself. Like, why not just say nothing? Women can be cruel. Cruel I say. I personally would never say anything as hurtful to a woman I was with. Just thought that maybe I should try to make some gains and see if I can get a better reaction from the gf, or, if we break up, another woman.

So 3 of which at least 1was a badly worded compliment. Ok re the gf if she definite said something hurtful along this line it is to lower your confidence and a control attempt . It a big flaming red flag .

[VIIby5 Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIIby5]

Do you think that hot chicks think that an average size is small? I wonder if the guys that pursue hot chicks tend to have larger dicks, and it results in hot chicks seeing much larger sizes as being average and the real average as being small. I am 6.75 bpel and 5 inches mseg and I've been called small by several good looking women. They were not jilted exes or anything either. I get the impression that average size to a hot chick is probably more like 7 inches npel and 5.5 inches mseg. Hopefully I'm wrong.

What do you guys think? Does this seem reflective of reality, or not?

I know how you feel.

I used to be the exact same size and im only marginally bigger now. I never have got the feeling I was anything other than average at best and unfortunately some women think average or even bigger is small. My sexual history is less than half as extensive as yours but have still taken at least two verbal shots at my size (no breakup or fight type thing) and one who coincidentally changed her mind about sex after seeing it. Another went for my friend after seeing and handling both of us. She said he had the bigger unit and went off with him. It was like I wasn't even there after that. Made me feel like i was two inches long.

[jamoke125 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jamoke125]

I know how you feel.

I used to be the exact same size and I'm only marginally bigger now. I never have got the feeling I was anything other than average at best and unfortunately some women think average or even bigger is small. My sexual history is less than half as extensive as yours but have still taken at least two verbal shots at my size (no breakup or fight type thing) and one who coincidentally changed her mind about sex after seeing it. Another went for my friend after seeing and handling both of us. She said he had the bigger unit and went off with him. It was like I wasn't even there after that. Made me feel like i was two inches long.

Dude are you being forreal? I hope you are not like role playing or something because that is a terrible situation.

As for the original thread topic, when I used to have sex many years ago I was 6 bpel and 5.25 mseg dating this girl that told all my friends I was small. She was like 7 or 8 out of 10 hot. I was not a cocky or arrogant guy either. Extremely nice and respectful. She hit me up years later trying to talk but I had ED of which I am still struggling with. I don't think I would have slept with that bitch anyway though. Or if I would have I would have just hit it and quit it. Low trash woman.

I hooked up with several other attractive woman after that and I could feel they were kind of disappointed after dropping trou. However, the less good looking ones I have been with did not care at all and were enthusiastic. Even some on the bigger side were consistently happy to be there. Really cool girls.

So yeah I definitely agree with the thread.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Women use this as a power play it does not have any basis in reality . It works really well so bitchy women are into it .

We get it regularly onsite some of the maths is downright amusing .

[CLOSEDNymphGamerAddict Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDNymphGamerAddict]

This is a depressing thread.

I think porn is to blame as for most girls, including myself, the first penis we see is in porn. (For me it was a pornstar called Manuel Ferrara). And this sets the bar as to what is considered 'normal'.

The first one I saw in real life appeared really small to me, and I thought it was just because we were teens. But as I saw more I realized that pornstars are quite a bit bigger than average.

The other thing porn does is subconsciously embeds the concept of 'bigger being better'. In most porn scenes the girl looks shocked at how big a guy is and makes it look like it feels amazing.

I believe that's actually what creates 'Size Queens' and the like, as porn and pop culture definitely makes the hung men more desirable. Till this day when watching porn a really large one really arouses me, whereas I know in real life it will be painful.

But the exact same thing happens to woman surrounding to breast size and looks. Being closer to flat chested than your average girl, guys always make remarks sometimes in a loving way like "I love your cute little tits" or in a plain way like "Wow your tits are so small!", and I still feel it, because I know he probably likes busty woman, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Also guys rate girls and call them 8, or 9 or 6. Its the same concept, as woman in movies have model good looks and some are quite busty.

[VIIby5 Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIIby5]

This is a depressing thread.

I think porn is to blame as for most girls, including myself, the first penis we see is in porn. (For me it was a pornstar called Manuel Ferrara). And this sets the bar as to what is considered 'normal'.

The first one I saw in real life appeared really small to me, and I thought it was just because we were teens. But as I saw more I realized that pornstars are quite a bit bigger than average.

