Alright guys, I'm on board. Can't remember the last time I did it (either two or three days ago), so we'll say my "anniversary" is November 28th. Two days and going strong ... keeping my mind off things by playing chess, listening to tunes, catching up on some good TV shows I've missed. What's everyone else doing to keep their minds pure?
25 year old guy here. 11 days 20 hours and 23 minutes of being porn and fap free. Doing no fap/no porn with JP 90. Going to try to get rid of both fapping and porn. Spend my time on actual sex. After 90 days if I feel like I have the EQ and self control I want, I'll ease in fapping but not porn. Never porn. Fuck porn. Active on Reddit No Fap page and No Fap forum. If you're looking for an accountability partner PM me. I have a few and it's helped a lot.
Looking for text accountability partners - on PEGym, to keep ourselves motivated! PM me if you're interested. All welcome.
Started 11/22/18 - JP 90 days + no porn and no masturbation (also active on the no fap forums)
25 year old guy here. 11 days 20 hours and 23 minutes of being porn and fap free. Doing no fap/no porn with JP 90. Going to try to get rid of both fapping and porn. Spend my time on actual sex. After 90 days if I feel like I have the EQ and self control I want, I'll ease in fapping but not porn. Never porn. Fuck porn. Active on Reddit No Fap page and No Fap forum. If you're looking for an accountability partner PM me. I have a few and it's helped a lot.
Thanks for the offer but once I get started i'm pretty good at controlling myself. I usually relapse when I get lonely or bored but I know my triggers and how to counter it.
Just over a month now without porn. I still have those moments (and will do for a good while, I bet) where I do want to relieve myself watching one of the few girls I actually like, but I know how that'll turn out... 'Cause I haven't watched porn for some time, I'll get a raging hard on, but after a few minutes I'll be over it--kind of like how it is every time I watch porn--and my erection will suffer, but I'll continue anyway, watching a girl I find too beautiful to be doing this stuff, get frustrated that I can't get the job done viewing this lovely girl because I don't like seeing beautiful girls do porn, find someone else to finish to, continue with having a meh erection because I can't find another girl to watch, then, desperation escalating, settle on some slutty thing that I'd run from in real life, ending with not a happy ending, but a terrible one, asking myself, "Why do you keep doing this when you don't even like porn?"
To have not done that in over a month feels wonderful. I'm slowly escaping from that horrible cycle, and I have no plans to ever return. Keep walking forward and don't look back.
I hope you gentlemen are doing great and are well on your way to curb stomping your problems with porn. I know I am, and I'll still very excited to be cleansed of it.
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