Hey everyone:
I have very bad premature ejaculation and its so bothersome now that I've found a girl that I really truly like. My case is pretty bad. Often times if i pump back and forth 20 or so times I feel like im gonna cum. Im talking maybe 1 to 2 minutes of non-stop sex. Ive read alot on these forums and I've tried alot of them. I edge all the time and do kegels, and have learned to not kegel during sex, yet no matter what I do i cant hold back my ejaculation.
I really feel that this might harm my relationship and make sex seem like such a bore for my girlfriend. I for one try to help as best I can. I always start out by eating her out and try to give her an orgasm and sometimes I do and then we have sex but often midway through she asks me to fuck her. So i get in and start going at it for a short period of time and then feel it coming, pull out and then go again. To delay it more I tell her to switch positions but only ones where I can control the speed. But then the problem is her favorite position is her on top. So she keeps asking me to lay down repeatedly, and then second I do and she controls the pace, i cum within 20 seconds or so. I have tried everything. Mentally staying below Point of no return, reverse kegeling, breathing, stop and starting, but no matter what I do I cum really really quick. Im at a loss, I dont know how to make sex desirable and exciting and intense for my girlfriend. At the moment whenever were done, which is really quick, I can sense a bit of frustration and sheer disappointment on her part.
I have very bad premature ejaculation and its so bothersome now that I've found a girl that I really truly like. My case is pretty bad. Often times if i pump back and forth 20 or so times I feel like im gonna cum. Im talking maybe 1 to 2 minutes of non-stop sex. Ive read alot on these forums and I've tried alot of them. I edge all the time and do kegels, and have learned to not kegel during sex, yet no matter what I do i cant hold back my ejaculation.
I really feel that this might harm my relationship and make sex seem like such a bore for my girlfriend. I for one try to help as best I can. I always start out by eating her out and try to give her an orgasm and sometimes I do and then we have sex but often midway through she asks me to fuck her. So i get in and start going at it for a short period of time and then feel it coming, pull out and then go again. To delay it more I tell her to switch positions but only ones where I can control the speed. But then the problem is her favorite position is her on top. So she keeps asking me to lay down repeatedly, and then second I do and she controls the pace, i cum within 20 seconds or so. I have tried everything. Mentally staying below Point of no return, reverse kegeling, breathing, stop and starting, but no matter what I do I cum really really quick. Im at a loss, I dont know how to make sex desirable and exciting and intense for my girlfriend. At the moment whenever were done, which is really quick, I can sense a bit of frustration and sheer disappointment on her part.
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