I'm A Woman, Ask Me Anything!

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

That brings up a good question for me. You said you are through "the change". I would like to know more about what a woman goes through and what I might expect. My wife is 55 and isn't close yet according to her gynecologist. Someday it will come and I'm interested about the many things a woman will be going through and how things may or may not of have changed afterwards. For instance it's said that a woman will shrink up some and may find intercourse painful afterwards.

well from our experience. And yes, the change occurs to her, but it happens to both of us, it was rather easy. She's actually more orgasmic now than before. She didn't really have hot flashes, got a little bit more cranky than before, but all in all, she had an easy transition.

[closed291 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Member of the Month June 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed291]

That brings up a good question for me. You said you are through "the change". I would like to know more about what a woman goes through and what I might expect. My wife is 55 and isn't close yet according to her gynecologist. Someday it will come and I'm interested about the many things a woman will be going through and how things may or may not of have changed afterwards. For instance it's said that a woman will shrink up some and may find intercourse painful afterwards.

I'm curious too...I also found out that hormone replacement is not covered by my insurance.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Okay! No domestics here please, otherwise I'll have to do a "Ban Man" and put this thread into moderation! lmao

P.S. You tell him!!!

It's funny, she is sitting right next to me on her laptop. Wouldn't it have been easier for her to just turn her head and say "F&*K You"! ???? Seems to me, that is where make up sex begins. Somehow, I feel spited and lost the opportunity for some fun.

Hi Honey!

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

It's funny, she is sitting right next to me on her laptop. Wouldn't it have been easier for her to just turn her head and say "F&*K You"! ???? Seems to me, that is where make up sex begins. Somehow, I feel spited and lost the opportunity for some fun.

Hi Honey!

Good job you can cook ain't it!

Otherwise...your dinner's in the dog!!!

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

That brings up a good question for me. You said you are through "the change". I would like to know more about what a woman goes through and what I might expect. My wife is 55 and isn't close yet according to her gynecologist. Someday it will come and I'm interested about the many things a woman will be going through and how things may or may not of have changed afterwards. For instance it's said that a woman will shrink up some and may find intercourse painful afterwards.

Well, I think every woman's experience is probably different. I remember telling my doctor that I was having "cold flashes" and she informed me I wasn't close to menopause from blood work and ultra sound saying that my lining wasn't thinning. Right after that visit I missed my cycle for 3 mo. Went back to doctor and she said oh your premenopausal. Missed 8 months - Had cold and hot flashes all the time - desire for sex dwindled quickly, I became dry, could not produce any lubricant on my own, needed to buy a bottle of artificial lube - flavored of course. Became very depressed and almost got fired because I blurted some very inappropriate things to my boss at a meeting (Accused her of sleeping with someone). Went back to the doctor - eventually put me on hormone replacement and I feel normal and sex drive came back in full force and also natural lubrication came back. ZZM and I have been enjoying the "new/old" me!

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

I'm curious too...I also found out that hormone replacement is not covered by my insurance.

It can be - We called our insurance and found that if your doctor writes a letter that says you need it, it will be covered. You will not pay the generic price, it is a tier 3 drug on our insurance so cost is high but we found coupons on the web and get it for what we pay for a generic. Don't stop at NO! Call your insurance and see what you need to do to get it covered.

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That's great! It's good to know that the hormone replacement helped. I'm sure my wife will go that route also if needed. Thanks.

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

It's funny, she is sitting right next to me on her laptop. Wouldn't it have been easier for her to just turn her head and say "F&*K You"! ???? Seems to me, that is where make up sex begins. Somehow, I feel spited and lost the opportunity for some fun.

Hi Honey!

Gotta have the fight first - So: F@#k you.

Can we go upstairs now

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[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Well, I think every woman's experience is probably different. I remember telling my doctor that I was having "cold flashes" and she informed me I wasn't close to menopause from blood work and ultra sound saying that my lining wasn't thinning. Right after that visit I missed my cycle for 3 mo. Went back to doctor and she said oh your premenopausal. Missed 8 months - Had cold and hot flashes all the time - desire for sex dwindled quickly, I became dry, could not produce any lubricant on my own, needed to buy a bottle of artificial lube - flavored of course. Became very depressed and almost got fired because I blurted some very inappropriate things to my boss at a meeting (Accused her of sleeping with someone). Went back to the doctor - eventually put me on hormone replacement and I feel normal and sex drive came back in full force and also natural lubrication came back. ZZM and I have been enjoying the "new/old" me!

WOW. Your natural lube came back? I miss that. That was always a sign she wanted it. Now, I never know, unfortunately I take that personally and for me puts a damper on the event. Astroglide instead.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

I guess asking questions here on this thread is probably not something I should consider appropriate......

Hi Honey! Dinner is almost ready!

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

WOW. Your natural lube came back? I miss that. That was always a sign she wanted it. Now, I never know, unfortunately I take that personally and for me puts a damper on the event. Astroglide instead.

I wouldn't take it personal - there are however over the counter meds that help her produce her own again. Might want to look into it and have her talk openly with her doctor. I told my doctor everything and she fixed me right up.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I guess asking questions here on this thread is probably not something I should consider appropriate......

Hi Honey! Dinner is almost ready!

oh be quite. You have her right there for Gods sakes. Ask her. Then, if you both agree to it, share with us. OK?

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I wouldn't take it personal - there are however over the counter meds that help her produce her own again. Might want to look into it and have her talk openly with her doctor. I told my doctor everything and she fixed me right up.

Hmm? Talk openly with me about sex. That'd be unique.

[iDemandU2Grow Member Find all posts View Profile Close iDemandU2Grow]

No, I assure you he has a dick and I have a vagina. But after 30 years couples do start to look alike

just making sure lol