my life at 8x6

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

So are you saying SIZE doesn't matter? I'm sure everyone knows from my post that you all know I hate my penis and think it's the smallest thing in the world. So it's more than the size of someone's dick to be happy with someone? I'm not 8 inches wish I was though

Yes, I am saying for most ladies of my acquaintance size doesn't matter. We talk about how a guy treats us and his personality, the things he does to make us see their character. As my husband indicated it's not that I have not experienced the difference in size, I have. My late husband was large but maybe because of youth did not know how to rock my world, so size didn't do it. I had better sex and great sex from day one with MrL4M even though he was smaller. He took the time to make sure I was satisfied and felt well loved in and out of bed. Sex is only part of the equation.

Just like you, in today's world if a woman only wants sex, she can get it anywhere. Sex is just Sex. What transcends that is the relationship you have with the woman. You say you are small but your profile shows you are well above average, regardless of that, get out of your head the size thing. You want to make it bigger fine, but don't do it to attract a woman, you can get her with love, affection, a great personality and unshakable character.

MrL4M joined this forum not for size but to work on his EQ and in the time that he was working on that and seeing a Dr. for other things, etc. not once did I feel dissatisfied. Why, he took care of me other ways, toys, did oral, whatever. I am not going anywhere and that is because he has all the qualities I mentioned above none of which includes size.

[Girth5 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Girth5]

I hate when women say " if the vagina can push out a baby, it handel a Huge /big cock "
I just hate that saying reason why because a women has to go through 12 to what every hours to get a her vagina ready to push out a baby.

When it comes to sex it takes couple of mintunes to get her vagina ready for sex. and if she try to take a big cock it will not completely go in.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

I hate when women say " if the vagina get push out a baby, it handel a Huge /big cock "
I just hate that saying reason why because a women has to go through 12 to what every hours to get a her vagina ready to push out a baby.

When it comes to sex it takes couple of mintunes to get her vagina ready for sex. and if she try to take a big cock it will not completely go in.

That and the body creates the endomorphines and other chemicals during pregnancy and labor to be able to try and deliver (pre delivery chemicals starts way before the delivery time). Notice, I say try because now a days most ladies end up with an episiotomy or a c-section in order to deliver (babies average birth weight is bigger now than it was 50 years ago).

[alan020 Member of the Month Jan 13 Find all posts View Profile Close alan020]

Good post qwertyuiop, good to see perspectives from people who are at the goal many people strive towards

[Girth5 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Girth5]

We should make a thread about this "guys with 8x6 share your experiences" .. Would be a good read

I agree, makes a official thread with guys with 8by6.
But I got no control over that, its up to the big bosses here.

[Dick Whammy Retired Moderator Member of the month Jan 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Dick Whammy]

Yes, I am saying for most ladies of my acquaintance size doesn't matter. We talk about how a guy treats us and his personality, the things he does to make us see their character. As my husband indicated it's not that I have not experienced the difference in size, I have. My late husband was large but maybe because of youth did not know how to rock my world, so size didn't do it. I had better sex and great sex from day one with MrL4M even though he was smaller. He took the time to make sure I was satisfied and felt well loved in and out of bed. Sex is only part of the equation.

Just like you, in today's world if a woman only wants sex, she can get it anywhere. Sex is just Sex. What transcends that is the relationship you have with the woman. You say you are small but your profile shows you are well above average, regardless of that, get out of your head the size thing. You want to make it bigger fine, but don't do it to attract a woman, you can get her with love, affection, a great personality and unshakable character.

MrL4M joined this forum not for size but to work on his EQ and in the time that he was working on that and seeing a Dr. for other things, etc. not once did I feel dissatisfied. Why, he took care of me other ways, toys, did oral, whatever. I am not going anywhere and that is because he has all the qualities I mentioned above none of which includes size.

I've got to say this,

mrslooking4more has a lovely vocabulary. Unlike most women, I think, even my own, she has a wonderful way of wording things especially in a non-threatening manner. I'm a firm believer in the fact that, how you say it is just about as important as what you say. Not only women, but most people nowadays blurt out words phrases and feelings without thinking. Most men I think are conditioned nowadays, to have to be defensive of their penis size. This is because of our own insecurities as well as our lack of confidence. Once again this is conditioning in society, whether it be something we've read about, something said directly to our face, something we've seen in a movie. For those of us who watch porn, hopping on into that vagina, stroking away while we watch the female writhing in some type of pleasurable pain,, from a porn point of view it seems to be the way to go, hence the conditioning that we've been experiencing.

Personally I try to treat a woman with love kindness and respect, and I try to be gentle beyond all else. Sometimes I don't know whether or not to believe what my woman asks of me. The females are conditioned also. From a logical standpoint, I do believe that size is not the deciding factor in lovemaking and a good relationship. At one point my woman did make me feel insecure,, mind you she never put down the size of my penis,, but she did make me think when she said that she was happy that I'm a good size. I obviously read more into that then she meant. I guess I'm conditioned just as much as the next guy to believe that I have to be well endowed to be a good man. I also believe that you can be the greatest man in the world, best lover, properly endowed for the situation,,, but if your partner does not interlock with you and your ways and feelings,, there's another mismatch for you!

