Majority of time do you think of your significant other when you masturbate?

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Simple question, do you? Be honest. I didn't put in a "sometimes" option because i wanna know the majority of time. This also goes out for you ladies out there.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Absolutely, she is what sex is too me. I have had her for 15 years and even if my mind thinks of some young hottie thoughts of my wife are always there. She may have gotten a wee bit older and a pinch ( or two ) heavier but she is what I want when I am feeling a bit amorous. I think of her at least 50% of each session and always during 100% of them.

Just got a woodie, she will be home in about 1/2 an hour.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

I with BigO on this one. I can still see in Living Color the very first time my GF...... Now Wife and I got to Woo Hoo.

When I want a Woodie, I just close my eyes and play the mind movie in my head. Still most excellent 18 years later.

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Thats crazy, I'm with a young hottie right now i couldn't ask for more. But i still think about others :s , maybe its that forbidden fruit syndrome.

[NauseousOuroboros Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NauseousOuroboros]

Thats crazy, I'm with a young hottie right now i couldn't ask for more. But i still think about others :s , maybe its that forbidden fruit syndrome.

Iit's really a matter of love. If you're just attracted to the woman, well, plenty of attractive women out there right? If you are bonded to them it is different.

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Iit's really a matter of love. If you're just attracted to the woman, well, plenty of attractive women out there right? If you are bonded to them it is different.

Its not that, i really love this girl and have never been this in love. I just feel that sex and love for me has no connection.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Its not that, i really love this girl and have never been this in love. I just feel that sex and love for me has no connection.

Hey Boosie,

I'm curious, why is there no connection between sex and love for you?

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Hey Boosie,

I'm curious, why is there no connection between sex and love for you?

I don't know to be honest. I feel like sex is a way to satisfy your sexual needs. I can have sex with a girl and feel absolutely nothing.

[mojo40 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mojo40]

i never think about my wife, why would i? i can have sex with her for real.
her best freind every time lol

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Agree with BigO and Trex. She does it for me, and I make sure she knows it. Matter of fact, she'll even send me "suggestive" pictures. She will send them while I'm at work, knowing it drives me crazy. The guys have caught on, and when they catch me smiling at my phone, they poke fun, but they're just jealous.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

My gf is, by far, the sexiest woman on earth to me so she's certainly on my mind when I masturbate. But thoughts of other women creep in from time to time - I just think that's human nature (or guy nature). You see an attractive woman in a video or a photo and the thought may come back to mind when you're masturbating. It happens.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

I don't know to be honest. I feel like sex is a way to satisfy your sexual needs. I can have sex with a girl and feel absolutely nothing.

I can't do that anymore. Way back in my early 20's I did a time ot two, but even then it was hard. I've got to have some sort of connection.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

every woman I've loved is who goes through my mind when I masturbate. Even when I watch pr0n from time to time (not very often).

Sometimes I think of previous women I've loved, most times it's the current. I don't really get sexually attracted to women whom I don't know.

[shineon Member Find all posts View Profile Close shineon]

Hell Yea. My fiancee is everything to me, why would anyone else come into the picture?

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

It's all in the mid-set, my man. Hey, sex feels good and makes both sexes feel wanted (even in temporarily) but making love with a woman that you love is another thing because the intimacy is there, fidelity and commitment with it. I used to think just like you, my man, but when I actually feel in love (and am still married to her) things changed. Sex is great but not as fulfilling when it is just sex. So, my advise for you in order to see that happen, is that she is not only your best friend on this planet but also your best interest as well and likewise for her. Then you will see what I mean.