Does Your size make you insecure around women?

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

Average dicks according to voluntary studies are usually around 5.8-5.9 bone pressed. The only one that came out around 5 inches was the wessels one and that one was on 60 year old men and done non bone pressed. Obviously they would have bigger fat pads. A few more studies done in america on prostate patients got about 6.1 as the bpel. So if anything average is about 5.5-6. All the thunders and pegym polls put it around 6.2ish. So safe to say average is about 5.5-6 nbp. To say that the average dude walking around is packing a 4.5-5 inch dick, im sorry, just no.

I was going to point that out as well, 4.5-5 is not near average. Beat me too it!

And guys there was a big thread here recently about porn dick sizes check it out if you want but we won't continue the debate here.

[3666777 Member Find all posts View Profile Close 3666777]

I swear these are some of the most idiotic suggestions I have ever read in my life. I don't even know where to start. The entire initial post continues to perpetuate the proverbial mind f**k that exist in mens heads about penis size. And for the love of all that is holy DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT stop dating for an ENTIRE YEAR to increase penis size. For the most part sexual satisfaction with a women is about YOUR CONFIDENCE and how you make HER FEEL. There is a dichotomy that exists in a woman's mind about sex. She wants you to be respectful and honorable outside of the bed room, but in the bed room she wants you to be a freak.

Worry more about eating her pussy, telling her how hot she looks, how great her body looks, be a bit forceful -- pulling hair maybe slight grip on the the throat. Be a man in the bed room and make her feel like a sexual being and TRUST ME ON THIS your penis size won't matter at all. Women are mental creatures FIRST. Remember this. AND DO NOT TAKE OFF DATING FOR A YEAR!!!!!!!!!!

[Edge of Glory Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Edge of Glory]

I swear these are some of the most idiotic suggestions I have ever read in my life. I don't even know where to start. The entire initial post continues to perpetuate the proverbial mind f**k that exist in mens heads about penis size. And for the love of all that is holy DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT stop dating for an ENTIRE YEAR to increase penis size. For the most part sexual satisfaction with a women is about YOUR CONFIDENCE and how you make HER FEEL. There is a dichotomy that exists in a woman's mind about sex. She wants you to be respectful and honorable outside of the bed room, but in the bed room she wants you to be a freak.

Worry more about eating her pussy, telling her how hot she looks, how great her body looks, be a bit forceful -- pulling hair maybe slight grip on the the throat. Be a man in the bed room and make her feel like a sexual being and TRUST ME ON THIS your penis size won't matter at all. Women are mental creatures FIRST. Remember this. AND DO NOT TAKE OFF DATING FOR A YEAR!!!!!!!!!!

You are a god among men. Could not have said it better myself.

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

I swear these are some of the most idiotic suggestions I have ever read in my life. I don't even know where to start. The entire initial post continues to perpetuate the proverbial mind f**k that exist in mens heads about penis size. And for the love of all that is holy DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT stop dating for an ENTIRE YEAR to increase penis size. For the most part sexual satisfaction with a women is about YOUR CONFIDENCE and how you make HER FEEL. There is a dichotomy that exists in a woman's mind about sex. She wants you to be respectful and honorable outside of the bed room, but in the bed room she wants you to be a freak.

Worry more about eating her pussy, telling her how hot she looks, how great her body looks, be a bit forceful -- pulling hair maybe slight grip on the the throat. Be a man in the bed room and make her feel like a sexual being and TRUST ME ON THIS your penis size won't matter at all. Women are mental creatures FIRST. Remember this. AND DO NOT TAKE OFF DATING FOR A YEAR!!!!!!!!!!

Hell yes! I've had women say I'm the best they've had in bed without even putting my dick in them! Most girls I've been with said I'm the only guy who could actually use fingering as part of sex as opposed to get them off with it. So what's that tell you guys? My fingers sure as hell aren't as big as my dick that's for sure! Its such a mental game with women its insane. I had a girl literally begging me a couple days ago to tell her what i was doing when I fingered her so that she could tell another guy how to do it to her. I was just like uhhh idk I just do what feels right! But the real secret is just that I was in her head and had her begging for me. I could have done anything and she woulda gone crazy. This isnt bragging by the way I'm just trying to illustrate the point that size doesn't mean shit

[want2bebigger Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close want2bebigger]

ive had so many chances to get laid and i didnt bcuz im insecure about my 6 inch dick. id bring them home, make out with them, but never try to fuck them bcuz of it... i have refused to even have a girlfriend bcuz im too nervous to let her see my dick.. its really sucked... hopefully in another few months ill be bigger and have more confidence ...

[3666777 Member Find all posts View Profile Close 3666777]

ive had so many chances to get laid and i didnt bcuz im insecure about my 6 inch dick. id bring them home, make out with them, but never try to fuck them bcuz of it... i have refused to even have a girlfriend bcuz im too nervous to let her see my dick.. its really sucked... hopefully in another few months ill be bigger and have more confidence ...

I don't want to be mean, but you're really missing out on a great life if that's the case. Six inches is plenty to please any woman. Again it's not about the size man. Make her feel like she's the sexiest woman in the world. Stroke your dick while telling her the arches on her back make her look like a swan. When you lick her pussy tell her how sweet she tastes. During the day send her texts about how you'd love to eat her out while she rides your face and whilst she's doing it how much you'd love to have her cum all over your face. Women LOVE nasty in the bedroom. Dick size is an after thought and you are working with plenty.

