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[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Hi guys..... Long time no chat!
How is everyone!!!
Well I'll try to make it short....
As most of you know... I'm am a bit of a legend here and I've helped many guys and I appreciate the help I got when I started. Long story short: I had great relationships and 3somes with 2 bisexual girls and our other girls but ended up with a dry spell recently for about 1 year with NO SEX AT ALL. I fell back into the dark w world of porn and making myself ejaculate in 2 minutes for that whole year and now I'm in a relationship with the best girl ever and I am having trouble. I can't pump fans and hard for 1 hour + anymore and I'm having to start and stop too much and I am way too sensitive. I can still make it past 1 hour but the start and stop is not good for my girl and it makes it hard for her to orgasm because I can't hold the feeling of ejaculation when she goes hard and fast on top of me.
I have to tell her, STOP!!! Lol.
Well....... I am determined to do all the PEgym tips and tricks and the ones I have come up with also to make sure I make her orgasm and squ!rt for the full hour. Any new tips and tricks since I've been gone? What's up with that new joga stretch? Does it work?
Good luck and hello again.
I love you all...
-JM

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Welcome Back !

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Welcome Back !

Thanx!!!!

[adios01 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adios01]

So masturbating and ejaculating quickly is one of the main factors contributing to pe then..im sure u will beat it easily again. Uve been there!

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Thanx and yes.... It is what gave me Prem Ejac at the very beginning when I started having sex for the first time ever. It is the absoluta worse things you can do, especially if you do it while sitting on a hard surface/chair.
It puts pressure on the prostrate and trains you the wrong way. NEVER rush masturbation!!!! I suggest a tighter grip, no lube, ballooning at PONR and repeat.....
I am doing the technique I invented right now. I think I named it Mushroom Mayhem Palm Pressure or something like that. I also invented one called the Python Pressue Grip, but that one can only be done with lube, so I will only be doing the MMPP.

[JanTantra Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JanTantra]

Hi James.

Welcome back, I have read a lot of your older posts and it has helped me tremendously, so thank you very much.

Sad that PE came back, but at least you know how to fight it. I am curious to know, how long can you actually thrust hard and fast now without stoping?

- Also if you haven't practiced deep hindi squats, where you rest in the bottom position for like 2-5 minutes, then I think you should start doing it. It has helped me a lot to stretch my pelvic floor and avoid involuntary kegels.

[Shikamaru Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Shikamaru]

Sup James ! Unlike ur girl my girl is mMO lol she has many orgasms and very quick so it doesn't take me having to thrust hard for 20 minutes b4 she gets off , she can get off in less then 5 minutes of me thrusting in her . It's wonderful cuz I can relax after her first orgasm . Now back to ur situation you know how to beat PE you should be fine . I'm disappointed you fell into the trap of porn and the urge to cum quick ! You should of thought of how much progression u made and how it felt to have 3 soles and able to go for an hour ! Come on bro you know how many ppl would kill to have sex for an hour ! Be grateful and don't take it for granted because now ur back at square 1 but you know how to get back . You should be fine I suggest working out legs , tennis ball massage daily , yoga 2-3 times a week and 70-30% RK/K routine and you'll be good .

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Sup James ! Unlike ur girl my girl is mMO lol she has many orgasms and very quick so it doesn't take me having to thrust hard for 20 minutes b4 she gets off , she can get off in less then 5 minutes of me thrusting in her . It's wonderful cuz I can relax after her first orgasm . Now back to ur situation you know how to beat PE you should be fine . I'm disappointed you fell into the trap of porn and the urge to cum quick ! You should of thought of how much progression u made and how it felt to have 3 soles and able to go for an hour ! Come on bro you know how many ppl would kill to have sex for an hour ! Be grateful and don't take it for granted because now ur back at square 1 but you know how to get back . You should be fine I suggest working out legs , tennis ball massage daily , yoga 2-3 times a week and 70-30% RK/K routine and you'll be good .

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[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Hi guys..... Long time no chat!

Welcome back!

How open is your current partner with working with you to get you back into mastery? Using the techniques of the Stop and Start can be a most efficient and pleasant way for both of you to assist your goals

[theGOAT Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close theGOAT]

Success is often determined by following two-three simple things, repeated over time.Why would you ask for some help, since you know know how to beat this and you have already done it.Just dont do porn, RK and most importantly death grip.If it worked for you in the past, just stick to the basics and to it again.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Thanx for your responses!
I have great news!
The day I had sex I did a long edging session with my mushroom mayhem/death grip combo, I did RKs all day and I did some squat stretches. I edged and finally ejaculated like 2 hours before my girl came over.
Long story short, we had sex for over an hour again. This time like before(I think because she has such a tight and small vagina) I had to do the start and stop for the first 30 minutes. In fact.... She loves the start and stop because she has never had it before and for a whole 30min-1hour. It was tantric sex for her and she said that when she finally orgasmed, it was the best orgasm she ever had. So..... The second 30 minutes was absolute bliss. Because we did it for so long, my penis head got less sensitive cuz it was rubbing in her vagina for so long that I was able to do her hard and fast for most of the 30 minutes. At this point she orgasmed 4 times and squirted 2 times. She had never orgasmed 4 times in a row and we both quickly found out she is mulit-orgasmic!!!
Now that I haven't watched porn and masturbated quick it to it and I'm doing the exercises again, I think we are gonna continue having great and even better sex in the future. It feels so good finding the dream girl/love of your life and satisfying her completely.
I really hope I keep getting better.
Good luck everyone.....
Can someone please tell me about the tennis ball thing?
And to answer the guys question why I am asking questions if I know how to cure myself, I asked if there are new tips and tricks that have come up since I was gone.
I think I was gone for 3 years or so. I hope I'm doing the squat stretch right. I think I am. I like the fact that I do RKs while I do the stretch. Feels good.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

A few more things....
I did have to stop and start a few times on the last 30 minutes when I got really carried away. I didn't pump fast and hard the whole time. Also.... She orgasmed and squirted mostly because I started to talk really dirty to her and also telling her how beautiful and hot she was and I was spanking her ass and slapping and pinching her nipples. She was on-top of me the WHOLE time, btw. Like most girls, that's the best way for her to orgasm. I thing her orgasms and squirting is from G-spot and viginal wall stimulation, not so much clitoral. Btw.... I forgot that at the end I also did her missionary then sideways, then I did the pile driver a bit and finally ejaculated during a bit of doggy.
I thought she was I top the whole time but that was the day before.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

What really gets her is when I tell her this: "are you gonna squirt all over my *ock? Come on baby, I want you to squirt all over my *ock and balls. I wanna feel your juice running down my legs."
That gets her and most girls orgasming and squirting right away. Lol.

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Oh and one last thing!!!! I used a *ock ring the whole time because I have a problem of my right testicle rising up into my body and making the ejaculation process start too soon. The ring goes on the top of my shaft at the base and the bottom wraps around the back of my testicles. So I put the whole thing around ALL of my junk.
That prevents the testicle from rising up AND makes my penis less sensitive WHILE making it a lot bigger and harder. I suggest it to people for sure. She loves it and yes... She is very supportive in and out of the bedroom.
She's a kind person.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

If anybody wants to know how I do my mushroom mayhem open palm desensitizing exercise, just let me know.