Can handle an 1 hour blowjob, but cant handle 30 seconds of penetration.

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I'm uncut, but my frenulum is ok. I have no problems with my foreskin, at all. My problem is psycological. When I TOUCH a vagina my pc muscles start kegeling like there's no tomorrow, and I gotta fight it. ><

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Well, I discovered some thing. While masturbating alone, as arousal was growing, I started kegeling very hard for 5-10secs, and this made my penis go soft. Like if I had stopped the blood circulation on my penis. If I reverse kegel, it does the opposite. It makes my dick go WAY bigger (i think RKs fills the penis with blood), the veins really jump out the penis body.

So I could masturbate for 20 minutes without a problem, without having to really stop masturbating.

Then I tried this with porn. I could hold myself for 3 minutes :|.

Any thoughts?

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As I said about pe zens thread it helps, but you must continue to train.

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Listen to Pegasus. He REALLY knows this stuff.

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1. Get off anti depressants ,

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i also suffer with pe when i penetrate my partner by standing beside hey i can last longer and can ejaculate on my command but i lay on top of her i ejaculate while inserting in her so i tried kegels but it make my pe more worse i instantly ejaculates when she gives me blow job but then i tried reverse kegel and now i can hold for as long as i want because by kegeling i make my pc/bc musle what ever the name is so much stretched that with little touch of penis i ejaculate but by doing reverse kegels i make my pc/bc muscles relaxed and away from prostrate so during sex when i feel that my musles are getting tense i just stop and do reverse kegel it relaxes my musle and then i can start again i can do this for 5 times during sex

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the best solution for pe is reverse kegels i do reverse kegels 4 times a day each session of 10 5 of back reverse kegel and 5 of front reverse kegel when i do front reverse kegel my cock fills with so much blood that it feels like numbness and my erection becomes better

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almost 3 weeks, no improvements at all.

What has most disappointed me... one day, it was just me and my girl in a bedroom. We were in a house party, I was drunk. I mean.. I was REALLY drunk. SEVERELY drunk. I could receive a roundhouse kick in my face and I wouldn't feel it.

Then we started to kiss, and bla bla bla, and she started suckin my cock, I could barely feel it. great situation to be good in bed. As alcohol depresses the central nervous system, and slows down the sinapses, and all that shit. And man, I repeat, I haven't got too much alcohol in my blood. There was just too much blood in my alcohol. lol

"great my dear, lets go"

I lasted 30 seconds.

I give up, but I wont take prozac anymore. I'll take something stronger, like paroxetine or clomiphramine

jesus... why is this happening to me..

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I was honestly reluctant to write because my words in this topic will probably fall on deaf ears. But you may never know.

First of all tell your self that you have premature ejaculation problmes.

Second, understand that the drugs will NEVER help you, in time it won't be even a temporary fix.

Now why don't you just try to put your penis in her vagina and let it there for some time don't move it, then just make love, kiss, cuddle what ever, hugh her and try to make your pulse in synch to hers. Now from time to time just thurst once, I am pretty sure you will remain stone hard during the duration. Let her caress you all over your body with her hands and legs and lips, concentrate on her touch, try to accept her as the part of your body rather than a pussy of a foreign object, concentrate on your touch to her body on the taste on your lips when you kiss her body. If she loves you she will have patience to go trough it, and well most women love sensuality. Try not to think about anything just be there and feel, thrust from time to time and make it last long (20-30 minutes) do this alomst every time with her (since your sex in going to be short anyway :P in the beginning) and you will soon see the results. But only if you honestly try and quit the whining.

The "fucking motion" makes you go because your pevlic floor muscles it to thight and you are not adept enough to make it loose, you probably think you are since you have TRIED EVERYTHING.

Your problem is more on the mental side, it can be clearly seen by the way you write. Be it some childhood trauma or simple anxiety and despair, what you need to do is to get aqueinted with your body and your gf body as well.