Getting back to my original thought here, mrslooking4more definitely has a way with words and certainly makes me feel comfortable and confident reading her posts. Just my honest 2 cents here.

[qwertyuiop Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close qwertyuiop]

Holy shit there's a lot to respond to. um no I never got the hardcore. and it sounds like I should comment a little more on the sex stuff. there's a guy named Jason julius who has a great sex help program that has been helpful in helping me make my partners gocompletely bananas. I do a lot of foreplay and really enjoy her myself before I even get it in and I am usually having so much fun eating pussy that she has to beg me to get in. so let's start there.... gettin it in.... somegirls have naturally been dripping wet especially because they had just orgasmed. but usually I use a lot of spit or lube if they'd like. at first I'm very slow and gentle but not apologetic. I get in the tip and then usually stop for a minutewhile kissing and whatever. this let's get acclimate. usually she gasps andwhispers "be careful" acouple times.... all this while the breathing has gotten heavier and heavier. soon ive worked myself in though and the sex progresses. on to depth... yes!! it hurts when you bottom out and hit the cervix. I have yet to meet a girl who liked it but apparently some do. but let's talk about last night... last night I went down on her making her orgasm very hard. Iwoke up at430 am and she was tugging on my dick and that's how I ended up going down on her. next she begged me to get inher. soI did and rolled her over on her belly. I went in deep and found the cervix. so I pulled back and aimed my dick down like I was trying to stick it in the mattress. this drove her nuts and I was careful to not slam into her cervix. whenI say this drove her nuts I mean she was moaning and very loud and breathing heavy and just extremely loud. she gets lost in it.
so here it is. she has grown and stretched to accommodate me meaningthat 8" probably wasn't necessary to hit her spots. she has also stretched to receive my girth. every timewe've had sex she has been sore inside and also her lips. but she loves it . they have all told me that they were sore the next day... but it's a good sore. but some don't like the timeit takes for them to stretch and grow because they love getting slammed hard... it feels good on their clit. oh and they all love my mouth. I believe if you got really good at oral your girl would be extremely satisfied. and you gotta be passionate. be a fucking man andcare for her and lead her. lend her your strength. she wants to be loved and fucked.... gotta get back to work

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

Yes, I am saying for most ladies of my acquaintance size doesn't matter. We talk about how a guy treats us and his personality, the things he does to make us see their character. As my husband indicated it's not that I have not experienced the difference in size, I have. My late husband was large but maybe because of youth did not know how to rock my world, so size didn't do it. I had better sex and great sex from day one with MrL4M even though he was smaller. He took the time to make sure I was satisfied and felt well loved in and out of bed. Sex is only part of the equation.

Just like you, in today's world if a woman only wants sex, she can get it anywhere. Sex is just Sex. What transcends that is the relationship you have with the woman. You say you are small but your profile shows you are well above average, regardless of that, get out of your head the size thing. You want to make it bigger fine, but don't do it to attract a woman, you can get her with love, affection, a great personality and unshakable character.

MrL4M joined this forum not for size but to work on his EQ and in the time that he was working on that and seeing a Dr. for other things, etc. not once did I feel dissatisfied. Why, he took care of me other ways, toys, did oral, whatever. I am not going anywhere and that is because he has all the qualities I mentioned above none of which includes size.

Thanks for you and your husband's reply and thanks for the good info. I have this mindset that every girl wants a guy with a big dick and that guys with a small dick will get made of because it's small and can't please a female. I'm guessing you looked at my pictures to say that I'm well above average even though I don't think I am. I know I can treat a girl right and make her happy it's pleasing her in bed is what I'm worried about the most.

[penisesunite Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisesunite]

Holy shit there's a lot to respond to. um no I never got the hardcore. and it sounds like I should comment a little more on the sex stuff. there's a guy named Jason julius who has a great sex help program that has been helpful in helping me make my partners gocompletely bananas. I do a lot of foreplay and really enjoy her myself before I even get it in and I am usually having so much fun eating pussy that she has to beg me to get in. so let's start there.... gettin it in.... somegirls have naturally been dripping wet especially because they had just orgasmed. but usually I use a lot of spit or lube if they'd like. at first I'm very slow and gentle but not apologetic. I get in the tip and then usually stop for a minutewhile kissing and whatever. this let's get acclimate. usually she gasps andwhispers "be careful" acouple times.... all this while the breathing has gotten heavier and heavier. soon ive worked myself in though and the sex progresses. on to depth... yes!! it hurts when you bottom out and hit the cervix. I have yet to meet a girl who liked it but apparently some do. but let's talk about last night... last night I went down on her making her orgasm very hard. Iwoke up at430 am and she was tugging on my dick and that's how I ended up going down on her. next she begged me to get inher. soI did and rolled her over on her belly. I went in deep and found the cervix. so I pulled back and aimed my dick down like I was trying to stick it in the mattress. this drove her nuts and I was careful to not slam into her cervix. whenI say this drove her nuts I mean she was moaning and very loud and breathing heavy and just extremely loud. she gets lost in it.
so here it is. she has grown and stretched to accommodate me meaningthat 8" probably wasn't necessary to hit her spots. she has also stretched to receive my girth. every timewe've had sex she has been sore inside and also her lips. but she loves it . they have all told me that they were sore the next day... but it's a good sore. but some don't like the timeit takes for them to stretch and grow because they love getting slammed hard... it feels good on their clit. oh and they all love my mouth. I believe if you got really good at oral your girl would be extremely satisfied. and you gotta be passionate. be a fucking man andcare for her and lead her. lend her your strength. she wants to be loved and fucked.... gotta get back to work

