Uh oh! Wife complained about new girth for first tme

[mikeguima Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mikeguima]

My wife doesn't know I've been PE'ing, but since I've started I've gained about .3 in girth and .6 in length. We've always had to go slow due to discomfort, but it was always something we could work with. But a quick romp on lunch break was thwarted because it caused her too much pain. Hmmm...that's a problem, because she would always adapt in the past. She's a small girl, so that's part of the problem I suppose. I doubt now whether I should maintain commitment to growing. I'm about 9.1 x 5.8 now, and want to at least get my girth past 6, but I didn't anticipate this problem. Anyone else have this problem? What do you think might happen, will she adjust?

Hey man don't even hesitate, stop PEing!

Start cementing and hopefully when you finish it your girth will stay at 5,8 (or slightly less).

Fuck, my girlfriend has been complaining that my dick is too long at 7.375 BPEL, and it's limited most positions. Doesn't stop me from working towards 8.5 BPEL. Im doing this for me, me and my girl can work around and adapt to size increases.

Yeah, but you have a girlfriend. He has a wife. That's the women he'll have sex with until the end of his days (if everything in the marriage goes well of course. Hopefully it will).

If she's having trouble adapting to the girth and he keeps pushing it then sex will be painfull in the years to come. Like the MrsL4m said, women only stretch so far. He has to think in the long term, whereas younger guys like us don't. He can't be selfish about PEing, he has to think about his wife too.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Here's a quick update for any of you that read this thread. Basically it worked out better than I expected, because as you can probably tell from my posts, I was super worried I had sabotaged my sex life. But first of all, the primary problem was solved with the use of a better lube (Thanks Mrslooking4more!!) and more foreplay. Still rules out the quickies, but I can handle that.

It also turns out that when the girth was too much on that occasion, it was actually a turn on for her, as she later told me. She was extra horny later that night, and now I know why. That same discussion led me to tell her my girth had increased, but I told her it was due to improved EQ from a test and nitric oxide booster I'm using (Universal N1T and L-Citrulline). I still didn't tell her about the PE exercising.

So that's about it. PE still on hold, because I guess I've reached the optimal size for her. Apparently a little too much is just right, so it all worked out fine. Thanks again to all of you that provided great advice and comments.

Glad to be of help!

[Jakebfs Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jakebfs]

Also buddy, don't worry about wanting to hit the 6" girth mark. You're already 5.8" girth, to anyone who sees that bad boy they aren't going to know its 0.2" thinner than 6" haha. The only ones who know about the slight difference is us on PEGym, and the only judging you'll get for it is other people wishing they were closer to your size haha.

[roccone84 Member Find all posts View Profile Close roccone84]

You won't get more lenght, so if i were you i'll plan to stop PE. Anyway your girth it's not that uncommon and i don't think that's the problem with your wife...

[nanners Member Find all posts View Profile Close nanners]

Maybe just reduce your work out to cement what you've gained.

I think I'm starting to get to that point with my wife. For some reason my girth has really taken off the last 2 months. As much as I want to hit my goal of MSEG 6.5 I'm scared it might start complicating things. Kinda gross to say but my wife says I gave her hemorrhoids last time we had sex because I'm too thick and it put too much pressure in her "region." (But she has had that problem without my help after 2 kids)

I seemed to shoot up from 6.2 or so to 6.35 (maybe more) quickly and it may seem like a minuscule difference but it FEELS like a big difference.

[Funnypop Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Funnypop]

What is the point of doing all of this if it is not pleasurable for our wives / partners? I guess it could be for the ego factor but I would think that at that length that's not an issue in the locker room. Wouldn't be unless MAYBE it's at a PE convention.

I dunno what the question is. Your WIFE (who is the receiver) says it's not pleasurable.

Another point of view: What feels better, stopping PE and fucking her with what you have (if it's not already too much) -- or getting a super-sized cock and jerking it off remembering "the good old days"...?

For your own health? Too feel better about yourself? The scientific journey it takes you on?
.... -.- what's the point... Gimme a break man.

And guy.. Quit while your 'ahead' lol XD your cock is 9 fucking inches and near 6 in girth.. I would Kill for 5.5..
When you look in the mirror, and pivot your hips, do you get the impression that you could be a one man rhythmic drum band?
-.- ...

[Dick Whammy Retired Moderator Member of the month Jan 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Dick Whammy]

And guy.. Quit while your 'ahead' lol XD your cock is 9 fucking inches and near 6 in girth.. I would Kill for 5.5..
When you look in the mirror, and pivot your hips, do you get the impression that you could be a one man rhythmic drum band?
-.- ...

If I had 9 in length, I'd be able to get rid of this ladder I gotta stand on. LOL

All kidding aside,,,,,,go to church and light a candle and pray THANKS to God for giving my other half to you!!

[ripsta Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ripsta]

if you are 9x6 then you are fine. 8 is perfect, i think most women would find 9 to be a lil painful.