The other thing porn does is subconsciously embeds the concept of 'bigger being better'. In most porn scenes the girl looks shocked at how big a guy is and makes it look like it feels amazing.

I believe that's actually what creates 'Size Queens' and the like, as porn and pop culture definitely makes the hung men more desirable. Till this day when watching porn a really large one really arouses me, whereas I know in real life it will be painful.

But the exact same thing happens to woman surrounding to breast size and looks. Being closer to flat chested than your average girl, guys always make remarks sometimes in a loving way like "I love your cute little tits" or in a plain way like "Wow your tits are so small!", and I still feel it, because I know he probably likes busty woman, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Also guys rate girls and call them 8, or 9 or 6. Its the same concept, as woman in movies have model good looks and some are quite busty.

Reference bolded. Not just porn. I used to know a girl who told me her first was really big and she just assumed that was what the typical penis was supposed to look like. For a while that was her expectation, so for a while she thought most every guy after that was small.

Have your experiences correlated with what the size studies consider average (basically a 5" or so visible penis with 4.7 girth) or are the sizes you have experienced all over the map of within a certain range?

We all know what average is supposed to be according to the studies. But really, how often do women encounter that size. I don't really care what the studies say if the typical woman's expectations of normal far exceeds that.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

This is a depressing thread.

I think porn is to blame as for most girls, including myself, the first penis we see is in porn. (For me it was a pornstar called Manuel Ferrara). And this sets the bar as to what is considered 'normal'.

The first one I saw in real life appeared really small to me, and I thought it was just because we were teens. But as I saw more I realized that pornstars are quite a bit bigger than average.

The other thing porn does is subconsciously embeds the concept of 'bigger being better'. In most porn scenes the girl looks shocked at how big a guy is and makes it look like it feels amazing.

I believe that's actually what creates 'Size Queens' and the like, as porn and pop culture definitely makes the hung men more desirable. Till this day when watching porn a really large one really arouses me, whereas I know in real life it will be painful.

But the exact same thing happens to woman surrounding to breast size and looks. Being closer to flat chested than your average girl, guys always make remarks sometimes in a loving way like "I love your cute little tits" or in a plain way like "Wow your tits are so small!", and I still feel it, because I know he probably likes busty woman, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Also guys rate girls and call them 8, or 9 or 6. Its the same concept, as woman in movies have model good looks and some are quite busty.

Awesome post but no, comments a woman say about a man’s manhood and what a guy says about a woman;s breast are totally different.
A guys self esteem is born out of what he, rightly or wrongly think of his size. For a woman to confirm his fears of being small with an unintentional comment kills him. For me, I, for one prefera smaller set of breasts, B cup, it’s all about the perky small nipples for me. My wife’s are perfect. I love to suck and rub them, she’s actually had breast orgasms. Really cool.

[Alwaysbbetter Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Alwaysbbetter]

I think what Pegasus said is correct...Women know these comments impact you...Women search to control situations...Damaging your ego helps her gain control...On one hand, you need to be above these types of cheap shots...On the other hand, if a female is taking these types of jabs at you just ghost them period....No need to be with someone that doesn't view you as a high value man...

Out society is size obsessed...You see it all throughout porn and popular culture...Women have very unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating in general...let alone penis size...Ever here them saying they are looking 6 6 6? I believe its 6 ft tall, makes 6 figures and can't remember the final six...maybe 6 inches long...based on this thread that can't be right though...

[VIIby5 Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIIby5]

Dude are you being forreal? I hope you are not like role playing or something because that is a terrible situation.

As for the original thread topic, when I used to have sex many years ago I was 6 bpel and 5.25 mseg dating this girl that told all my friends I was small. She was like 7 or 8 out of 10 hot. I was not a cocky or arrogant guy either. Extremely nice and respectful. She hit me up years later trying to talk but I had ED of which I am still struggling with. I don't think I would have slept with that bitch anyway though. Or if I would have I would have just hit it and quit it. Low trash woman.

I hooked up with several other attractive woman after that and I could feel they were kind of disappointed after dropping trou. However, the less good looking ones I have been with did not care at all and were enthusiastic. Even some on the bigger side were consistently happy to be there. Really cool girls.

So yeah I definitely agree with the thread.

I wish i wasn't. This stuff happened a long time ago but unfortunately its not something you forget.