I'm really happy for your size. I do agree, if you know how to eat a good pussy, your penis almost becomes negligible. That's what a friend of mine told me anyway. She said so few guys know what foreplay or eating out a girl is that it's a such a rare skill and pron has made it pathetically underrated.

But back onto the 8x6, I have no idea why everyone strives for such a big dick. I want to be deepthroated, I want to enjoy long blowjobs from the girl, different positions, really long sessions, and I want to fuck her really hard day in, day out, without her ever complaining that she can't because she's sore from last time. Am I willing to sacrifice all that just so I can get some "magic" 8x6? No, no way. The point of a penis is good sex, not how big it is. 7.5x5.5-5.75 seems to be the perfect balance. It stays in the comfort zone and rarely enters the pain zone.

EDIT: And even though my size might not be her biggest, I couldn't care less. How fucking weird am I if I'm thinking about some other guy's dick when there's a naked girl in front of me asking me to make love to her?

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

Thanks for you and your husband's reply and thanks for the good info. I have this mindset that every girl wants a guy with a big dick and that guys with a small dick will get made of because it's small and can't please a female. I'm guessing you looked at my pictures to say that I'm well above average even though I don't think I am. I know I can treat a girl right and make her happy it's pleasing her in bed is what I'm worried about the most.

We didn't see your pics but did see in your profile that you are 7" long. That's 1/2 longer than I was when I met my Mrs. From day one she just loved sex with the size I had. It was more that she just felt safe and secure with me and that meant more than having a huge penis. Size has never been an issue for her. The only reason I started here was of my own insecurities and wanting to have better erections since I was having issues for a short while a few years back. If you are worried about pleasing a woman, work on other things besides your penis. You already know how to treat a lady well so most of the battle is over. Work on oral skills. That is what will drive a woman wild! Check out a book called "She Comes First". It is all about oral sex. I read it and got a lot of great ideas from it. Now I can get her off in no time at all without using my penis. The whole idea is to get your lady off first before you do. Because face it, women can go forever while we have that awful thing called a refractory period. Work on the total package and she won't know what hit her!

[qwertyuiop Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close qwertyuiop]

actually yeah sometimes they're so sore that they don't want sex again. honestly I haven't been with a ton of chicks and Iknow I have a lot to learn. as far as oral goes the ladies love my mouth and literally beg me for it. I am no expert... just read some great articles. I'd recommend every man do the same. and I must say every girl I've been with had loved my genuinepersonality and my forward confident way of approaching sex. they complain that all of the men before me were racing to the finish line, trying to just selfishly get theirs, and not passionate at all. so to everyone reading this who has no confidence and is ashamed of their size and thinks their size is the secret to gaining their confidence then I must say that you are like a hamster running on a wheel. your partner can sense your self disapproval from a mile away and the sex is bad before it has even started. these penis size issues run deeper then just that. after you gain some confidence and accept yourself for who you are you'll actually have something to offer your lover. then you should educate yourself on some different techniques and become a skilled lover.but none of your skills will ever make up for a lack of emotional connection with your lover or for your lack ofconfidence. and then after you've arrivedthere you might not think your six inch cock is really all that small.

btw most women can only take five to six inches of my dick and the ones that could could only manage after we'd been sleeping together for a while. and its even more rare that I can go balls feel and Fuck her hard.... andthat my friends is my personal favorite. so enjoy the fact that you can do that... it's amazing. I hope I don't comeacross as the rich guy apologizing for his wealth saying it's not that great. I love my dick and wouldn't trade it. just trying to take away some of the myths rooted more in fantasy then in reality. 8x6 is great... it has benefits and downsides... and the same thing can be said about smaller dicks

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

Thank you, qwertyuiop. Although I`m pretty sure women do not grow in depth, and being widened out is likely to be a myth. I has been with my gf for 2 years, I still hit her cervix if we don`t warm up really good or take it very slow if we don`t. I was with my ex for 5 years, she had even a bigger problem with length, her stomach hurting for a day if I hit her cervix.

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

At last - The truth.

[qwertyuiop Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close qwertyuiop]

I read something saying that women's vaginas will actually elongate... maybe it was just some internet b.s. however they definitely seem to stretch a bit simply because what was painful and difficult at first eventually gets easier and easier. maybe they don't stretch and just get used to it?? I dunno. it makes sense to me that they grow and stretch Hahahaha...

[qwertyuiop Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close qwertyuiop]

ThomasjThomas.... can you go balls deep and hard?