Stop being insecure, take a break from this site, stop watching porn and get in a woman's MIND. Use your imagination and stop letting life pass you by....

[helpmeout Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close helpmeout]

Are you 6 bone pressed or 6 non bone pressed?

[want2bebigger Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close want2bebigger]

non bone pressed

[second lensman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close second lensman]

ive had so many chances to get laid and i didnt bcuz im insecure about my 6 inch dick. id bring them home, make out with them, but never try to fuck them bcuz of it... i have refused to even have a girlfriend bcuz im too nervous to let her see my dick.. its really sucked... hopefully in another few months ill be bigger and have more confidence ...

What 3666777 said above.

[want2bebigger Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close want2bebigger]

im a little confused when it comes to measuring bone pressed and non..... so when i hear that the average penis size is like 5-6 inches, are they talking about bone pressed? cuz bone pressed im barely shy of 7 inches....

[helpmeout Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close helpmeout]

Its bone pressed. You are "statistically" well above average. Your about the same size as me. I have just about as much trouble accepting that fact as you must. Average BPEL in studies is about 5.5-6. There was an average done by lifestyles condoms that measured white college kids on spring break in cancun. That was about 5.8. The jury is still out on whether or not that study was bone pressed or not as the study details were never made public and the study was unpublished.

If it was BPEL, it coincides with all the other medical studies, if it was non bone pressed, it coincides with all the online surveys, putting the avg BPEL somewhere around 6.2-6.5. I have no idea what to believe. Either way we are both statistically at least a little bit above average.

If we are to believe the medical studies we are statistically decently above average. I tend to believe the online things (such as PEGYM or ************* polls) more than I do the medical studies. Maybe I shouldn't. I also think that the pegym polls may be skewed downwards because this is an enlargement website. But according to the PEGYM starting size poll, 7 bpel and above only holds about 12 percent of its members. I wish we could get the details of the lifestyles study on whether or not it was bone pressed.

The guy who made that thread at thunders with the list of studies said it was NBP, but there actually is no info on the topic on the web. I e-mailed the owner of the "mr. average" site that everyone cites as the actual info for that study, and he said he actually has no idea, hes just assuming that it was done lightly bone pressed and that theres really no information on it. If it was BPEL, I would rest my case about online surveys being bullshit.

If its NBP, then it gives way more credibility to online surveys BPEL average. I think the lifestyles would be more accurate because it measured Americans at a club. Most of the studies often listed are like "271 jordanians going in for prostate surgery" or something like that. I don't think that accurately represents the general public out getting laid.

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

If we are to believe the medical studies we are statistically decently above average. I tend to believe the online things (such as PEGYM or ************* polls) more than I do the medical studies.

You really believe what people report about themselves more than what professionals measure them at?

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Here is the definitive answer to this post from a guy with a small dick who is also pretty mind fucked with women.

Picking up girls has nothing. NOTHING to do with dick size. If they like you they like you.

Does size make a difference in sex? Yes. Its hypocritical for the mass of huge dicked men here to say otherwise in one post and then say it does in another. Are they good guys who are trying to be nice? Yes but lying doesnt help. This site would not exist if size didnt matter.

Now, most broads will fuck the shit out of you regardless if you make them hot. If they like you.

Dont not date, thats dumb too. How about you have fun and learn? Guess what? Youll do just god damn fine.

Go get laid

[helpmeout Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close helpmeout]

No, not necessarily. I do however know that if I were to put down a number for a survey, it would be my BPEL on my absolute best erection, which would most likely be the kinda erection i'd have around a woman. Whereas i'm almost certain id be around .2-.5 shorter if i was sitting in some hospital room somewhere. I don't know how it works necessarily for medically induced erections however.

[VIPER Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIPER]

I don't want to be mean, but you're really missing out on a great life if that's the case. Six inches is plenty to please any woman. Again it's not about the size man. Make her feel like she's the sexiest woman in the world. Stroke your dick while telling her the arches on her back make her look like a swan. When you lick her pussy tell her how sweet she tastes. During the day send her texts about how you'd love to eat her out while she rides your face and whilst she's doing it how much you'd love to have her cum all over your face. Women LOVE nasty in the bedroom. Dick size is an after thought and you are working with plenty.

Stop being insecure, take a break from this site, stop watching porn and get in a woman's MIND. Use your imagination and stop letting life pass you by....

This i wholeheartedly agree with and to be honest is advice i am intent on following myself. Quite recently i have become increasingly aware of how many guys here have underlying mental issues which is in much more need of addressing than any physical shortfalls that they posess. I also have in the past and not so much now suffered from similar mental issues which has effected me in the same way as it is effecting these guys. As time goes by and i experience the benefits of PE my self esteem and confidence has rocketed. Despite this there is a part of me that is saddened when i Log on to PEGym and read posts that seem to express so much negativity and as a result brings my mood right down. The mental issues have lead these guys to have False and guite bitter perceptions of the opposite sex. In other ways it has caused a few guys to become dillusional where as instead of focusing on what brought them here in the first place and learning to accept how they are and believe in themselves, they convince themselves with bullshit that was mentioned earlier on in this thread.
Because of this i am going to take a break from this site and consider whether or not to return. Whatever happens i would like to wish you all the happiness and success in PE and life in general.

Regards

Viper