Can I desensitize my penis head naturally?

[Hound Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hound]

I did this through massive amounts of masturbation and then it blew up in my face because I can have sex for days without out cuming. Literally days or weeks. So now I am reversing that issue but it seems easier to reverse IMO. Just be careful to not over do it or you will end up only having sex for her.

[bigbookofpenis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbookofpenis]

I did this through massive amounts of masturbation and then it blew up in my face because I can have sex for days without out cuming. Literally days or weeks. So now I am reversing that issue but it seems easier to reverse IMO. Just be careful to not over do it or you will end up only having sex for her.

you mean that massive amount of masturbation desentisized you semi-permanently ? i dont think that would work for me in my teens and 20's i was mastrubating every day twice a day to hardcore PORN and i still have the same sensitivity and level of PE my dick just cant be tired i think masturbation, edging, balooning do desentisize glans a bit but not enough to have any measurable influence...

death grip (whatever the proper technique, cause i dont know exactly) and the towel rub (described in this thread in detail) on the other hand are so intensive (you get chafing, unpleasant ticklling) that they might make some difference over time - lets say 3 minutes daily, 3x a week, 3 month...

circumcised guys do the chafing every day and its said that their glans looses some sensitivity or that it even grows an invisible microscopic callus layer on top to protect the glans... there might also be some brain adaptations in circumcised males over months and years - the brain rises the pain threshold of penis nerve signal in response to permanent chafing and discomfort... the fact that millions of circumcised guys enjoy sex all over the world is a sign that desentization of glans using cloth rubbing shouldnt be anything LETHAL to sex performance...

that said iam still a bit hesitant... i guess the warnings against desentization spread around PEGym are too ingrained in me... i will first "demo" desentization with Promescent spray and after that experience i will decide...

glans desentization is a new approach and we are lab monkeys...

[bigbookofpenis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbookofpenis]

iam still weighing the pros and cons of glans desentization... what if there is a way to keep all the pleasure and be able to control it too... lol its really a devils pact... iam looking forward to "demo" with Promescent... in the meantime its back to good old "pelvic muscles balance/edging/relaxation"... keep this thread alive everybody... ill get back when i demo the Promescent desentization spray... LOL it looks like its US sold only so it may take me some time to get hold of it...

[sameel Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sameel]

Tooth ach gels will also work. See here.
Some men use clove oil for the same purpose.
Better approach is to calm down the overactive nervous system through GABA rich foods, exercises, relaxation etc., rather than numbing the dick.

[Reallyshortblackguy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Reallyshortblackguy]

Hiyah fellows, i noticed a bit of you mentioned something about loss of eq. How bad is it???? like cant get hard at all or maybe it takes longer to get a firm erection??

[bigbookofpenis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbookofpenis]

here is some food for thought on "glans desentization" that i digged up...

- some guy in UK developed a simple plastic ring worth 15 GBP that you wore on your penis and it desentisizes your glans and improves stamina... men only have to use it once or twice a year to maintain de-sentization... unfortunatelly its not manufactured... but an intereresting concept in favor of glans desentization Simple plastic ring could help the seven million men in Britain who suffer from premature ejaculation

- circumcised men have better IELT (intravaginal ejaculatory latency time) than uncircumcised, another prove of glans desentization Effects of Adult Male Circumcision on Premature Ejaculation: Results from a Prospective Study in China

- another study about glans sensitivity between circumcised and un-circumcised guys... as expected circumcised guys have much lower sensitivity in their penises Fine-touch pressure thresholds in the adult penis

- this one is rather depressing - there is a gel called CIRCUMserum that is supposed to re-sentisize males who have been circumcised... OH YEAH... it claims that most circumcised man have lost significant portion of pleasure out of sex and this cream re-establishes glans sensitivity by softening the callus that has built up on the glans... https://www.circumserum.com/

