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[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Keep up the good fight my friend. I see you are training a lot of physical items of which the want of a loose/neutral pelvic floor is a goal. But also train on the mental side of things. If this makes any sense, you are so focused on Pre-E that it is contributing to your Pre-E. I have a textured ceiling throughout my house, when I feel PONR approaching, I can stare at the textured ceiling and all the different shapes within it and refocus myself away from my dick and on to something else. The old joke is to think of Baseball or your Ganny naked to distract, but it is along the same lines. Just something that takes your brain away from thinking about Pre-E long enough for you to practice some of the physical things you are trying. It sounds like you have been presented with a brick wall to smash through, try the mental side and maybe you can go around the wall instead of head strong directly into it. Worth a try.

[rad5gbbr Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rad5gbbr]

I definitely notice I don’t really feel any pleasure unless turned on and my pelvic floor clenchin. This is subconscious like the two are together so I guess I need to just try to actually feel bad physical pleasure. My plan changes weekly it feel so although I’m constantly working on this for years I’ve seen no results. Doing the wrong thing for a long period of time would be a waste though. It’s tough...

[Jimmy_quick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jimmy_quick]

I definitely notice I don’t really feel any pleasure unless turned on and my pelvic floor clenchin. This is subconscious like the two are together so I guess I need to just try to actually feel bad physical pleasure. My plan changes weekly it feel so although I’m constantly working on this for years I’ve seen no results. Doing the wrong thing for a long period of time would be a waste though. It’s tough...

I am in the same boat as you. We need to mentally change as well. Only then we will see the physical workouts paying off.
I have noticed lately I have success when I manage to get my attention away from my genitals and the pleasure down there. For example when in missionary instead of concentrating in the feeling try to put your attention on you kissing her, talking dirty, moaning, gently biting her nipples and such things. Like just forget you have a penis. Of course for me at least to get there I need about 5-10 min start/stop, pull out etc. in order to sustain the initial urge to cum which hits me just after the first penetration.

[rad5gbbr Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rad5gbbr]

Just felt like I actually had good control edging. Very strange I'll have that happen once every couple months maybe and rack my brain thinking of all the things I did today that could have had an effect. Encouraging no doubt but I hesitant to believe its anything but a fluke for now.