The Death Grip

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

@ ThreeOne:
Thank you for your post.... and yes.... If you scroll up you will see that I said that if people wanna experiment with this that they shouldn't overdo it. Just enough to make a positive change. As for the lube... it may or may not have something to do with it. It might just be the grip of death since wet masturbation woth lube helps prem ejac by mimicking a wet vagina. We'll see....
I'm excited for all of us.

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How are you going with lightening your grip Threeone?

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Umm jm this was 30 years ago and I didn't know then what I know now.
I did train myself with lighter masturbation and increased kegels particularly within sex. Also decrease ejaculation frequency prior to sex so that I caould get off easier and a lot of vigor and control within sex.

I can't answer for JM but I have a long history of pre e coaching despite never having it myself.

I had this issue Threeone .

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Are you saying it was a good thing? Are you saying that it is more intense for you, so getting used to that intensity is better training? That is actually what I am trying to prove. Sorry, I didn't quite understand the meaning of your post.

Doing the death grip is ok when doing it in moderation. Reason I said that it's ok cuz it will slowly desensitize your Dick but at the same time it can damage it as well and probably make it limp. So what I meant was that it can be a pro to doing this to delay ejaculation but a con that it can possibly make damage as well. So I would try this not so often

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Doing the death grip is ok when doing it in moderation. Reason I said that it's ok cuz it will slowly desensitize your Dick but at the same time it can damage it as well and probably make it limp. So what I meant was that it can be a pro to doing this to delay ejaculation but a con that it can possibly make damage as well. So I would try this not so often

Yes... that's why I posted early-on that people should not overdo it and keep up regular kegels and even penis enlarging exercises to keep good erections and blood circulation. Another reason why it might be good to do the death grip with lube. It might help avoid major skin/nerve/desensitation.

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A soft to moderate grip would work just fine, its the duration of the masturbation that develops the stamina.

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Interesting topic , let me add my piece.

My first month on this forum I was doing penis growth and premature ejaculation cure at the same time.
I learned about the "jelq" technique and during my first month of arousal training I would jelq at the end.

So I wasnt masturbating but the "jelqing" resembled the tighter grip or masturbation been discussed here.
Anyways the results.

On nights that I woud jelq , my lasting time during sex the next day was as long as I wanted or pass the 20mins mark.
Now why did I stop doing it ? I already have a large package and my girlfriend was complaining about discomfort during sex.

Thanx TruuCamp.... that is great info and yet more proof about the results of a tighter grip. I too believe that the jelqing and other penis exercises of penis enlarging exercises, which mostly use tight grips, are one of the reasons I got over prem ejac.
PLEASE SCROLL UP AND READ ALL PAGES AND POSTS ON THIS THREAD BEFORE YOU GIVE YOUR OPINION GUYS.... YOU MIGHT HAVE MISSED SOMETHING.

Thanx.

[lelengzai Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lelengzai]

i want to ask why i can't death grip mastabei without lube?
i mean when i grip my penis very tight, it's impossible to move without lube !
is it because i cut my foreskin when i'm 13 ?

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i want to ask why i can't death grip mastabei without lube?
i mean when i grip my penis very tight, it's impossible to move without lube !
is it because i cut my foreskin when i'm 13 ?

I am cut too. I assume guys just have their hand move WITH the skin like people do with dry jelqing. It's possible even if you are cut. I can do it. There are ways to do a tight grip and mainly rub/focus on the top part of the shaft and penis head, but I suggest to do it WITH lube instead as it might not just be about using lubr or not. It could just be that you are using a tight grip, since using lube mimics a vagina better than dry masuirbation.

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Btw.... if you scroll up you will see how jelqing(a tight grip) has helped a person here last longer te next day when he has sex. He has made that connection because it happens everytime.
I too believe penis exercises lile jelqing ans stretching have helped me fight prem ejac because of the tight grips and stimulation/rubbing. Infact, I was doing them as I was starting to last longer in bed. I think they had something to do with my success. They also help with circulation, good erections, erection size and having a nice flaccid hang. I definitely recommend them.

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Interesting topic , let me add my piece.

My first month on this forum I was doing penis growth and premature ejaculation cure at the same time.
I learned about the "jelq" technique and during my first month of arousal training I would jelq at the end.

So I wasnt masturbating but the "jelqing" resembled the tighter grip or masturbation been discussed here.
Anyways the results.

On nights that I woud jelq , my lasting time during sex the next day was as long as I wanted or pass the 20mins mark.
Now why did I stop doing it ? I already have a large package and my girlfriend was complaining about discomfort during sex.

Camp,

How many times a week/duration did you jelq? Was it 5min, 10, etc. I used to Jelq awhile back for a few times but i wasn't consistent because I wasn't getting erection normally everyday and it was kinda scary. After a few days I started getting erections again even tho I was doing jelqs every other day for about 5mins.

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There's a new guy that just mentioned that he got prem ejac from a light grip and NO lube, even while having a GF. He said that using lube and a tighter grip has helped him add minutes.

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Great Death Grip session lastnight. 12 straight minutes of hard long stroke thrusting on my knees, simulating doggy-style. Baby oil is awesome. Might start not ejaculating at the end to treat it like a balloon session and to have a nice hang afterwards.

[KingJR Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close KingJR]

I think I'll get in on this experiment as well. As it's one aspect that I haven't tested either.

[JamesMonroe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JamesMonroe]

Looks promising since most people I talk to with Delayed Ejaculation say they always used a right grip and people with Premature Ejaculation used a light grip, including myself. Use of lube or not is another issue worth testing/figuring out. I'm doing it with lube just incase beacuse I read that it's better for Prem Ejac.