I need help with girls.

[Dea7h7rap 101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dea7h7rap 101]

This is the PERFECT situation. You are in a relaxed setting (cafe) with two other guys that are making these girls light up like fireworks, and you dont know what to say? Take what is being said and add onto it. Example: Your guy friends are sitting there and the conversation topic is that of the restaurant's menu. One of them is like "wow, so many choices what should i get!? You then follow up with something like "Well how about you be a man, and stop acting like the stereotypical decision-impared woman!" The women will giggle and your friend will be caught off guard. Say something like "just saying dude, your giving off a woman vibe, keep it up and I might come onto you!!!" Just try and hop in on the conversations. Add the first things that come to your mind when these conversations are happening. Even if you say something dumb, you will learn what works and what doesnt.

[Flanker6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Flanker6]

Scythe, you've gotten great advice from everyone here. Now get out there and use it! Just like with anything practice makes perfect. People are not born womanizers, some have an easier time than others but basically it boils down to Confidence, some are born with it others aren't but the beautiful thing is you can learn it! Just practice! Don't worry about rejection EVERYONE has been rejected at some point. You can't let it dissuade you. Basically get out there, feel natural and not nervous, and let whatever happens happen.

[RyanV Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RyanV]

I would say: do what Sidewinder said in his last post. When you're done with those steps, you will be different than before.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I know first hand how you feel because when I was 19, I felt EXACTLY as you do. I'm now approaching 40 and have learned ALOT about women and relationships for the past 4 decades I've been on this planet.

While confidence is totally key to success with girls and/or women, being yourself also plays huge into that. Don't be fake or be something your not. Women pick up on that shit and that will totally turn them off. I also agree with what was said above about forgetting about the getting laid part and such for the time being. To get to where you want to be, you need to start slow. Getting involved with weights and strength training is an excellent way to build self confidence. For what it's worth, I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22 freakin' years old.........WAY late in my book but it was what it was.

I realize I'm in a different age bracket than you are but the one thing I've found in my "advanced" age is that I simply don't give a fuck what women think of me. I try to be as positive and upbeat and outgoing as I possibly can and I am very confident and I've come to find that more women now flock to me than they ever used to but it's taken me literally years to get to this point in my life. You're only 19 and have your whole life ahead of you. If you want to start getting women to notice you and so forth, you are going to need to be more outgoing. Be willing to introduce yourself and don't be afraid to make a mistake. It's going to happen. You just keep moving and don't worry about it. Work on building up your self esteem and self confidence first. When you start noticing that your losing your inhibitions and are simply walking up to girls, introducing yourself and just starting up a conversation, THAT is how you know your self confidence is where it should be. The rest will fall into place naturally. And once this happens, THEN my friend, you will definitely get laid.

[Leviathan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Leviathan]

Ok, it's time for my $.02 here.

Scythe, you need not worry about not having any experiences with woman. To be honest, for me, looking back on things there is a part of me that wishes that I had never been with a woman before meeting the woman that is now my wife.

Be content with yourself! Let things happen on their own. There is no shame in doing something like that. Any man who tells you that your lack of experience makes you less of a man is in fact the lesser man themselves.

This ^^^

Don't sweat it, don't go out looking for it, & when the right girl comes along you'll know as she'll accept you for who you are, how you act, what you do, your passions, etc. Best relationships are sometimes found when you don't go looking for them, but let them come to you

Also, don't treat women like they're this creature from another planet. Most of us girls are just like guys. Only difference is what's between our legs.

[ virginity, kissing, etc...don't worry about it. Seriously. It'll happen when it happens, & when it does, it'll be just right. ] ~

[Byronic Hero Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Byronic Hero]

Many of you may remember me, many of you may not.
I used to be very active here a few months back. But then I stopped PE because I went into depression.
I started visiting a clinical psychologist and things got better.
Im in a different city now, away from my family, study in a law college. I am going to become a corporate lawyer.

I am frustrated because I have never had any relationships with women in my life.
Im 19, and I'm still a virgin. I have never had a real girlfriend, nor have I ever kissed or made out with anyone.
All of this makes me feel like total crap. I have low self esteem and low self confidence.

Ironically, my best friend is a womanizer. He's had no problems having women.
I just don't know what to do.

1) I don't know how to introduce myself to a girl I'm interested in.
2) I dont know how to start a conversation with them
3) I dont know what to talk about, what to say
4) Im always afraid of embarrasing myself and then being 'judged' by them
5) I don't know how to take friendship to the next level.
6) I don't know what to do, to get girls to notice me.
7) I look like a geek. I have glasses as well.
8) I don't know how to fix my appearance to attract women.

Basically I know NOTHING about dating or relationships or girls in general, because I have never made the effort to make friends with girls.
I never used to go out much..parents were strict, never let me socialize.
But now Im in a different city, all alone. I can really go for it as I have no restrictions! I want to get laid! BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!

I am really late on the scene. Most of my friends have been playing the "game" for over 3-4 years!

I recommend you to check out girlschase.com for self improvement for getting girls and achieving almost anything

[Qarzan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qarzan]

Wow. There's lots of advice in this thread. If I were Scythe, my head would be spinning with information right now.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

He hasn't been on for some time.