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[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

WTF? OMG. Jeez

I can already tell the difference but need to wait a week

No hot baths, no sex, no heavy lifting

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Doesnt feel different to me but im not a man.

Had laser vaginal tightening yesterday.... hurt alot

That's pretty cool. Wow. Good for you!

[Tibo87 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Tibo87]

How long should a masturbation session last?

Hi Sancezz, thank you for your question.

Well at least 20 minutes everyday would be ideal. The more you practice, the more control you will have.

Also, once a week, you can practice doing a one hour session, it is quiet a powerful experience, especially when you learn how to have multiple orgasms.

[Tibo87 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Tibo87]

Doesnt feel different to me but im not a man.

Had laser vaginal tightening yesterday.... hurt alot

Tara, can you tell us why you have done that?
Or you can do it via PM if you feel more comfortable.

I am curious as i is the first time I come across a woman whose done it (I knew about the process but it was kind of the unicorn...).

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I guess really the internet is to blame... i read a few things whereupon men said sex after a women's had a baby is like throwing a hot dog in an ally.... and the seed of doubt was planted.

Of course I'll never know what sex feels like for a man and a man is never going to be mean about you when they had sex with you so the worry grew.

Then theres things like balloning or tenting so now i have to worry about the dome of it rather than just the tightness of the entrance.

So i got it done yesterday. I took painkillers beforehand and it still hurt. Was really hot at times too.

Was hard getting the wand in and treatment took 90 minutes.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

I can say that it sucked after my wife had four kids. That's actually what started my PE journey. She refused to do kegels so I decided to make myself thicker. I have been with several women that had kids and did kegels and one of them had the tightest pussy I've ever known and she could squeeze the hell out of my dick. And she had two kids, one was born recently. In fact it was really hard to fit in.

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I guess really the internet is to blame... i read a few things whereupon men said sex after a women's had a baby is like throwing a hot dog in an ally.... and the seed of doubt was planted.

Of course I'll never know what sex feels like for a man and a man is never going to be mean about you when they had sex with you so the worry grew.

Then theres things like balloning or tenting so now i have to worry about the dome of it rather than just the tightness of the entrance.

So i got it done yesterday. I took painkillers beforehand and it still hurt. Was really hot at times too.

Was hard getting the wand in and treatment took 90 minutes.

Thank you for opening up.

Did you ever felt that a man was unsatisfied because of tightness?

This is done now, and I hope that you will be happy with it. The pain will pass, and I am sure that you will be doing exercises and meet men that will satisfy you fully.

[Tibo87 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Tibo87]

I have been with several women that had kids and did kegels and one of them had the tightest pussy I've ever known and she could squeeze the hell out of my dick.

I don't know if you knew it, but ''sexual experts'' from the tantric and the taoist era were trained to satisfy a man only using the power of their PC muscles, and doing squeeze and release.
This women were actually ''ranked'' in society as high as nobles.

I asked today to my sex mentor and my partner (who have some experience) and they both told me that it totally depends on each woman and each of their partner.

Tara123, as I have been with young women and old women, my personal experience is that sex is better with older women because they have more knowledge of their bodies. I never had problems with partners because they have had babies.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I havent been with many men considering my age.

Ive nearly always had issues with men entering me. Which isnt a good thing.

But it is what im use too.

[closed291 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Member of the Month June 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed291]

How long should a masturbation session last?

To piggy back on this question...How do you keep oneself from getting...bored?

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I guess really the internet is to blame... i read a few things whereupon men said sex after a women's had a baby is like throwing a hot dog in an ally.... and the seed of doubt was planted.

Of course I'll never know what sex feels like for a man and a man is never going to be mean about you when they had sex with you so the worry grew.

Then theres things like balloning or tenting so now i have to worry about the dome of it rather than just the tightness of the entrance.

So i got it done yesterday. I took painkillers beforehand and it still hurt. Was really hot at times too.

Was hard getting the wand in and treatment took 90 minutes.

From an online article from Glamour about vaginal tightening, I read this:

"Barshop says the process isn't painful—patients only feel a little pressure—and the procedure is over in less than 10 minutes."

Did you go to a reputable doctor or practitioner for this process? How much research did you do before doing this?

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Yeah i went to a professional women's health clinic.

Maybe I'm not good with pain?

The session lasted 90 mins, of course the doctor explained everything, cleaned the area, the wand in front of me then did superficial tightening, followed by muscular tightening.

Talked about aftercare, put a viral of something inside me and give one to take home.

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I should say ive been looking into this off and on for about 18 months. The place i went to has been on This Morning etc

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I guess really the internet is to blame.

I know right? We are all here trying to improve ourselves, and the impetus often is something we read on the web.

So i got it done yesterday. I took painkillers beforehand and it still hurt. Was really hot at times too.

Was hard getting the wand in and treatment took 90 minutes.

Wow. Tara. Some man is very lucky to be with you. Between your sex drive, your figure, and other fantastic information you have shared here....and the lengths you go to make it pleasurable for him.... you seem just unreal.

That said, please be safe.

To answer your question, yes, sex after children was a little different. I can cum whenever I want so my concern was how it felt for her. I just adjusted technique a little, nothing major. I found that if I gently licked and fingered (with only one finger) for while, she tightened a little, so when I went I dipped in my cock, it felt huge to her, especially in contrast to the finger. I've been using that back and forth contrast every since. Dragging it out back and forth until she's begging me to finish her.

[Tibo87 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Tibo87]

To piggy back on this question...How do you keep oneself from getting...bored?

Hi Ujjayi,

Thank you for your question.

If you change your intention from ''masturbation'' to ''self-pleasure'', you won't get bored anymore.

If you dedicate 20 minutes to yourself and your pleasure, you would be happy to do so!

You can change the type and the speed of strokes, the positions you are in, you can make noise, etc

Not only do you train yourself to last longer and to have more control, but you also learn how to give yourself more pleasure and which part of your body turn you on.