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  • #16
    I have to say that I also agree with CUSP. Before my wife and I were married we use to go on mini vacations, neither of us had much money, but she would usually throw in what she could, then I would pay for the rest. Its a bit different since i guess you did not invite her, but at the end of the day is the relation worth the $250 to you? I bet if you pay for her she will be grateful, and if she is not, then its a good $250 (extra) investment on running away from the relationship.
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    • #17
      More than likely MBD she would have brought money along to help out. Maybe the problem was that you asked her. Hey if you love this person, and it sounds like you do, call her, tell her you were being stupid and cheap, go and have fun, put some money on the credit card, and enjoy your time together. It's not going to make you homeless. So you have to work a bit harder to pay it off but you seem so happy with her you have to go for it. Besides if you have a woman you will always be broke! They do that to you! ( Take that BW)
      The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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      • #18
        Originally posted by MrBigDick View Post
        I wouldn't really call this a "date". This was a trip that I would've taken anyway due to my having to use the airfare I originally purchased earlier thisw year. She just offered to go along. As for the meals and other incidentals, I simply can't afford to pay for the both of us...........I just don't have the money and I'm not using my credit card to do it. I could just say "screw it" and pay anyway but I don't want to do that. She acts like I have more money to burn than she does and therefore, she's entitled to not bring any money with her and allow me to pay for everything. I still fall on the bottom line: She knows what her financial situation is like....if she couldn't afford to do this, she had a moral and responsible obligation to say "I'm sorry, I'd like to go but I simply can't afford to" and that would've been the end of it.

        We'll see what she says today.

        by date i meant date of departure not date date but for romantic weekends away woman do think men will be picking up the wining and dining bill (not saying that is right but it is how it is)
        i do agree with what you are saying, I was really just throwing out ideas.
        If you are feeling stubborn and not willing to pay the extra $250, Then i really do suggest you talk to her about what she feels she can afford and work from there.... you said the last time you had to cancel a flight it cost you $150, so you know if you cancel (even just her flight) then you will be out $150 ... so maybe set that as you limit for how much more you are willing to spend and ask her if she is able to contribute $100 ... and express and communicate your own financial situation .. it sounds like you just let her go off on you with out actually explaining your side of things.
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        • #19
          oh one more thing, do you think she is worried about leaving her special needs son, when was the last time she left him in the care of another person for a long duration of time?.. ...Going by your other posts on the forum, she sounds like she would enjoy a trip with you, a bit of alone time, a holiday where she can focus on herself a little more and get some TLC. I do wonder if something else is at play and the money might have just been a convenient excuse, the real concern might be her son.
          ~ If.....
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          ~ Lust and Love


          “It is so hard to leave—until you leave. And then it is the easiest goddamned thing in the world.”




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          • #20
            Well, you'll all be happy to know that the issue has been taken care of. I did apologize for my insensitive words (I don't recall them being insensitive but hey, I was under the influence of cold medicine). I also told her that I TOTALLY understood her situation and that we could go or not go, it was up to her and that I would love her no matter what the decision was. I further told her that I did understand her hardships because I'm a single parent too and totally get why $250 would be a big issue for her. Yes, I should just suck it up and pay her food bill...............we would just have to go cheap.

            She sent me a text this morning that my email meant alot and we should go on our trip. So we're going.

            Going forward though, I will keep this incident in mind as a learning tool for future situations.
            It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)

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            • #21
              You got out of it by saying you were under the influence of cold medicine? I got to try that one but I know it won't work. Go have a good time! By the way you will post all the gory details when you get back like you used to! Won't you? Come on be a sport!
              The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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              • #22
                We all "pay for it" in one way or another..
                Starting: 4/1/10 - bpel 6.00 x 5.00 meg
                Current: 4/1/12 - bpel 7.30 x 5.20 meg, bpfsl 8.10
                Final Goal - bpel 7.75 x 5.75 meg
                If you just read this, do 10 quick kegels

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                • #23


                  Glad its all sorted.
                  "Self improvement is masturbation"
                  -Brad Pitt

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                  • #24
                    When's your trip, MrBD?

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by Batwoman View Post
                      When's your trip, MrBD?
                      2 weeks..........on November 11th.
                      It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)

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                      • #26
                        i'm happy you managed to get things worked out .. hope you have a fun fun time
                        ~ If.....
                        ~ TTBB big-ginners program for JPopping boobies
                        ~ Lust and Love


                        “It is so hard to leave—until you leave. And then it is the easiest goddamned thing in the world.”




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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
                          You got out of it by saying you were under the influence of cold medicine? I got to try that one but I know it won't work. Go have a good time! By the way you will post all the gory details when you get back like you used to! Won't you? Come on be a sport!
                          Actually, when she initially blasted me, she told me I must've been under the influence of some pretty serious cold medicine because she was startled at how I spoke to her. That's why I used the cold medicine.........and it was true.....I was tired and didn't feel good.

                          All the gory details CUSP???? You know I'll do that.............like the day when I pissed her off, we went upstairs while her son was at the movies. I bent her over the bed and while still in my Seahawks jersey, proceeded to shove my big, lubricated cock right into that tight, warm, moist pussy and I fucked her good and hard. Then we went out and I opened my big mouth.
                          It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)

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                          • #28
                            Originally posted by TittyTittyBangBang View Post
                            i'm happy you managed to get things worked out .. hope you have a fun fun time
                            Oh we will TTBB.....it'll be alot of fun.
                            It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)

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                            • #29
                              Hope it goes smooth for you.
                              Maybe you'll score some unexpected cash by then. Here's to hoping ;D
                              "Self improvement is masturbation"
                              -Brad Pitt

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by rockwell View Post
                                Hope it goes smooth for you.
                                Maybe you'll score some unexpected cash by then. Here's to hoping ;D

                                Yeah, wouldn't that be nice?
                                It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)

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