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@Hellagoody - I am picking up what you are putting down. I am mostly worried that I just don't find my wife attractive any more. She has a very pretty face and is helpful, kind, and supportive - the best possible wife. But here is the issue: she has gained a lot of weight over the last several years. Not quite land whale quantity but she has a gut and a couple of rolls. Now, I grew up thinking fat is a grim thing - a sign of serious lack of discipline. And I personally find it grotesque. I get it on, but if I see the fat, I start thinking about it, and then the erection just dumps, and then I feel guilty for not being into her body, and then it is really over. I have brought up her weight a few times, but the thought of crushing her feelings that hard with an in your face confrontation about the issue is hard. And really, what if the problem is actually me and I am just using her weight as an excuse? So I am going to eliminate my health as an issue before I go down that path. Shit, I'd rather talk to a doctor about ED (and that was hard and I've done some damn tough things) than hack on her about weight causing my lack of lust. So I am trying everything else first. As far as the size goes I am not worried about that - it is the erection quality I am hoping to address. And yeah, I feel seriously off about the porn and the masturbation. I am hoping the cold turkey approach makes a difference to the real sex.

Okay. I get it now. I totally have seen that movie before, in so many relationships. Keep fighting the good fight.
And please update me on your experience with that natural supplement from time to time. I've had tremendous results with Triple MiracleZen Extreme, sold at 7-11. It has done everything it claims in length, girth, stamina and rock hard boners. It lasted 6 days for me, and it probably would've lasted the claimed 7 days had I not been worn out... lol.
Cheers