why 8 to 9"..?

[thatguy88 Member Find all posts View Profile Close thatguy88]

I think it's the psychological standpoint of - Fuck yeah, I'm bigger than some, but as big as most porn stars AKA: alpha male. We all seek to be in the top %. Especially those who train towards a goal.

Most of the guys that have gotten huge gains want to keep going until they can't gain anymore. My two cents still go with the whole: Alpha Male thing. I'm stopping as soon as I hit 7 or 7.5, which should be within the next year if not 6 months. For my fiance's request. Though, I'm just doing this to prove some fellow classmates wrong.

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

It's all just personal preference..."Get the Penis YOU WANT" I'm a bit of a sadist, I like the ability to inflict pain....hell some girls are into it(real hell kittenss)!!!I just find it difficult to believe that if any man were given the choice between 8 or 9, they would choose 8.......and as in my previous, and somewhat obscure example about the speedometer....what I meant to convey was that just because you have 9" doesn't mean you have to insert it all, but you will have the option to try...Who wouldn't enjoy having their girl try in vane to fit it all in, wincing in slight discomfort and extreme pleasure???

I agree get the penis you want. Everyone wants something different. I think you would be surprised how many guys would take 8 over 9.

[SilurianSoldier Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SilurianSoldier]

I met a very petite girl at a bar, she used both hands to jerk while she blew me....I want my size where every girl can do that...

After reaching 9"BPEL, I will work to make it NBPEL.......then periodic maintenance(if/as needed)

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

Hmmm overall it seems as though its the guys in commited relationships who are more concerned with not going to big vs their single counter parts. I guess because if you dont care about the girl it could be fun to hurt her while you enjoy yourself. I hooked up with a small asian girl one night years ago and easily bottomed her out at only 7". Felt like I could of at 6" or less she was so tight. It was fun and I enjoyed it. I still remember her holding her hand to her stomach and saying "you hurt my insides" after as she left haha. I wouldnt treat my fiancee that way though lol.

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

Hmmm overall it seems as though its the guys in commited relationships who are more concerned with not going to big vs their single counter parts. I guess because if you dont care about the girl it could be fun to hurt her while you enjoy yourself. I hooked up with a small asian girl one night years ago and easily bottomed her out at only 7". Felt like I could of at 6" or less she was so tight. It was fun and I enjoyed it. I still remember her holding her hand to her stomach and saying "you hurt my insides" after as she left haha. I wouldnt treat my fiancee that way though lol.

...So... How`s your mom?...

[Jelqinator Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jelqinator]

Balls deep for the closeness and added benefit of easily stimulating her clit, having excess sounds like hassle, go too deep you hurt her, sex could be postponed.

Don't get me wrong, I want my dick to fill every square millimeter, but only just!

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

I like dicks to be a length where i can grind down on it, longer penis can be limiting...feeling balls slapping up on me can also add to the sex. If your dick is too long your balls won't be slapping....Like i have always said all sizes have their advantages and disadvantages.

[MurphKitty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MurphKitty]

Yea girls will complain about stomach pain after or during sex and if you hit the cervix just right then there might be quite a bit of pain. I don't usually have to be too careful, just can't get overly excited and pump away as fast and hard as I please. I wouldn't really call it a hassle though and def don't believe that I have a problem.

[amc Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amc]

One thing I rarely hear discussed is VE... Vagina Enlargement. Look at all the huge dildoes on the market. I think that most guys would agree that vagina enlargement is easier that penis enlagement. Maybe our gf/wives are trying to avoid injury and stretching with Mandingo sized dildoes.

Guys need to keep up so 8 to 9 is realistic!

I am just kidding but it is worth thinking about.

Haha! I agree, have thought about this. Everything is more extreme nowdays so sure girls use larger dildos.

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

I like dicks to be a length where i can grind down on it, longer penis can be limiting...feeling balls slapping up on me can also add to the sex. If your dick is too long your balls won't be slapping....Like i have always said all sizes have their advantages and disadvantages.

I like it when girls talk about what they like, like that! That will be a huge rep for you, lady!

[amc Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amc]

Take note:

If you go "balls deep" than all the nerve endings in your penis are being stimulated!

True! Even the base and part of fatpad is a bit sensitive.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

honestly, for me, it was to overcome my fatpad. i wanted to see a 7.5" penis NBPEL. then i wanted an 8.25" NBPEL. since I had a 1.75" fatpad and 2 inches in some places, it was only possible with lots of length. Fat pad being completely compressible, my usable length would then be 9"-9.25"

I still have that goal. I started at 7.25" BPEL and about 5.75-6" NBPEL. It's girth that I really wanted. I started at about 4.875 or 5.0 I'm not really sure. My measurments were off to begin with. I'm now 5.375-5.5" in girth, Midshaft (depending on the time of day and arousal) and about 8.75" in length BPEL. about 7-7.25" NBPEL.

I wanted it because I've always thought i was not well endowed and in some places I'm not. i started PE because of my paltry girth and never getting those orgasms I knew i should have been giving because of my skills. As girth went up, so did orgasm intensity I'm happy with my progress so far, I just need to get to 6.25" in midshaft girth and I'll be happy! I've got a LONG way to go. 8.75" BPEL is way more than enough length, I think, but I pack on length faster than girth, so if I end up hitting 9.25"BPEL I don't mind. i just don't want it to creep up to 10"BPEL before I get my 6.25" in girth.

[sdaddy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sdaddy]

Vagina depth varies among women. I would prefer to have too much than not enough. The latter situation is not a good feeling.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

On the majority of women it can get painful around 7.5 + which is probably why average is 5.5-6.5 length. So I would really have to say it's an EGO thing with most males period or a perception thing. For me it's still a perception thing for length because it still don't look long enough but with the girth is EGO I will admit. No women I have been with ever the "I wish it were bigger thing" neither my wife who thinks I am crazy for even doing this. And as far as the reach the bottom thing, most guys can in certain positions if about 6 inches like legs to the chest while with guys who are longer usually have an issue going balls in in that position which out slamming hard into the cervix or rupturing the end which does happen. It just not made known.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

On the majority of women it can get painful around 7.5 + which is probably why average is 5.5-6.5 length. So I would really have to say it's an EGO thing with most males period or a perception thing. For me it's still a perception thing for length because it still don't look long enough but with the girth is EGO I will admit. No women I have been with ever the "I wish it were bigger thing" neither my wife who thinks I am crazy for even doing this. And as far as the reach the bottom thing, most guys can in certain positions if about 6 inches like legs to the chest while with guys who are longer usually have an issue going balls in in that position which out slamming hard into the cervix or rupturing the end which does happen. It just not made known.

Girth is the major driver. Girth is the determining factor. You can fudge length, you can't fudge girth.

In my experience, I've ALWAYS ALWAYS gotten the hand on the chest to signal to not go much further in. I can get that with any girl I'm with. I know how to control my length. That's not a big problem. When she wants it all the way in, she'll get it. When she doesn't she won't

Girth is the thing that blows her mind and that's where I'm working towards

I was in bed with a friend and she was rubbing on my peen through my underwear. I was wearing compression shorts to bed with her, and she was like "OMG, you don't need to wear those!" I was like "why?" she goes "You're way too big to try to pack all that in there." I was like "BLAHHHHHHHHHHH" I hate when they say stupid stuff. Big isn't LENGTH big is GIRTH! i'm long, not big