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Attention all wise men of this forum...I need your opinions!
I am the same guy who started this thread here in the url https://www.pegym.com/forums/prematu...-may-help.html
Well, I know for a fact that I am facing a deep psychological problem concerning my pre-e. Like I said in my previous thread, one day when I got home from work, I was feeling extra good, really confident about myself, and I was stroking myself in the shower really hard and fast and was able to last 5 minutes! It may not seem much for you, but it was for me, and when my PONR was coming on, I was actually able to ignore and get past that need to cum and kept going at it! I will continue to try and increase my overall confidence levels, and also defeat any religious guilt my sub-conscious may be feeling. I'm not sure if I may need a therapist.
Well the reason for this thread is the following...
I noticed that many guys on here reporting their success with multiple male orgasms say that when they do this successfully, they stay hard, with really no refractory period. What is my problem? I am also able to do a dry orgasm by kegling through my orgasm, BUT, here's the catch. Afterwards, I do have a refractory period, and although it may not be as strong as the full on out orgasm from complete ejaculation, I still go a little limp.
The other guys say when they do this, they do a very strong kegel during their orgasm, and afterwards they stay hard, but in my case, I do not stay hard! And recently, it's been harder now to get it back up. Also, when I don't do this type of orgasm as hard, like I do a soft kegel and don't go too far into the PONR, half the times I stay hard, and half the times I go a little limp. When I do stay hard, the time for the next PONR to come varies, anywhere from 30 sec to 3 minutes.
Also, I am able to ejaculate without orgasm, I am able to do it either by reverse kegeling, or by stay very relaxed and just letting my sperm come out with out orgasm and not giving into the PONR. BUT, after either of these two methods, I stay very horny and that same PONR does not go away. If I were to keep going, I would cum in less than 10 seconds.
I read that during orgasm/ejaculation, your body releases "prolactin", the compound that makes your body enter the refractory period after orgasm. Now this is where I'm confused. If this were true for when a man orgasms, how come these other guys on here report to keep their erection after having a strong dry orgasm and continue their multiple orgasm session, but I am not able to stay completely hard like they do. And the idea of the body releasing prolactin because of ejaculation would not make sense because, as in my case, when I ejaculate without orgasm, I stay very hard (and my need to cum is still strongly there, reaching PONR again in less than 10 sec, just to let you guys know and tell me of your opinions on that). But also the idea of prolactin releasing because of orgasm would not make sense either because of all these other guys staying hard after the kegelorgasm/dry-orgasm. So I'm confused as fuck.
So in my case, orgasm is what makes me get off and not ejaculation. I don't know man, my pre-e really is of psychological cause, and is deeply rooted within my sub-conscious. If any of your have any opinions of my case, please don't hesitate to tell me. I would really appreciate it. I would like to deal with this problem from all possible angles and terminate my pre-e for good.
Just to let those of you who didn't read my other post know, I am 20 years old. Also, maybe some other valuable information about me, I am 5' 9" tall, and I rarely watch porn anymore. I used to watch a bunch of porn as a kid and teen lol. But since I turned 19, I rarely watch it, or actually never at all it seems now, it's like I grew out of it. But anyway, all your opinions of what I wrote is greatly appreciated! I know that this forum is based more on the physical and of physical techniques to overcome pre-e, so I am sorry if this isn't the right place for this.
Well, I know for a fact that I am facing a deep psychological problem concerning my pre-e. Like I said in my previous thread, one day when I got home from work, I was feeling extra good, really confident about myself, and I was stroking myself in the shower really hard and fast and was able to last 5 minutes! It may not seem much for you, but it was for me, and when my PONR was coming on, I was actually able to ignore and get past that need to cum and kept going at it! I will continue to try and increase my overall confidence levels, and also defeat any religious guilt my sub-conscious may be feeling. I'm not sure if I may need a therapist.
Well the reason for this thread is the following...
I noticed that many guys on here reporting their success with multiple male orgasms say that when they do this successfully, they stay hard, with really no refractory period. What is my problem? I am also able to do a dry orgasm by kegling through my orgasm, BUT, here's the catch. Afterwards, I do have a refractory period, and although it may not be as strong as the full on out orgasm from complete ejaculation, I still go a little limp.
The other guys say when they do this, they do a very strong kegel during their orgasm, and afterwards they stay hard, but in my case, I do not stay hard! And recently, it's been harder now to get it back up. Also, when I don't do this type of orgasm as hard, like I do a soft kegel and don't go too far into the PONR, half the times I stay hard, and half the times I go a little limp. When I do stay hard, the time for the next PONR to come varies, anywhere from 30 sec to 3 minutes.
Also, I am able to ejaculate without orgasm, I am able to do it either by reverse kegeling, or by stay very relaxed and just letting my sperm come out with out orgasm and not giving into the PONR. BUT, after either of these two methods, I stay very horny and that same PONR does not go away. If I were to keep going, I would cum in less than 10 seconds.
I read that during orgasm/ejaculation, your body releases "prolactin", the compound that makes your body enter the refractory period after orgasm. Now this is where I'm confused. If this were true for when a man orgasms, how come these other guys on here report to keep their erection after having a strong dry orgasm and continue their multiple orgasm session, but I am not able to stay completely hard like they do. And the idea of the body releasing prolactin because of ejaculation would not make sense because, as in my case, when I ejaculate without orgasm, I stay very hard (and my need to cum is still strongly there, reaching PONR again in less than 10 sec, just to let you guys know and tell me of your opinions on that). But also the idea of prolactin releasing because of orgasm would not make sense either because of all these other guys staying hard after the kegelorgasm/dry-orgasm. So I'm confused as fuck.
So in my case, orgasm is what makes me get off and not ejaculation. I don't know man, my pre-e really is of psychological cause, and is deeply rooted within my sub-conscious. If any of your have any opinions of my case, please don't hesitate to tell me. I would really appreciate it. I would like to deal with this problem from all possible angles and terminate my pre-e for good.
Just to let those of you who didn't read my other post know, I am 20 years old. Also, maybe some other valuable information about me, I am 5' 9" tall, and I rarely watch porn anymore. I used to watch a bunch of porn as a kid and teen lol. But since I turned 19, I rarely watch it, or actually never at all it seems now, it's like I grew out of it. But anyway, all your opinions of what I wrote is greatly appreciated! I know that this forum is based more on the physical and of physical techniques to overcome pre-e, so I am sorry if this isn't the right place for this.
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