[bigbookofpenis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbookofpenis]

the CIRCUMserum gel is an interesting product because it has some research behind it that may be used to figure out more about desentization... you see, the circumcised guys voluntarily rub their glans over their underware cloth so they are performing life-long desentization similar to "towel rub" technique described in this thread...

here is a link comparing sensitivity in circumcised and uncircumcised males described by CIRCUMserum web, its called Science behind CIRCUMserum, but it could be called Science behind "towel rub" technique, aka cloth desentization...

https://www.circumserum.com/circumse...d-circumserum/

[elijohnson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close elijohnson]

Looking at how that first one works (the desensitising by overstimulation plastic cup thing) it explains something I've always observed but never been able to figure out:

If my ladypal is brilliant enough to incorporate oral into foreplay I've found I last much longer when it comes to sex. Particularly if they're awesome at it. It seems counter-intuitive, like you have a finite amount of stimulation you can feel before popping your cork, and any pre-game is going to cut into your vagina time, but no.

Makes sense to me anyway, and now it does I look forward to explaining it to everyone's (*my) benefit

And of course, everyone feel free to try that out, and save yourself the cost of a no doubt overpriced plastic doodad.

[elijohnson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close elijohnson]

Oh and by the way: is this forum really advocating intentional desensitisation as a way of combating pre-e? Good grief. Probably pissing in the wind here but no-one do that please. The aim is to enjoy sex, not destroy it simply to last longer so you feel like a big-shot. I'm sure there are ways to last longer without ruining the feeling.

[bigbookofpenis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbookofpenis]

Oh and by the way: is this forum really advocating intentional desensitisation as a way of combating pre-e? Good grief. Probably pissing in the wind here but no-one do that please. The aim is to enjoy sex, not destroy it simply to last longer so you feel like a big-shot. I'm sure there are ways to last longer without ruining the feeling.

this "forum" and this "thread" are two distinct things... yes this thread is talking about desentization of glans...

oh and by the way maybe you could tell us how long you last with a woman and if you ever suffered from PE... if you did suffer, how did your time improve (before and after) and what were the techniques you used...

if you cant answer those than i must take it as a "well ment advice" from a man who never suffered PE so he doesnt know what he is talking about at all...

[adios01 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adios01]

That first study was done in 2004...is that the same as coxk ring

[bigbookofpenis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbookofpenis]

nope this ring suposedly goes around your head/glans...

it was never manufactured... dead end... i found one more mention of it here:

The Sage Group Announces ULYSSES - A Novel Treatment for Premature Ejaculation... -- re> NEW YORK, May 5 /PRNewswire/ --

but the resume of this article is that it was suposed to be called ULYSSES ring and it never got into production phase...

the inventor Dr. Andy Zamar later developed Prolong, another PE treatment device, this time its a vibrating egg that you press against your frenulum... i tried to google its homepage but strangely it doesnt appear on google anymore, so it may have been discontinued too...

its really weird, almost like some conspiracy against any invention by this guy...

[adios01 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adios01]

Damn it!!
Well there you go man for guys like us who have overly sensitive areas thats causin pe , continous stimulation is the key. But im just curious of how much stimulation that device gives as u need to only use it once or twice a year to maintain ur time in bed..

[adios01 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adios01]

Well i researched up a bit. It doesnt say much about the device other than the fact that it continuously vibrates and gives stimulation. Does this mean you can just get a vibrator and do it too? Thats what it seems like to me

[bigbookofpenis Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigbookofpenis]

actually i have the PROLONG device its basically a vibrator that is shaped so it can be pressed on frenulum (penis underside) thats all... it has a tiny motor in it powered by small battery...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tzbwinU8UwY

with the PROLONG you are simply doing ballooning only on the frenulum using a vibrator...

funny that its impossible to buy the PROLONG now... i bought it few years back but never really used it... i may give it a try again...

the ULYSSES ring was probably working on similar principle but slightly different mode of action - passive, no battery, no movement - but its hard to get any details about the ring...