Does Your size make you insecure around women?

[Slow&Steady Member Find all posts View Profile Close Slow&Steady]

7.5 girth (if not at the base) is really not heard of I would love to see that for real to believe it. She could not have known his size until sex had occurred.

He is 1 in a million I know. Her friends all compare dick size. They do this by making an OK grip on the guy and then memorize how far apart their fingers are from each other. A girl she now hates used to date this guy. Before I moved out she told me about his size and that the other girl was going to breakup with him cause he was too big. My ex didn't sleep with him till 6 months after that. So she knew what she was walking into and chose the giant prick. I was able to see a very good close-up picture on her phone. It is every bit of 7.5 down the entire shaft. She said his was squisher than mine so compressed and felt nice. He denied doing any PE. I found out about her cheating on New Year’s when she left her diary here and I suspected. You would not believe how badly she needed this guy’s junk and hated being with me sexually. She wanted my money and companionship only and foreaver. While I suspected her cheating I never expected her to hate being with me. We had both gained 60 lbs and certainly had issues but I was still shocked. So two faced...
Anyways I can just barely fit into a toilet roll at 5.5. I've also lost 30 lbs since I found out and am putting on some muscle. I'm also starting law school in the fall. She always blocked that by spending my money. I'm starting to rebuild friend relationships as she wouldn't let me have any as a support defense against her NPD. (Google NPD if you wish as my response is already too long)
Still I'd be ok with my goals and not need to go on after I've reached them. Thanks

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

For the 10987463 time, women don't know size, regardless of what they say,for gods sake they could't get it right with a tape measure let alone how you describe.

[Project-9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Project-9]

For the 10987463 time, women don't know size, regardless of what they say,for gods sake they could't get it right with a tape measure let alone how you describe.

Well said Sir! Hence the reason they suck at parallel parking...Guys keep telling them 4" is actually 8!

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BTBrian, what you said in #21 is exactly what was on my mind. Can I give you neg rep for beating me to the post? Wait, I can't? Okay, here's some rep

Sure bro, porn guys are average size but its all pumps and camera angles...

Totally agree the post was rep worthy apart from point 2 which was....

[Slow&Steady Member Find all posts View Profile Close Slow&Steady]

For the 10987463 time, women don't know size, regardless of what they say,for gods sake they could't get it right with a tape measure let alone how you describe.

She didn't tell me the size. I saw it close up next to a Rock Star soda can. He took the shot to prove his size. They are laid out right next to each other. But it doesn't matter if it's 7.75 or 7.25, it is still way too much for most women and NOT what I want. Let's face it she would be happy with horse sex. I know that's not normal...

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Sigh same old I hear this stuff most days.

[Project-9 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Project-9]

A fricking Olympic bar sleeve is 6 1/4 inches!....Oh, if you dont know what that is then get your ass to a gym and man up.

[Slow&Steady Member Find all posts View Profile Close Slow&Steady]

Sigh same old I hear this stuff most days.

I guess my point was that I was OK with less and wouldn't need to keep going after my goal as others stated earlier in the chain. Because girls vary and in my case my ex is a nut and wanted a guy that others avoid because of his crazy size. Bigger isn't always better. But I never would have done PE if she didn't make me feel inadaquate. I only found this site after while looking at surgery. Thank God I didn't go that route.

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

Sure bro, porn guys are average size but its all pumps and camera angles...

Extract head from arse please.

I will second that!! Cmmon get real guys ....Porn stars are in the industry mainly for the reason that they're blessed with a large penis. Im not denying that they may use pumps and pills as an aid, but naturally they're bigger than average. For those of you that believe the contrary, just ask yourselves who exactly is it your trying to fool.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

For the 10987463 time, women don't know size, regardless of what they say,for gods sake they could't get it right with a tape measure let alone how you describe.

lol its the truth

[Slow&Steady Member Find all posts View Profile Close Slow&Steady]

A fricking Olympic bar sleeve is 6 1/4 inches!....Oh, if you don’t know what that is then get your ass to a gym and man up.

I have 2 black belts and used to be in great shape (14 years ago). I never had to ask a girl out as they would ask me. But I let myself go with her. But now I'm doing P90X and lost 30 lbs. I also got a Bowflex 552 and am pushing weights. 5g cratine before workout and 30g of whey after and for the evening meal. I'm working it hard believe me. At 42 it is ridiculous how hard I have to bust my ass to make progress. Ah to be 28 again.

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I have 2 black belts and used to be in great shape (14 years ago). I never had to ask a girl out as they would ask me. But I let myself go with her. But now I'm doing P90X and lost 30 lbs. I also got a Bowflex 552 and am pushing weights. 5g cratine before workout and 30g of whey after and for the evening meal. I'm working it hard believe me. At 42 it is ridiculous how hard I have to bust my ass to make progress. Ah to be 28 again.

Sorry, wasnt really directed at you bro but 2 BB's and you need "p90X"??? You have what is hard to teach, EFFORT!!
Do yourself a favor and go and learn to lift maximally. Maximize your time and get a real body...Like the old days. DIET DIET effort and DIET.

"NO, Bulk up, abs on a skinny guy are like big tits on a fat chick, THEY DOENT COUNT"!

I have a VERY strong MA backround BTW.

[Slow&Steady Member Find all posts View Profile Close Slow&Steady]

No sweat. The P90X isn't really there to teach me how to workout as much as it's to have something to workout with, if you get my meaning. I went from an Arnold from Terminator physique to an Arnold from Happy Days physique over the last 14 years. It certainly hasn't helped my confidence but it's comming back. It is just so slow that I'm starting to suspect low T. I'll hit a real gym in the next 30-60 days as I don't have the big weight I need for my legs. Diet has been around 1600 cals and lean on carbs as I'm trying to burn fat. I should be back in pretty good shape just in time for the 2012 end of the world.

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Signs of low T are Negative mood, hard to lose fat and low libido. If you match those then see a doc, preferable an "Anti aging" doc. GP's in my experience are muppets.

In any case if your earned a REAL BB then i have no doubt you'll be an AXE by the dawning of 2013, not many can grasp how hard a real BB is to achieve. If you did that then you know focus.

[helpmeout Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close helpmeout]

I totally agree with your 1st and 3rd point but point 2? No...just no. "in reality most porn dicks aren't even much bigger than average"
Total crap! "Average according to studies which are almost all voluntary show around 4.5-5" length. The guys that show up for the studies think they are hung! Porn dudes are on average 8" id guess.

Yes camera angles, single digit body fat and tiny women may make their cocks look bigger but those dudes are packing serious meat.

Saying otherwise just reinforces why guys have the issues adressed in the OP.

Average dicks according to voluntary studies are usually around 5.8-5.9 bone pressed. The only one that came out around 5 inches was the wessels one and that one was on 60 year old men and done non bone pressed. Obviously they would have bigger fat pads. A few more studies done in america on prostate patients got about 6.1 as the bpel. So if anything average is about 5.5-6. All the thunders and pegym polls put it around 6.2ish. So safe to say average is about 5.5-6 nbp. To say that the average dude walking around is packing a 4.5-5 inch dick, im sorry, just no. However I do agree with your original disagreement, that pornstars are well above average. I disagree with BTbrian. Camera angles obviously play a role, but I have a 6 inch nbp dick and RARELY do I ever feel like I come remotely close to anything I see in porn.